spreading love is free but i guess so is spreading hate
you see I post this type of things on the internet but when I get called out on it I say it's a jokeYmir wrote:
I hate at least half of the things you listed
when have I ever been called out on itPatatitta wrote:
you see I post this type of things on the internet but when I get called out on it I say it's a jokeYmir wrote:
I hate at least half of the things you listed
isn't this post on itself a callout, like man, being homophobic/racist/whatever is just not very coolYmir wrote:
when have I ever been called out on itPatatitta wrote:
you see I post this type of things on the internet but when I get called out on it I say it's a jokeYmir wrote:
I hate at least half of the things you listed
You must know I care alotPatatitta wrote:
isn't this post on itself a callout, like man, being homophobic/racist/whatever is just not very coolYmir wrote:
when have I ever been called out on itPatatitta wrote:
you see I post this type of things on the internet but when I get called out on it I say it's a jokeYmir wrote:
I hate at least half of the things you listed
that's the typical defense, yeahPatatitta wrote:
you see I post this type of things on the internet but when I get called out on it I say it's a jokeYmir wrote:
I hate at least half of the things you listed
with that being said, shoutout to the demographics which typically represent the personalities and perspectives i am most likely to be comfortable with ^^Achromalia wrote:
this is a very sweet thoughti think part of this is also that people are likely going to stick with their cliques and most interactions with one another beyond that will tend to be surface-level and generally harmless (or we adapt ourselves somewhat to one another to at least not be exceedingly contentious), which presumably is also a deliberate feature
it may just be me speaking for myself, but many connections are typically pretty shallow and are not as productive or gratifying as many might have preferred. in a place with this specific arrangement of diversity (which also is... only nominally diverse in my opinion, there are very heavy leanings on who is most likely to be represented and who is most likely to have a regular and significant presence), it reads to me like a lot of personal connections necessarily must exist in more private contexts beyond these forums because of these variable demographics
some people may have more caustic edgy sociocultural/sociopolitical humor and will find it to be much more comfortable to specifically be around people who are not going to be offended by a joke when it's something that neither of them particularly care about anyway
some people are super-saccharine or otherwise appear "not like who they really are" or are otherwise perceived to be "trying to be something they're not" according to others, and so there's a certain level of distance and detachment there
some of us have either a hypersexual or very crudely playful form of humor that others will probably avoid engaging with, gathering a moderate amount of stale comments denoting how cringe those posts/threads appear to be...
...and some may be too serious for many of the people here, or type up essays about topics others don't necessarily care that much about, and even if it mattered to someone, it may still be tiring to open up a thread and be greeted with that
and more, but these are some of the more notable archetypes for me
of course, most of everyone here seems to be comfortable (or at least tries to be) with moving on and being selective about the extent and nature of their engagement with one another. so, i'd say it's not necessarily that we connect and get along very well (although i imagine many of us do! i don't know for sure), but rather that we're just generally being decent at conflict avoidance. we typically don't cause each other trouble and most comments that describe a genuine disinterest or dislike of something will probably be mild or not really something that is designed to be taken seriously or personally
...i wonder if that makes any sense to people, but that's my general assessment :>
still love the sentiment of this thread tho <3
Do we though? Can't think of a single one.sametdze wrote:
neurotypical
Ymir wrote:
OP you forgot to mention furries, disappointed in you.
Pretty sure these 2 include furries.sametdze wrote:
neurodivergent
lgbtq people
meKarmine wrote:
Do we though? Can't think of a single one.sametdze wrote:
neurotypical
No way Karmine made this joke what timeline do we live in?Karmine wrote:
Ymir wrote:
OP you forgot to mention furries, disappointed in you.Pretty sure these 2 include furries.sametdze wrote:
neurodivergent
lgbtq people
now i wonder how old you areKobold84 wrote:
No truly old men. Yet.
no you can't say lgbtq and neurodivergents are furries by defaultKarmine wrote:
Do we though? Can't think of a single one.sametdze wrote:
neurotypicalYmir wrote:
OP you forgot to mention furries, disappointed in you.Pretty sure these 2 include furries.sametdze wrote:
neurodivergent
lgbtq people
Knowing some Romanians, perhaps it's for the best.Winnyace wrote:
and yet only one romanian :c
I've masked the tism for a while.xch00F wrote:
I've had to learn how to masquerade as neurotypical over the years but goddamn is it hard
I swear, ever since leaving my last job a year ago, teh autism has gotten more and more potent
I have yet to see one.z0z wrote:
what about the cishet and neurotypical furries?
erm.............Lyawi wrote:
now i wonder how old you areKobold84 wrote:
No truly old men. Yet.
YOUNG I MEAN YOUNG
isn't that just corneKarmine wrote:
I have yet to see one.z0z wrote:
what about the cishet and neurotypical furries?
There's 0 chance he's neurotypical, also probably not het considering the stuff he's shared before.z0z wrote:
isn't that just corneKarmine wrote:
I have yet to see one.z0z wrote:
what about the cishet and neurotypical furries?
it sucks, it's like a use it or lose it kinda thing lmaogreat_elmo wrote:
I've masked the tism for a while.xch00F wrote:
I've had to learn how to masquerade as neurotypical over the years but goddamn is it hard
I swear, ever since leaving my last job a year ago, teh autism has gotten more and more potent
I feel your pain.
