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being masculine kinda sucks tbh

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Patatitta
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Patatitta
like actually, some of the shit that is considered masculine or valuable or whatever are "being a leader", "being a lone wolf", "be competitive", "be the center of attention", "act strong" and all of those things suck ass

like really, they often take a lot of effort, have no real reward, and it isn't at all what I personally want as a person. Like why the fuck would I want to be a independant and a lone wolf or whatever, that's just making life harder on yourself, if you can be part of a group or even having a couple that just helps you in your day to day life, why the fuck wouldn't I want that?????????, being a leader is just taking extra responsability for often little reward, being competitive is exhausting, etc

not a shitpost this is just my unfiltered dogshit opinion
Manishh
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Joined October 2020
Manishh
be Kind
B0ii
591 posts
Joined November 2021
B0ii
be respectful
Reyalp51
962 posts
Joined April 2021
Reyalp51


cope
Corne2Plum3
Global Moderator
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Joined November 2019
Corne2Plum3
true

Plus alphas males does not exists among wolves
Patatitta
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Joined February 2020
Topic Starter
Patatitta

Corne2Plum3 wrote:

true

Plus alphas males does not exists among wolves
was talking more about the concept of masculinity itself more than sigma/alpha shit, but that's also true
Corne2Plum3
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Corne2Plum3

Patatitta wrote:

Corne2Plum3 wrote:

true

Plus alphas males does not exists among wolves
was talking more about the concept of masculinity itself more than sigma/alpha shit, but that's also true
The alpha/sigma shit is part of it actually
Patatitta
1,245 posts
Joined February 2020
Topic Starter
Patatitta

Corne2Plum3 wrote:

Patatitta wrote:

Corne2Plum3 wrote:

true

Plus alphas males does not exists among wolves
was talking more about the concept of masculinity itself more than sigma/alpha shit, but that's also true
The alpha/sigma shit is part of it actually
I mean a lot of society still operate under those values and haven't ever heard of what an alpha male is, this is just considered to be the "traditional male values"
Reyalp51
962 posts
Joined April 2021
Reyalp51
dont worry patata i will be your alpha male
roufou
987 posts
Joined September 2011
roufou
I know how it feels
Manishh
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Joined October 2020
Manishh

Reyalp51 wrote:



cope
are you 39% gay?
Reyalp51
962 posts
Joined April 2021
Reyalp51

Manishh wrote:

Reyalp51 wrote:



cope
are you 39% gay?
thats not me
lostsilver
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Joined November 2022
lostsilver

Manishh wrote:

be Kind

B0ii wrote:

be respectful
yes
burgernfat
17 posts
Joined March 2021
burgernfat
i agree. i have no fucking idea how toxic masculinity became idealized but i fucking hate the fact that it is
z0z
505 posts
Joined February 2018
z0z
haha societal norms
ColdTooth
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Joined June 2012
ColdTooth
of course your opinion is dogshit
Duck o-o
1,391 posts
Joined November 2021
Duck o-o

ColdTooth wrote:

of course your opinion is dogshit
hes weeb, speaks mexican and isnt shrigma male pilled

its so over for potato
ColdTooth
1,104 posts
Joined June 2012
ColdTooth

Dementedduck wrote:

ColdTooth wrote:

of course your opinion is dogshit
hes weeb, speaks mexican and isnt shrigma male pilled

its so over for potato
and you're bri'ish
Polyspora
449 posts
Joined September 2019
Polyspora

ColdTooth wrote:

Dementedduck wrote:

ColdTooth wrote:

of course your opinion is dogshit
hes weeb, speaks mexican and isnt shrigma male pilled

its so over for potato
and you're bri'ish
He looks brazilo
Scyla
69 posts
Joined February 2022
Scyla

Manishh wrote:

be Kind

lostsilver wrote:

Manishh wrote:

be Kind

B0ii wrote:

be respectful
yes
be gay
z0z
505 posts
Joined February 2018
z0z

Scyla wrote:

lostsilver wrote:

Manishh wrote:

be Kind

B0ii wrote:

be respectful
yes
be gay
be horny
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Karmine
890 posts
Joined November 2015
Karmine
ColdTooth is a woman btw.
Manishh
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Joined October 2020
Manishh

Karmine wrote:

