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*serious* how do i cope

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loserotaku
i just fucking wish i could have a cute japanese jk as my gf but i cant even get any female attention. does anyone have a way for me to cope. serious answers only please.
Ymir
best option, and this work 100% of the time, is to go up to a girl and say

"where my hug at"
Stomiks
Therapy
MrMcMikey22
Do you really need it anyway? o-o
lostsilver
im not giving an answer

you can suffer (ur weird so i dont really wanna help u out)
ANGELF708
Be a femboy. To get the female, you must become the female. This is me being deadass. Worse case scenario you get a cute boyfriend.
Duck o-o

eeriepump wrote:

im not giving an answer

you can suffer (ur weird so i dont really wanna help u out)
smart
anaxii
Touch grass fella she ain't real
Lyawi

-Remi wrote:

best option, and this work 100% of the time, is to go up to a girl and say

"where my hug at"
bombastic side eye
WitherMite
just never run out of "it is what it is."'s
anaxii

-Remi wrote:

best option, and this work 100% of the time, is to go up to a girl and say

"where my hug at"
She'll slap the shit out of you if you ask her this question before she even told you "hello" LMAO
Stomiks

I AM VERY SMART wrote:

-Remi wrote:

best option, and this work 100% of the time, is to go up to a girl and say

"where my hug at"
She'll slap the shit out of you if you ask her this question before she even told you "hello" LMAO
Ohh so then you can press charges for assault and you win! That's pretty genius.
Reyalp51
Get some ultra copium
MrMcMikey22
ewww i don't wanna be that pepe breathing copium...

This just feels way too horrifying.. ><'
Karmine

Stomiks wrote:

Therapy
Sad to think he'll probably never consider this
anaxii

Stomiks wrote:

I AM VERY SMART wrote:

-Remi wrote:

best option, and this work 100% of the time, is to go up to a girl and say

"where my hug at"
She'll slap the shit out of you if you ask her this question before she even told you "hello" LMAO
Ohh so then you can press charges for assault and you win! That's pretty genius.
That's... you're right that's pretty genius xdd
Kolmas

ANGELF708 wrote:

Be a femboy. To get the female, you must become the female. This is me being deadass. Worse case scenario you get a cute boyfriend.
this
BlueChinchompa
You. Need. Help. Please.
TGGD
What are some common coping strategies?

1. Lower your expectations.
2. Ask others to help or assist you.
3. Take responsibility for the situation.
4. Engage in problem solving.
5. Maintain emotionally supportive relationships.
6. Maintain emotional composure or, alternatively, expressing distressing emotions.
definitely didn't copy this off of google :]
Stomiks

Karmine wrote:

Stomiks wrote:

Therapy
Sad to think he'll probably never consider this
I just wish when he grows up he'll regret everything he did in his teenage years. Maybe therapy isn't too late when he realizes all the awful shit he said and done.
DM FOR MUTUAL

Stomiks wrote:

Therapy
anaxii

yoony1 wrote:

Stomiks wrote:

Therapy
Arctos Sagittario
I’m saying this from not too personal experience in my country but japan may not bee too different so consider this a possible tip:

go to japan, teach english there. all you need to do is be a legally responsible citizen.

really, that’s it. you’ll have the girlfriend you wish for just because of who you are
anaxii

Arctos Sagittario wrote:

go to japan, teach english there. all you need to do is be a legally responsible citizen.

really, that’s it. you’ll have the girlfriend you wish for just because of who you are
Hmmm not sure if it will works because you need to be really trust to be an english teacher in japan.

Having knowledge of the japanese language is a thing, but being a citizen who has lived in the country for a very long time is as important.
Stomiks

I AM VERY SMART wrote:

Arctos Sagittario wrote:

go to japan, teach english there. all you need to do is be a legally responsible citizen.

really, that’s it. you’ll have the girlfriend you wish for just because of who you are
Hmmm not sure if it will works because you need to be really trust to be an english teacher in japan.

Having knowledge of the japanese language is a thing, but being a citizen who has lived in the country for a very long time is as important.
You don't have to worry about learning JP. There are plenty of foreign english teachers there who can't speak it
anaxii

Stomiks wrote:

I AM VERY SMART wrote:

Arctos Sagittario wrote:

go to japan, teach english there. all you need to do is be a legally responsible citizen.

really, that’s it. you’ll have the girlfriend you wish for just because of who you are
Hmmm not sure if it will works because you need to be really trust to be an english teacher in japan.