I think he already mentioned here that he's neurodivergent, although I might be confusing it.Karmine wrote:
There's 0 chance he's neurotypical, also probably not het considering the stuff he's shared before.z0z wrote:
isn't that just corneKarmine wrote:
I have yet to see one.z0z wrote:
what about the cishet and neurotypical furries?
no wonder it's so dusty herexch00F wrote:
I'm in my 30s, is that "old"
Just ppl in ot in general lolsametdze wrote:
specifically me or
i could see neurodivergent but i remember him saying he was straight before?Behrauder wrote:
I think he already mentioned here that he's neurodivergent, although I might be confusing it.Karmine wrote:
There's 0 chance he's neurotypical, also probably not het considering the stuff he's shared before.z0z wrote:
isn't that just corneKarmine wrote:
I have yet to see one.z0z wrote:
what about the cishet and neurotypical furries?
He also said he's ace and almost posted porn so I wouldn't take his word for it lol.z0z wrote:
i could see neurodivergent but i remember him saying he was straight before?Behrauder wrote:
I think he already mentioned here that he's neurodivergent, although I might be confusing it.Karmine wrote:
There's 0 chance he's neurotypical, also probably not het considering the stuff he's shared before.z0z wrote:
isn't that just corneKarmine wrote:
I have yet to see one.z0z wrote:
what about the cishet and neurotypical furries?
HE WHATKarmine wrote:
He also said he's ace and almost posted porn so I wouldn't take his word for it lol.z0z wrote:
i could see neurodivergent but i remember him saying he was straight before?Behrauder wrote:
I think he already mentioned here that he's neurodivergent, although I might be confusing it.Karmine wrote:
There's 0 chance he's neurotypical, also probably not het considering the stuff he's shared before.z0z wrote:
isn't that just corneKarmine wrote:
I have yet to see one.z0z wrote:
what about the cishet and neurotypical furries?
Sometimes it's hard for me to respond to topics for this reason. I didn't say this out loud for a while, but how far can you be mean on the internet while still being "civil"? And until what age will we be enthralled by testing these limits? It makes me wonder about many things.Aireunaeus wrote:
Just ppl in ot in general lolsametdze wrote:
specifically me or
Because i barely hear a single good thing in ot
he's probably talking about that one time they posted softcore- Marco - wrote:
HE WHATKarmine wrote:
He also said he's ace and almost posted porn so I wouldn't take his word for it lol.z0z wrote:
i could see neurodivergent but i remember him saying he was straight before?Behrauder wrote:
I think he already mentioned here that he's neurodivergent, although I might be confusing it.Karmine wrote:
There's 0 chance he's neurotypical, also probably not het considering the stuff he's shared before.z0z wrote:
isn't that just corneKarmine wrote:
I have yet to see one.z0z wrote:
what about the cishet and neurotypical furries?
The banana incident or?..Patatitta wrote:
he's probably talking about that one time they posted softcore- Marco - wrote:
HE WHATKarmine wrote:
He also said he's ace and almost posted porn so I wouldn't take his word for it lol.z0z wrote:
i could see neurodivergent but i remember him saying he was straight before?Behrauder wrote:
I think he already mentioned here that he's neurodivergent, although I might be confusing it.Karmine wrote:
There's 0 chance he's neurotypical, also probably not het considering the stuff he's shared before.z0z wrote:
isn't that just corneKarmine wrote:
I have yet to see one.z0z wrote:
what about the cishet and neurotypical furries?
? What’s the banana incident?Kobold84 wrote:
The banana incident or?..Patatitta wrote:
he's probably talking about that one time they posted softcore- Marco - wrote:
HE WHATKarmine wrote:
He also said he's ace and almost posted porn so I wouldn't take his word for it lol.z0z wrote:
i could see neurodivergent but i remember him saying he was straight before?Behrauder wrote:
I think he already mentioned here that he's neurodivergent, although I might be confusing it.Karmine wrote:
There's 0 chance he's neurotypical, also probably not het considering the stuff he's shared before.z0z wrote:
isn't that just corneKarmine wrote:
I have yet to see one.z0z wrote:
what about the cishet and neurotypical furries?
We need more Balkan people in OT.Noreu wrote:
sir
sir theres BALKAN PEOPLE IN OT. (huge disrespect because you didnt list it)
theres not so much balkans in here.. i need my homies..Kobold84 wrote:
We need more Balkan people in OT.Noreu wrote:
sir
sir theres BALKAN PEOPLE IN OT. (huge disrespect because you didnt list it)
if it makes it any better, i've got north macedonian background.. but i live in australia so idk if i countNoreu wrote:
theres not so much balkans in here.. i need my homies..Kobold84 wrote:
We need more Balkan people in OT.Noreu wrote:
sir
sir theres BALKAN PEOPLE IN OT. (huge disrespect because you didnt list it)
To be honest, yeah, you're right.Kobold84 wrote:
Knowing some Romanians, perhaps it's for the best.Winnyace wrote:
and yet only one romanian :c
being half macedonian is cool tho- i would flex on people if i was half turkish and other half came from another country-sametdze wrote:
if it makes it any better, i've got north macedonian background.. but i live in australia so idk if i countNoreu wrote:
theres not so much balkans in here.. i need my homies..Kobold84 wrote:
We need more Balkan people in OT.Noreu wrote:
sir
sir theres BALKAN PEOPLE IN OT. (huge disrespect because you didnt list it)
heartbreaking i know, i'm not actually 100% russel coight.
FreeBSD is cooler :preffty_gag wrote:
you forgot OS enthusiast (espeially Windows and Linux enthusiast)