ColdTooth is a woman btw.
no wonder
Corne2Plum3
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Corne2Plum3

ColdTooth wrote:

Dementedduck wrote:

ColdTooth wrote:

of course your opinion is dogshit
hes weeb, speaks mexican and isnt shrigma male pilled

its so over for potato
and you're bri'ish
no hate please
Reyalp51
962 posts
Joined April 2021
Reyalp51

Corne2Plum3 wrote:

ColdTooth wrote:

Dementedduck wrote:

ColdTooth wrote:

of course your opinion is dogshit
hes weeb, speaks mexican and isnt shrigma male pilled

its so over for potato
and you're bri'ish
no hate please
AND YOU ARE FRENCH
Ymir
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Joined June 2020
Ymir
I feel like that's some hyper masculinity that no man will ever be able to accomplish anymore, to the point where it's unrealistic to expect anyone to meet those standards.

Just be strong and kind, that's masculine enough. Strength also means something different from person to person.
Everything else you mentioned are side-quests.
Patatitta
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Topic Starter
Patatitta

Ymir wrote:

I feel like that's some hyper masculinity that no man will ever be able to accomplish anymore, to the point where it's unrealistic to expect anyone to meet those standards.

Just be strong and kind, that's masculine enough. Strength also means something different from person to person.
Everything else you mentioned are side-quests.
I mean, those are values that every single human being should have. Being strong (either phisically or mentally) and being kind to others is as masculine as it is femenine as it is neither, those are core human values, not something masculine
Winnyace
641 posts
Joined June 2016
Winnyace
I agree with you. I've noticed that a lot of these people that say a man should be traditionally masculine are often times conservative in their views about the world.

Some of these qualities can help one out. Being competitive, for example, can be a quality that makes one persevere in something that they truly wish to achieve, but it has to be done in a way that isn't destructive to you as a person and/or others around you. Being strong is also a pretty good quality one could have, since not everything should put you down, but again, it should be done in a way that isn't destructive to you and/or others.

I will say that being extremely submissive, for the lack of a better word, also isn't great, though. One needs a balance in this matter, alongside knowing yourself and what you care and don't care about. I think that's the biggest issue we have currently in the world we live in.
Ymir
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Joined June 2020
Ymir

Patatitta wrote:

Ymir wrote:

I feel like that's some hyper masculinity that no man will ever be able to accomplish anymore, to the point where it's unrealistic to expect anyone to meet those standards.

Just be strong and kind, that's masculine enough. Strength also means something different from person to person.
Everything else you mentioned are side-quests.
I mean, those are values that every single human being should have. Being strong (either phisically or mentally) and being kind to others is as masculine as it is femenine as it is neither, those are core human values, not something masculine
Exactly, but if a man does it they're masculine and if a woman does it they're feminine.
Though I believe a man's strength should extend to protecting those around him considering men are more capable of putting muscle and whatnot.
Winnyace
641 posts
Joined June 2016
Winnyace

Ymir wrote:

Patatitta wrote:

Ymir wrote:

I feel like that's some hyper masculinity that no man will ever be able to accomplish anymore, to the point where it's unrealistic to expect anyone to meet those standards.

Just be strong and kind, that's masculine enough. Strength also means something different from person to person.
Everything else you mentioned are side-quests.
I mean, those are values that every single human being should have. Being strong (either phisically or mentally) and being kind to others is as masculine as it is femenine as it is neither, those are core human values, not something masculine
Exactly, but if a man does it they're masculine and if a woman does it they're feminine.
Though I believe a man's strength should extend to protecting those around him considering men are more capable of putting muscle and whatnot.
A male body does have more muscle and in general produces more chemicals that aid in his physical performance, but it depends on a case by case basis. I'm saying this because I can barely do a pushup. 😅

I do agree with you, though.
Patatitta
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Joined February 2020
Topic Starter
Patatitta

Ymir wrote:

Patatitta wrote:

Ymir wrote:

I feel like that's some hyper masculinity that no man will ever be able to accomplish anymore, to the point where it's unrealistic to expect anyone to meet those standards.

