lol wrote:
Railey, EneT this one is aimed at you and anyone else whos cares
How do you deal with cancer heads??? the context is a chat room lets say, a few people the topic comes up that 1 person wants his PC upgrading so everyone gives their opinonis on how to upgrade. Cancer head comes in randomly tells us how sick his PC is, everyone ignores him and carries on with suggestions, then cancer head comes back and tells us how he has 2 slots for expansion his pc is future proof no one is a good as him etc. Like already this person has pissed me off, but moving on to a another topic hacking comes up. Someone says hes found a hacker, nothing more, not how much it costs, not who the person is not where he got them from. Cancer head comes flying in with this shit talk 'lol why would anyone buy hacks when you could make them yourself lol lol lol', this guy obviously isnt stupid he knows the answer to that question hes just bragging about being able to code or some shit. At this point i call out the guy tell him that no one cares, no one asked about how good his stuff is, what he can do, we might if he delivered it better but atm just fuck off. from that i get the typical 15 year old weeb replies LOL MAD? XDDDDDDDDDDDD lol hes mad xd so mad xDDDDD
how do you counter those people apart from just leaving lol
People like these always try to give you the impression that verbal smackdowns aren't effective when used against them, but you have to remember that this is not actually true. They use ridicule as their number one method to put themselves above others, giving you the impression that you "lose" when you "get mad". Reminding them that making others mad isn't honourable, and that there are good reasons to get mad at others undermines this strategy very well.
Other than that, you can just go with the textbook strategies, like creating a sense of "us vs. you", repeating core points, turning their arguments against them (it's not me that's immature, it's YOU and THIS proves it), and so on. Proving an understanding of how he operates is the most effective thing there is.
They might still laugh it off and be like "ayy he's mad", but if you manage to get just one person to agree with you in chat, that'll turn the tables.
I'm just writing this up as I go, but maybe something like
"Do you seriously take pride in the fact that people get mad at you for being an arrogant little bitch? Are you stupid? If you had anything that only roughly resembled social skills, you could tell that you're not actually contributing to the conversation, but rather being a nuisance. Can't you tell how people aren't responsive because they can't even be bothered to talk to you anymore? Now you're probably going to give me your silly ridiculing lol xd response again as if that would make you superior, but you don't realize that you're the only one who finds it funny."
Or you could just kick him. Aint nobody got time for that. Btw is it the channel I think it is?
