this thread is a trainwreck and a half
You are assuming that it's an option to move out. Take into consideration that AsrielDr33murr might not be of age and/or be in a place where staying on your own is not a viable option. I don't think AsrielDr33murr would be financial dependent on his parents given what said, so that would be pretty much being on your own. If you live in the city in the states, you REALLY need to know what you are doing if you decide to be on your own. That's not even touching on the topic of paying for college, which they might not be able to begin with. B1rd, you underestimate how hard some people have it here in the states, financial speaking.B1rd wrote:
If you're having problems with your family... move out. Sort out your problems yourself. And I doubt that fucking up you body with hormone therapy will make you any happier.
It's my dad's fault he abused me. It's my brother's fault he threatened to kick me out.B1rd wrote:
You're obviously lying about the flat earth study, no such study exists, and the burden on me isn't to prove that, proving that it doesn't exist is near impossible.
Complaining because you got insulted by some random person is indeed trivial, and what's more indicative of you mental problems is that you think this is a good place to talk about being abused by you parents. Why would you think it's appropriate to expose your life story on some random internet forum? Were you looking for sympathy?
Everyone has problem, if you want to actually fix your problems you'll need to man up instead of blaming everything on everyone else. Go see a psychologist or something.
You will pay for the psychologistB1rd wrote:
Go see a psychologist or something.
College isn't really a necessity for me, it's more of "how the fuck will i pay for hormone therapy?", "where will i sleep?", "will i have to live in relative poverty?", "am i gonna be stuck with some creepy old man who constantly gropes me for many months until June when i can actually fly up to wisconsin and live with my BF?", "will i end up with another abuser?", and the big one "will i get fuckin' MURDERED?"abraker wrote:
You are assuming that it's an option to move out. Take into consideration that AsrielDr33murr might not be of age and/or be in a place where staying on your own is not a viable option. I don't think AsrielDr33murr would be financial dependent on his parents given what said, so that would be pretty much being on your own. If you live in the city in the states, you REALLY need to know what you are doing if you decide to be on your own. That's not even touching on the topic of paying for college, which they might not be able to begin with. B1rd, you underestimate how hard some people have it here in the states, financial speaking.B1rd wrote:
If you're having problems with your family... move out. Sort out your problems yourself. And I doubt that fucking up you body with hormone therapy will make you any happier.
At least community college. Don't be stuck with low paying job that can later be replaced by a machine. You will be fucked.AsrielDr33murr wrote:
College isn't really a necessity for me
I don't blame your brother, you don't seem like the easiest person to live with.AsrielDr33murr wrote:
It's my dad's fault he abused me. It's my brother's fault he threatened to kick me out.
Nothing can undo the damage my dad did except an apology from the man himself
Now get outta this thread please
thisHwa Yang wrote:
this thread is a trainwreck and a half
indeed.johnmedina999 wrote:
thisHwa Yang wrote:
this thread is a trainwreck and a half
the whole thread could have been handled much better
Everyone's an asshole and self proclaimed genius in this community apparentlyXuequinox wrote:
...I'm starting to wonder if anyone in this thread gives a fuck.
Welp. good job, this is "How to be an efficient and non-judgmental therapist 101".
...Except you're all failing the class.
...nevermind.
Hey my last posts are ramming up against B1rdXuequinox wrote:
...I'm starting to wonder if anyone in this thread gives a fuck.
Sorry, I'm generalizing the nature of this thread. It seems like a lot of us have been commenting some pretty unhelpful shit, and i dont think that's going to do anything for this thread. It's not going to get us anywhere.abraker wrote:
Hey my last posts are ramming up against B1rdXuequinox wrote:
...I'm starting to wonder if anyone in this thread gives a fuck.
You've only figured this out now?AsrielDr33murr wrote:
Everyone's an asshole and self proclaimed genius in this community apparentlyXuequinox wrote:
...I'm starting to wonder if anyone in this thread gives a fuck.
Welp. good job, this is "How to be an efficient and non-judgmental therapist 101".
...Except you're all failing the class.
...nevermind.
way to contribute to the thread.B1rd wrote:
The last thing whiny kids with a victim complexes needs is validation.
Oh yeah, that's b1rd! He's the local politician, that is if he is correct.Xuequinox wrote:
way to contribute to the thread.B1rd wrote:
The last thing whiny kids with a victim complexes needs is validation.
juuust what we need.
we might as well call everyone who's been beaten as a child just someone who has a victim complex.
...i dont think any of this is helping to address anything discussed in the thread.
this is honestly sad.
"a perpetual victim in everything" is quite an assumption to jump to though, especially if you don't even know them. I would agree to the extent of saying that its a possibility, but for that fact, it also means it's not a certainty. Telling people to grow the fuck up just makes shit worse psychologically in the case that this is legitimate, which is currently very likely.B1rd wrote:
Most people who are beaten as a child don't extrapolate that event to every area of their lives and act as a perpetual victim in everything including osu! mapping.
But of course I'm the villain for pointing out he needs to get his shit together and grow up instead of whining on the internet.
You only need to know this and realize some people are fragileXuequinox wrote:
Telling people to grow the fuck up just makes shit worse psychologically
You’re like the Donald Trump of the osu! community. I’m reporting you to osu! support for harassment, due to the fact that I told you to “get out” and “leave this thread” multiple times. Have fun having your name on /r/osureport.B1rd wrote:
You don't cure pathological fragility by having your complaints validated by everyone around you. We need to get over the narrative that the self-professed victim is always right. No, this person isn't being unjustly persecuted by everyone around him, and just maybe someone should tell him that.
If osu! forums had an option to block people, I totally would. But guess what? I reported you to /r/osureport. Have fun getting a silence buddy.B1rd wrote:
Protip: just because you created a thread, you don't own it. You're a hypocrite telling me to get out a thread then insulting me for "telling other people what to do". Posting my opinion is not "harassing", and indeed I really couldn't give two shits about you, save for the fact that I like posting in OT. If you don't like hearing my opinion, either get over it or stop posting in OT.
I’m fine with people talking about me, what I don’t want is to be bullied and harassed by some fucking little shit who thinks he knows everything and thinks he has the right to diagnose me with a “victim complex.”B1rd wrote:
Trying vindictively to use the power of the mods to try to silence me from having conversation with other people - way to convince everyone you don't have a persecution complex. If you didn't want other people to talk about you, then guess what, don't make a thread about yourself.