Just be strong and kind, that's masculine enough. Strength also means something different from person to person.
Everything else you mentioned are side-quests.
I mean, those are values that every single human being should have. Being strong (either phisically or mentally) and being kind to others is as masculine as it is femenine as it is neither, those are core human values, not something masculine
Exactly, but if a man does it they're masculine and if a woman does it they're feminine.
Though I believe a man's strength should extend to protecting those around him considering men are more capable of putting muscle and whatnot.
if there is no difference between masculinity and femininity what's the point of those terms and concepts even existing?
Ymir
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Joined June 2020
Ymir
(quoting Winny)
Yeah that is very true, I dont think I'll ever be strong either compared to other people.

Patatitta wrote:

Ymir wrote:

Patatitta wrote:

Ymir wrote:

I feel like that's some hyper masculinity that no man will ever be able to accomplish anymore, to the point where it's unrealistic to expect anyone to meet those standards.

Just be strong and kind, that's masculine enough. Strength also means something different from person to person.
Everything else you mentioned are side-quests.
I mean, those are values that every single human being should have. Being strong (either phisically or mentally) and being kind to others is as masculine as it is femenine as it is neither, those are core human values, not something masculine
Exactly, but if a man does it they're masculine and if a woman does it they're feminine.
Though I believe a man's strength should extend to protecting those around him considering men are more capable of putting muscle and whatnot.
if there is no difference between masculinity and femininity what's the point of those terms and concepts even existing?

Whilst I can't put it into words myself, there is certainly a difference. The way you speak is a prime example. You could be the most muscular man imaginable but the second you start speaking like a woman you will be considered feminine lul.
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sametdze
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sametdze

Ymir wrote:

Yeah that is very true, I dont think I'll ever be strong either compared to other people.
problems only 3'2 people face 🙏
Ymir
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Joined June 2020
Ymir

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

Yeah that is very true, I dont think I'll ever be strong either compared to other people.
problems only 3'2 people face 🙏
Weren't you born with a mental illness?
sametdze
339 posts
Joined July 2021
sametdze

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

Yeah that is very true, I dont think I'll ever be strong either compared to other people.
problems only 3'2 people face 🙏
Weren't you born with a mental illness?
weren't you born with dwarfism?
Ymir
1,757 posts
Joined June 2020
Ymir

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

Yeah that is very true, I dont think I'll ever be strong either compared to other people.
problems only 3'2 people face 🙏
Weren't you born with a mental illness?
weren't you born with dwarfism?
No, I wasnt born with a condition. But you were definitely born a retard it probably says it somewhere on a piece of paper.
sametdze
339 posts
Joined July 2021
sametdze

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

Yeah that is very true, I dont think I'll ever be strong either compared to other people.
problems only 3'2 people face 🙏
Weren't you born with a mental illness?
weren't you born with dwarfism?
No, I wasnt born with a condition. But you were definitely born a retard it probably says it somewhere on a piece of paper.
i'd rather be a retard than be a midget ngl

also i can feel your aggression in this post so if you want me to stop calling you short just tell me
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Reyalp51
962 posts
Joined April 2021
Reyalp51

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

Yeah that is very true, I dont think I'll ever be strong either compared to other people.
problems only 3'2 people face 🙏
Weren't you born with a mental illness?
weren't you born with dwarfism?
Ymir
1,757 posts
Joined June 2020
Ymir

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

Yeah that is very true, I dont think I'll ever be strong either compared to other people.
problems only 3'2 people face 🙏
Weren't you born with a mental illness?
weren't you born with dwarfism?
No, I wasnt born with a condition. But you were definitely born a retard it probably says it somewhere on a piece of paper.
i'd rather be a retard than be a midget ngl

also i can feel your aggression in this post so if you want me to stop calling you short just tell me
Let's make a deal: you call me midget, I call you retard

Also it's find dw
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sametdze
339 posts
Joined July 2021
sametdze

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

Yeah that is very true, I dont think I'll ever be strong either compared to other people.
problems only 3'2 people face 🙏
Weren't you born with a mental illness?
weren't you born with dwarfism?
No, I wasnt born with a condition. But you were definitely born a retard it probably says it somewhere on a piece of paper.
i'd rather be a retard than be a midget ngl

also i can feel your aggression in this post so if you want me to stop calling you short just tell me
Let's make a deal: you call me midget, I call you retard

