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Carmlillball
'Lost' by Within Temptation.

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ASHIQUL
i dont understand wth u mean
relate to as in common with me?
Egoism 440-U1 High-Speed
Puzzle
Super Beaver, Rashisa.

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Achromalia
"hyi - misery"



WEEEE BOTHHH KNOWWW MISERYYY...

WEEEE BOTHHH KNOWWW MISERYYY...

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What are you good at?
Carmlillball
Being a disappointment.

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KatouMegumi

Carmlillball wrote:

Being a disappointment.

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Tad Fibonacci

KatouMegumi wrote:

Carmlillball wrote:

Being a disappointment.

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CallMeThey21
you didn't write a question.
do you wish you wanted camera shy? i do.
Journal

CallMeThey21 wrote:

you didn't write a question.

do you wish you wanted camera shy? i do.
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Ot: no

Journal wrote:

What are you good at?
Carmlillball
Ok, I'll be a bit more serious. I think I'm quite good at getting through challenges and binge-watching psychology documentaries and YouTube videos (especially about abnormal behaviours). And I'm amazing at being indecisive!

What is something you're bad at?
Achromalia
Relating to people through genuine emotion, and actual empathy.

I know that I can understand people easily by taking on perspectives, but... not like that.

I don't know what they actually feel. I can only imagine. I keep aggravating people close to me, because they think i'd understand, but when they see how i act...

...they can't help but think i "don't care". emotions don't have to drive concern and care. the simple fundamental desire of "making things right" can be a purely logical one.

but i don't seem to show it. thst's what emotions are for. people can infer what you think by observing and relating with how you feel. i can only do the reverse. i consider what thought patterns lead to what they're displaying. i infer what they would reasonably feel from how they think and from what they believe.

other people can do both, provided they can effectively analyze with a detached perspective.

i wish i could understand you guys more. it's why i enjoy discussion. i feel as if i were an android struggling to be human.

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Rebmare
Socializing and learning from past mistakes

same
charamaru
keeping certain parts of my personal life to myself

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Puzzle
Ahhh... well, in a weird way, it's something similar to Achro. Except, instead of not understanding others, I dont understand myself. I dont really feel what I feel, but I'm very good at empathy and it's actually one of the only ways I can figure out what's going on with my emotions. If I imagine someone else in my spot things make a bit more sense.

But I've talked about that before, so, ah....

I'm very all or nothing? Even with my attention span. I have ADHD and that makes it so either I cant focus on one thing at all or I hyper focus on it. In the same way, unless I commit myself to something, I find absolutely no way to interest myself in it. And it has to be a hard commitment. Like, do this every day for specific reasons and really work at it type of commitment.

I think it's a bad thing because it really limits me. I dont know much else past the things I focus on. Sure, I'm usually quite good at those specific things, but outside of those I'm pretty clueless and limited in my palette of experiences. It really bothers me because it makes it hard to socialize sometimes. Like, what do I even talk about with most people? I can manage small talk but my actual knowledge of stuff is quite literally limited to visual art, philosophy, physics, singing, martial arts, and video games. Do you know how hard it is to find people who are interested in talking about any of those things? It's not super easy...


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Meah
I'm not bad

Are you bad?
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Yes I am

Are you?
Achromalia
Define your standard of "bad".

I don't know enough to properly answer.

I don't really care to consider myself as either good or bad. I'm just myself, another person with another body of consequences being managed.

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Do you consider yourself as a morally inferior person by your own standards?
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Yes, but probably because I put my standard too high that I would never reach it

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Carmlillball
This is a tough one. My ideas of being moral are quite different to other people's, from what I know.

I try to be nice to people but also be truthful with how I feel. If something, someone, an action, etc, really bugs me, then I will say so (..as long as it's online, I'm way too socially anxious to in real life at the moment). I believe that this helps people develop, even if they take it as 'being mean'.

That's just the sort of lifestyle I'm used to - I often get criticised by a friend for how I act in (e.g. social) situations and I appreciate the criticism as it allows me to grow (or, at least, try). Even if these criticisms are small things such as how quiet I am, or my body language when I'm anxious. I suck at socialising, I've always known that, but knowing specific areas I fail in is helpful. I criticise myself, too.

Sugarcoating and hiding stuff, on the other hand, is extremely unhelpful. I can't understand why people prefer this to just outright being truthful. Pretending you have no issues doesn't mean that you have no issues. I actually see that as an issue itself!

Personal development is more important to me than my dear feelings being protected.

In conclusion, I don't think of myself as morally inferior, I think of myself as morally different. But this isn't really something I've thought about in the past.

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