Penguin already brought up exactly that.ShinRun wrote:
I think you guys are missing the main point which is how gay does liking femboy truly makes you.
Would I still be gay if I smashed a femboy mainly for his feminine features?
Also I 100% agree with him here.Penguin wrote:
I think being gay is a spectrum. Liking femboys puts you closer to the gay side, but not fully gay. It also depends on WHY you like femboys.
If they consider themselves male and you're aware of this and are still attracted to them, it's at least a little gay. But that's perfectly fine.
I never liked the meme discussion of if liking femboys makes you gay that kept popping up years ago. I'm sure there were some that were genuinely curious and wanted to have a harmless discussion about it, but it felt like a lot of people were using it to try and defend themselves on how they're "not gay because being gay is weird!" That antiquated stigma that many of those people share (whether they realize it or not) is what gets to me. As in why are they so scared of the answer being "yes"? Who fucking cares brother stop holding yourself back for stupidass reasons.
Note: this last part wasn't directed towards anyone in the thread, it's just a tangent of mine.