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But who knows, maybe you could find your own partner someday. Everyone's destined to meet one, just play your cards right.
then I listened to some rap and recalled what it is
The Wheelchair
i like everyone who's cute but omg why does every single cute person i meet have to be a guy
there's not really a problem tbh
the real problem i have is just being super lonely in general cause no friends or anyone close to me in real life, and nobody to do cute things with which is all i really want in life
find me some cute guys irl to do cute things with
but that would require me meeting people irl which is just impossible and not interesting to me
bye
everybody i could find in real life sucks, i don't want sociability with them. every single person i've talked to online is better than every person i've met in real life. basically i want a real life but not with any of the people who exist in the world around me.
sure it bothers me a bit, but i'm not affected by bad or disappointing things in my life anymore because it's normal and i've gotten used to it. it's normal for me, and i deal with it. do i want to change things? yes, but if i'm stuck like this forever then i've gotten strong enough to handle it.
this isn't really going anywhere right now. i'd like some help but nothing is really going to help me so this is why i usually don't bring up this kind of stuff.
Just to point out how implausible what you said is: Most of the people you talk to online probably have a real life too, unless you only attract the sort of people that are in a similar situation. You could come across one of them IRL randomly and probably wouldn't even notice.
The thing is, you just don't want to leave your room and get to know people in the real world. It is easier for you to accept your state if you tell yourself that everyone outside sucks balls anyway. If you tell yourself that the alternative is bad, your own way seems more compelling all of the sudden.
Quite sad. I'd expect something like that from an anxious 15 year old, but not from a 22 year old. You really should know better.
Do yourself a favor and give people IRL a chance. Try to get to know them like you try to get to know people online. Online or offline, people are just people.
Or don't do that, that's fine by me too. But at least stop making poor excuses for yourself, you can do better than that.
Ewww
Just go up to random people and creep them out when they want nothing to donwith you good idea
just saying, i really do value your opinion and it's something more to think about, more things to try later. even if you or someone else tells me i'm a terrible example of a person for stuff like this, telling me that still helps me a lot. i know i'm far from being perfect and i want to take in as much as i can so that i can improve myself later on.
i did 4 years of university and i've been out in the real world for about a year and a half, meeting a ton of people through school and work. and the first thing i've found is that not a single person in that time has really met what i look for in a person. i'm not saying that anyone i've met online has either because everyone has some kind of problems (whether they share them or not), but they're generally more approachable and we already have one big thing in common because we met each other in a place like this.
after thinking about it for a bit, i would say the difference between meeting people in real life vs online is that when i meet people in real life, i meet them because i have to, and i see the things i don't like first. when i meet people online, i meet them by choice because i see the things we have in common first. later on i might find that i like a person in real life but they wouldn't get that far because i disliked them at first and won't take a second chance to get closer to them. online, typically i find things i don't like in people afterwards, but i keep giving them chances because we clicked initially. i don't know if this is a good comparison or not.
Hi
Now explain how to do it in a way that doesn't make people run away from you because they have no business with you if they don't know you
way ahead of you buddy
You're also missing out on all the ways hey can hurt and fuck you over too
thanks mr color~
i guess i'm just always conflicted and never really know what i want. everything in my life has gone poorly so i guess i just avoid people thinking they would make it even worse. at the same time i'm so used to being by myself that i'm too unmotivated to make any kind of change. sometimes i like being alone, sometimes i hate it, so i just kinda stay in limbo in the middle too afraid to do anything with my life.
HOLY SHIT YOU ACTUALLY FIGURED IT OUT
90s basic knowledge right there
yeah my mom's the strange type of person who still uses a VCR to record TV shows because she lives in the past and won't learn any new technology... it's 2016 get with the program (or just don't watch TV)
and you can record whatever you want when it's in your vcr hole
mmmmm 6 hours of playback~
edit: wait do spoiler tags not work on new forums site? i didn't even see there was a spoiler and now it's just showing a broken tag for me
yeah sure just wait until i get home, i got some shows i want to watch tonight but we can record them and watch later :^)
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I wish I was raspberry chan
Then I could be good at mania
Then I could be good at mania
I wish I was a girl but I'm too scared and dont know how to transistion so I won't
Wait Khelly so you're not a girl and you've been lying all this time. And I already thought I found another gril on the Internet, I guesd the search goes on
Am I a transgirlZain Sugieres wrote:
Wait Khelly so you're not a girl and you've been lying all this time. And I already thought I found another gril on the Internet, I guesd the search goes on
you be anything u want hunKhelly wrote:
Am I a transgirlZain Sugieres wrote:
Wait Khelly so you're not a girl and you've been lying all this time. And I already thought I found another gril on the Internet, I guesd the search goes on
I want to be a girl
You can be a girl to me
Like Meah is a girl to me
Like Meah is a girl to me
dieRurree wrote:
You can be a girl to me
Like Meah is a girl to me
DeletedUser_6709840
i never get a girlfriend with my expectations . . .
nice
That's because anime girls don't exist, nor do actual girls appreciate a guy that lives in a dream world.mizuki-chan wrote:
i never get a girlfriend with my expectations . . .