Also it's find dw
deal
sametdze
339 posts
Joined July 2021
sametdze

Reyalp51 wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

Yeah that is very true, I dont think I'll ever be strong either compared to other people.
problems only 3'2 people face 🙏
Weren't you born with a mental illness?
weren't you born with dwarfism?

wtf is this image supposed to mean?
Ymir
1,757 posts
Joined June 2020
Ymir
Apparently it means you won the argument 💔
Kobold84
Global Moderator
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Kobold84

sametdze wrote:

Reyalp51 wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

Yeah that is very true, I dont think I'll ever be strong either compared to other people.
problems only 3'2 people face 🙏
Weren't you born with a mental illness?
weren't you born with dwarfism?

wtf is this image supposed to mean?
His sides are in orbit.
Reyalp51
962 posts
Joined April 2021
Reyalp51
but yeah our instincts to protect and provide to our loved ones is poggers
Polyspora
449 posts
Joined September 2019
Polyspora

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

Yeah that is very true, I dont think I'll ever be strong either compared to other people.
problems only 3'2 people face 🙏
Weren't you born with a mental illness?
weren't you born with dwarfism?
No, I wasnt born with a condition. But you were definitely born a retard it probably says it somewhere on a piece of paper.
He’s autistic, that’s not a “condition” in the sense you’re talking lol
Also he’s 14 stop fighting with a kid
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Ymir
1,757 posts
Joined June 2020
Ymir

Polyspora wrote:

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

Yeah that is very true, I dont think I'll ever be strong either compared to other people.
problems only 3'2 people face 🙏
Weren't you born with a mental illness?
weren't you born with dwarfism?
No, I wasnt born with a condition. But you were definitely born a retard it probably says it somewhere on a piece of paper.
He’s autistic, that’s not a “condition” in the sense you’re talking lol
Also he’s 14 stop fighting with a kid
Omg!!! Poly is here to save the day,,,, 3 hours late!
It's just a bit of banter lad, I swear you misinterpret everything on purpose.
Duck o-o
1,391 posts
Joined November 2021
Duck o-o

Ymir wrote:

Polyspora wrote:

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

Yeah that is very true, I dont think I'll ever be strong either compared to other people.
problems only 3'2 people face 🙏
Weren't you born with a mental illness?
weren't you born with dwarfism?
No, I wasnt born with a condition. But you were definitely born a retard it probably says it somewhere on a piece of paper.
He’s autistic, that’s not a “condition” in the sense you’re talking lol
Also he’s 14 stop fighting with a kid
Omg!!! Poly is here to save the day,,,, 3 hours late!
It's just a bit of banter lad, I swear you misinterpret everything on purpose.
3 foot tall indian man angry at compooter screen smh
Manishh
2,093 posts
Joined October 2020
Manishh

Dementedduck wrote:

Ymir wrote:

Polyspora wrote:

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

sametdze wrote:

Ymir wrote:

Yeah that is very true, I dont think I'll ever be strong either compared to other people.
problems only 3'2 people face 🙏
Weren't you born with a mental illness?
weren't you born with dwarfism?
No, I wasnt born with a condition. But you were definitely born a retard it probably says it somewhere on a piece of paper.
He’s autistic, that’s not a “condition” in the sense you’re talking lol
Also he’s 14 stop fighting with a kid
Omg!!! Poly is here to save the day,,,, 3 hours late!
It's just a bit of banter lad, I swear you misinterpret everything on purpose.
3 foot tall indian man angry at compooter screen smh
damn bring some ice for ymir
ColdTooth
1,104 posts
Joined June 2012
ColdTooth

Corne2Plum3 wrote:

ColdTooth wrote:

Dementedduck wrote:

ColdTooth wrote:

of course your opinion is dogshit
hes weeb, speaks mexican and isnt shrigma male pilled

its so over for potato
and you're bri'ish
no hate please
...f-f-f-french,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, *COUGHS*


Karmine wrote:

ColdTooth is a woman btw.
I'm glad someone is keeping the trend up

...wait a minute you are french too AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
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Polyspora
449 posts
Joined September 2019
Polyspora

Corne2Plum3 wrote:

ColdTooth wrote:

Dementedduck wrote:

ColdTooth wrote:

of course your opinion is dogshit
hes weeb, speaks mexican and isnt shrigma male pilled

its so over for potato
and you're bri'ish
no hate please
only americans are valid dummy
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