Having knowledge of the japanese language is a thing, but being a citizen who has lived in the country for a very long time is as important.
You don't have to worry about learning JP. There are plenty of foreign english teachers there who can't speak it
Ohh alright thank you for confirming
Topic Starter
loserotaku

Arctos Sagittario wrote:

I’m saying this from not too personal experience in my country but japan may not bee too different so consider this a possible tip:

go to japan, teach english there. all you need to do is be a legally responsible citizen.

really, that’s it. you’ll have the girlfriend you wish for just because of who you are
i hope thats the case
zazybang
I believe you really only have two options: either get a gf, or learn to not place so much self-worth in your ability to attract "female attention". Regardless of the path you choose, you should really note that there are professionals willing to assist you in achieving your goals. Considering we are a communal species - where each cog in society depends on its surrounding cogs to function - it is both fine and completely normal to seek assistance from a certified professional for help. You need to remain hopeful and positive about the future. Dark times in life are both periodic and temporary, they will reoccur at undetermined intervals. But just like entering a subway, as long as you continue moving forward, you will eventually find the exit.
Topic Starter
loserotaku

zazybang wrote:

I believe you really only have two options: either get a gf, or learn to not place so much self-worth in your ability to attract "female attention". Regardless of the path you choose, you should really note that there are professionals willing to assist you in achieving your goals. Considering we are a communal species - where each cog in society depends on its surrounding cogs to function - it is both fine and completely normal to seek assistance from a certified professional for help. You need to remain hopeful and positive about the future. Dark times in life are both periodic and temporary, they will reoccur at undetermined intervals. But just like entering a subway, as long as you continue moving forward, you will eventually find the exit.
>muh get therapy
fuck off
Reyalp51

loserotaku wrote:

zazybang wrote:

I believe you really only have two options: either get a gf, or learn to not place so much self-worth in your ability to attract "female attention". Regardless of the path you choose, you should really note that there are professionals willing to assist you in achieving your goals. Considering we are a communal species - where each cog in society depends on its surrounding cogs to function - it is both fine and completely normal to seek assistance from a certified professional for help. You need to remain hopeful and positive about the future. Dark times in life are both periodic and temporary, they will reoccur at undetermined intervals. But just like entering a subway, as long as you continue moving forward, you will eventually find the exit.
>muh get therapy
fuck off
> user gives genuine good advice
> fuck off
> refuses to elevorate any further

Stomiks

loserotaku wrote:

zazybang wrote:

I believe you really only have two options: either get a gf, or learn to not place so much self-worth in your ability to attract "female attention". Regardless of the path you choose, you should really note that there are professionals willing to assist you in achieving your goals. Considering we are a communal species - where each cog in society depends on its surrounding cogs to function - it is both fine and completely normal to seek assistance from a certified professional for help. You need to remain hopeful and positive about the future. Dark times in life are both periodic and temporary, they will reoccur at undetermined intervals. But just like entering a subway, as long as you continue moving forward, you will eventually find the exit.
>muh get therapy
fuck off
Christ man you need to recognize you have problems. Being hostile towards the only people who give you actual advice is the reason you have a bad reputation here.
synthwavesquid

Stomiks wrote:

loserotaku wrote:

zazybang wrote:

I believe you really only have two options: either get a gf, or learn to not place so much self-worth in your ability to attract "female attention". Regardless of the path you choose, you should really note that there are professionals willing to assist you in achieving your goals. Considering we are a communal species - where each cog in society depends on its surrounding cogs to function - it is both fine and completely normal to seek assistance from a certified professional for help. You need to remain hopeful and positive about the future. Dark times in life are both periodic and temporary, they will reoccur at undetermined intervals. But just like entering a subway, as long as you continue moving forward, you will eventually find the exit.
>muh get therapy
fuck off
Christ man you need to recognize you have problems. Being hostile towards the only people who give you actual advice is the reason you have a bad reputation here.
the thing is, he doesn't want actual advice. he just wants his cynicism to be unquestioningly coddled. it's only once reality finally catches up to him that he'll consider he needs help, and that's assuming he connects the dots in the first place
anaxii
Just lock this thread already, why was it created in the first place? Omggg
lostsilver
ill tell corne
Corne2Plum3

eeriepump wrote:

ill tell corne
sure
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