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Seph
Seph

Momi wrote:

CDFA wrote:

1) Speak with a trained professional.
read opinions about them lol
i have had horrible, nearly traumatizing experiences because my parents took me to whoever
Sorry to hear about that (ok wf i sound like customer service) but then that whoever isnt a professional. That or the practice there isnt as good as I think it is, being a first world country and stuff.

Being a counselor/psychologist/psychiatrist isnt just something that people take up because it pays good, but rather, it pays when you help people with their stuff. I hope the next time you visit one you won't encounter the same uneasiness you probably felt before.

Also, trained professionals arent supposed to tell you what to do, but rather guide you to the steps on being okay. Anything else is a waste of time. And to everyone, being in the field of Psychology or not, lets be mindful of what we say or do, and be a helping hand to others who needs them.
Offdensen
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Offdensen
I used to negative talk about myself about two years ago.

NOW IM PRETTY

But if anyone is sad I am here ily <3
Ashton
Ashton

Ephemeral wrote:

(serious thread)

there's been a frankly obscene level of self-depreciating or negative posts cropping up lately and i'm too old to fully fathom whether this is just some fad to be edgy and pretend to be hurting or whether people are legitimately hurting and just taking the opportunity to vent it in here (or maybe a bit of both)

while i don't wanna stifle stuff here, the level of "i'm gonna kill myself" and "my life is miserable and everything sucks" in this forum lately has exceeded any level that can be considered as "ironically amusing" by any standards, and i'm actually more than a little concerned about a few of you at this point

can we all universally agree to maybe tone back the self-dep and negging a little bit? being stupid and endearingly dumb is perfectly fine and well within the scope of OT but holy shit dudes, there's like five threads on the frontpage at the moment that are some variant of "i wanna die"

It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means stupid not to be stupid in a stupid way but stupid in a not stupid but still stupid way.
E m i
E m i

Canadian Baka wrote:

Ephemeral wrote:

(serious thread)

there's been a frankly obscene level of self-depreciating or negative posts cropping up lately and i'm too old to fully fathom whether this is just some fad to be edgy and pretend to be hurting or whether people are legitimately hurting and just taking the opportunity to vent it in here (or maybe a bit of both)

while i don't wanna stifle stuff here, the level of "i'm gonna kill myself" and "my life is miserable and everything sucks" in this forum lately has exceeded any level that can be considered as "ironically amusing" by any standards, and i'm actually more than a little concerned about a few of you at this point

can we all universally agree to maybe tone back the self-dep and negging a little bit? being stupid and endearingly dumb is perfectly fine and well within the scope of OT but holy shit dudes, there's like five threads on the frontpage at the moment that are some variant of "i wanna die"

It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means stupid not to be stupid in a stupid way but stupid in a not stupid but still stupid way.
WAt
abraker
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abraker

Momi wrote:

WAt
ok let me break this down via subsititution

It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X not to be Y
Let x = stupid
Let y = stupid in a stupid way but stupid in a not stupid but still stupid way

y is a little confusing so let's continue,

to be W in a Z way but W in a V way
Let w = stupid
Let Z = stupid
Let v = stupid but still stupid

We get,
It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X not to be W in a Z way but W in a V way

Perhaps punctuation will help
It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X; not to be W in a Z way, but W in a V way
Stanvord
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Stanvord

abraker wrote:

Momi wrote:

WAt
ok let me break this down via subsititution

It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X not to be Y
Let x = stupid
Let y = stupid in a stupid way but stupid in a not stupid but still stupid way

y is a little confusing so let's continue,

to be W in a Z way but W in a V way
Let w = stupid
Let Z = stupid
Let v = stupid but still stupid

We get,
It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X not to be W in a Z way but W in a V way

Perhaps punctuation will help
It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X; not to be W in a Z way, but W in a V way
Because this explanation helps
levesterz
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levesterz

abraker wrote:

Momi wrote:

WAt
ok let me break this down via subsititution

It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X not to be Y
Let x = stupid
Let y = stupid in a stupid way but stupid in a not stupid but still stupid way

y is a little confusing so let's continue,

to be W in a Z way but W in a V way
Let w = stupid
Let Z = stupid
Let v = stupid but still stupid

We get,
It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X not to be W in a Z way but W in a V way

Perhaps punctuation will help
It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X; not to be W in a Z way, but W in a V way
So thats mean that stupid is not stupid but actually its still stupid in a sense of stupidity and not the other stupid?
abraker
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abraker

levesterz wrote:

So thats mean that stupid is not stupid but actually its still stupid in a sense of stupidity and not the other stupid?
yes, pretty much. To be more clear,
stupid in the sense of stupidity, but not stupid in the sense of full on retarded stupidity
Stefan
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Stefan
add me as offtopic moderator, that should work
igorsprite
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igorsprite

Stefan wrote:

add me as offtopic moderator, that should work
up
abraker
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abraker

igorsprite wrote:

Stefan wrote:

add me as offtopic moderator, that should work
up
You obviously weren't here during lockthread's reign
Stefan
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Stefan
That were good times, I miss them
Hika
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Hika

CDFA wrote:

I'm going to kick your ass.
edgy aren’t we Brian

also tbh I should’ve been a moderator a while ago
Aurani
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Aurani

Ephemeral wrote:

(serious thread)

there's been a frankly obscene level of self-depreciating or negative posts cropping up lately and i'm too old to fully fathom whether this is just some fad to be edgy and pretend to be hurting or whether people are legitimately hurting and just taking the opportunity to vent it in here (or maybe a bit of both)

while i don't wanna stifle stuff here, the level of "i'm gonna kill myself" and "my life is miserable and everything sucks" in this forum lately has exceeded any level that can be considered as "ironically amusing" by any standards, and i'm actually more than a little concerned about a few of you at this point

can we all universally agree to maybe tone back the self-dep and negging a little bit? being stupid and endearingly dumb is perfectly fine and well within the scope of OT but holy shit dudes, there's like five threads on the frontpage at the moment that are some variant of "i wanna die"
Haha, wait, wait, if this is serious (I'm sorry I still can't take this as serious) it has to be the lowest point this forum has reached in the entirety of its existence, but if it's not then Phem is just a mongrel, so no matter which way I look at it here, it's sad this thread exists.

Just, holy shit.
abraker
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abraker
welcome to the OTepression era
Saturnalize
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Saturnalize

abraker wrote:

welcome to the OTepression era
Meah
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Meah

abraker wrote:

welcome to the OTepression era
igorsprite
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igorsprite

abraker wrote:

welcome to the OTepression era
Shohei Ohtani
Shohei Ohtani
ya'll were really okay with this until someone was like "fellas this is kinda gay" and then you're all like "haha yeah"
roshan117
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roshan117
this place was my help
Saturnalize
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Saturnalize

CDFA wrote:

ya'll were really okay with this until someone was like "fellas this is kinda gay" and then you're all like "haha yeah"
only in a quantity that is manageable
Vuelo Eluko
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Vuelo Eluko


i blame unemployment
E m i
E m i

xxjesus1412fanx wrote:



i blame unemployment
But mom i want to be a housewife
kai99
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kai99
glad to see eph cares about the minions of OT (´・ω・`)
Ephemeral
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Ephemeral
you might be a bunch of little trash gremlins but you're *my* trash gremlins
E m i
E m i

Ephemeral wrote:

you might be a bunch of little trash gremlins but you're *my* trash gremlins
omg i like it
Penguin
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Penguin

Ephemeral wrote:

you might be a bunch of little trash gremlins but you're *my* trash gremlins
<3
kai99
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kai99

Ephemeral wrote:

you might be a bunch of little trash gremlins but you're *my* trash gremlins
dam this is so cute. <3
ColdTooth
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ColdTooth

Ephemeral wrote:

you might be a bunch of little trash gremlins but you're *my* trash gremlins
yeah sure, a fucking little pony and an ice deer lover is *your* trash gremlins

mate, i don't think ya realize, i am **everyone's** trash gremlin
Saturnalize
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Saturnalize

Ephemeral wrote:

you might be a bunch of little trash gremlins but you're *my* trash gremlins
smh eph give me your grindr account name I'll ghost you
neeeeri14
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yeaman
clayton
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clayton
d'aww ephemeral you are my favorite trash monster
Achromalia
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Achromalia

igorsprite wrote:

Open Xuequinox's Posts

Hang Yourself

Result
oh

nice


OT: seems like things are a bit better now. i guess i could've represented my depression a bit better by actually making a thread about it on GD, though i do remember making one post fairly similar to it anyways, lemme see...

*15 minutes later*

There, t/191448&start=535. I didnt really go too deep on my depression but more on another similar troublesome thing i deal with. I don't know if i should edit it since it isn't quite as accurate as it could be.

I did shit on OT and FG forums hoping to fit in, even with my depressing shit and joking about my pointless existence. It was pretty pointless in itself, and it seems like some people noticed.

I'm still somewhat active in my self-deprecating comments, but they never seem to get me to change anything.

Welp.
Quibbly
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Quibbly
I’m too much of a happy person to be sad and depressed. Thanks for looking out for the rest of us tho <3
SpasticSurgeon
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SpasticSurgeon

Momi wrote:

CDFA wrote:

1) Speak with a trained professional.

read opinions about them lol
i have had horrible, nearly traumatizing experiences because my parents took me to whoever


Same. Some are good though. It's more about who you're compatible with, but there are some out there that can be traumatizing (or just assholes) for sure.
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Jellyblob
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x
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johnmedina999
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johnmedina999
HOLY SHITJELLYBLOB YOU'RE BACK!!!!!!!!


I can't believe this is happening! I'm your #1 fan
ColdTooth
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ColdTooth
john!!!!!!!!!! im ur #1 fan!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
abraker
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abraker
who?
johnmedina999
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pls mutual me
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