But who knows, maybe you could find your own partner someday. Everyone's destined to meet one, just play your cards right.
I had a bottle of henny and that's good enough 4 me
I got confused as to what henny isHika wrote:
I had a bottle of henny and that's good enough 4 me
then I listened to some rap and recalled what it is
I got 93% on aiae sc today
Pretty cool
Pretty cool
What's the hardest part of eating a vegetable?Meah wrote:
I hate vegetables
The Wheelchair
Cinderella took off her shoes and she gets a Prince, some bitches these days took off everything and gets nothing. Sad
That's funny because it's not true; well depends because maybe those bitches ain't pretty or you know maybe they suck at giving heads or in bed in general
*cue triggered people*
*cue triggered people*
I heard everybody who plays osu is a cute girl so just look in the mirror!Catgirl wrote:
someone teach me how to find cute girls on osu please
yeah but everyone else always finds cute girls and tells me about how they find all these cute girls and i just find cute guys
this game is slowly turning me coconut milk and not by choice, i just can't find any cute girls
this game is slowly turning me coconut milk and not by choice, i just can't find any cute girls
I like cute boys
I like cute grisl
Khelly wrote:
I like cute boys
Zain Sugieres wrote:
I like cute grisl
i like everyone who's cute but omg why does every single cute person i meet have to be a guy
You make it sound like there's a problem.
Faust wrote:
You make it sound like there's a problem.
there's not really a problem tbh
the real problem i have is just being super lonely in general cause no friends or anyone close to me in real life, and nobody to do cute things with which is all i really want in life
"I meet a bunch of cute guys"
"Nobody to do cute things with"
Mate what
"Nobody to do cute things with"
Mate what
They want girls though.
I can sympathize.
I can sympathize.
Fuck them
hey i've done cute things with guys but my loneliness irl is getting to be almost too much to handle lately
Do more cute things with guys thenCatgirl wrote:
hey i've done cute things with guys but my loneliness irl is getting to be almost too much to handle lately
Khelly wrote:
Catgirl wrote:
hey i've done cute things with guys but my loneliness irl is getting to be almost too much to handle lately
Do more cute things with guys then
find me some cute guys irl to do cute things with
but that would require me meeting people irl which is just impossible and not interesting to me
Well you said you already met a lot of them
it's the online vs irl thing...
online i'm quite friendly around people i don't know, i have tons of people i enjoy talking to, several close friends, etc.
but in real life i don't have a single friend, family member, or other person i can count on for anything. i haven't interacted with any real people in months, and it's been at least 5 years since i have met someone new who i would consider a friend or have any interest in doing anything with.
i long for some interactions in real life but i have zero interest in meeting new people. why? because all the people i want to do stuff with are people i only know online but i wish i knew irl. and whenever i think about this kind of stuff i get depressed. i've lost friends over it. more than once. three times so far, maybe more. i have a hard time counting this high.
i'm not really affected by it, but damn my life sucks...
online i'm quite friendly around people i don't know, i have tons of people i enjoy talking to, several close friends, etc.
but in real life i don't have a single friend, family member, or other person i can count on for anything. i haven't interacted with any real people in months, and it's been at least 5 years since i have met someone new who i would consider a friend or have any interest in doing anything with.
i long for some interactions in real life but i have zero interest in meeting new people. why? because all the people i want to do stuff with are people i only know online but i wish i knew irl. and whenever i think about this kind of stuff i get depressed. i've lost friends over it. more than once. three times so far, maybe more. i have a hard time counting this high.
i'm not really affected by it, but damn my life sucks...
C'mon guys, Khelly tries to be so hard to be a girl so let's just acknowledge him as one just to feed his denial even more
How is it denial if I always say "I wish I was a girl" instead of "I am a girl"VHS wrote:
C'mon guys, Khelly tries to be so hard to be a girl so let's just acknowledge him as one just to feed his denial even more
MeCatgirl wrote:
someone teach me how to find cute girls on osu please
first step is to stop being in denial over it. The last sentence you wrote to conclude the paragraphs before, is a direct contradiction. If your life sucks because of your absence of a real sociability, then it does affect you.Catgirl wrote:
i'm not really affected by it, but damn my life sucks...
lol ok obviously it bothers u wtf...Catgirl wrote:
i'm not really affected by it, but damn my life sucks...
bye
Yes but that one is a joke and the first one is seriousVHS wrote:
p/5244227
I think Khelly is a good name for a female, for what it's worth.
Railey2 wrote:
first step is to stop being in denial over it. The last sentence you wrote to conclude the paragraphs before, is a direct contradiction. If your life sucks because of your absence of a real sociability, then it does affect you.
everybody i could find in real life sucks, i don't want sociability with them. every single person i've talked to online is better than every person i've met in real life. basically i want a real life but not with any of the people who exist in the world around me.
Hika wrote:
lol ok obviously it bothers u wtf...
bye
sure it bothers me a bit, but i'm not affected by bad or disappointing things in my life anymore because it's normal and i've gotten used to it. it's normal for me, and i deal with it. do i want to change things? yes, but if i'm stuck like this forever then i've gotten strong enough to handle it.
this isn't really going anywhere right now. i'd like some help but nothing is really going to help me so this is why i usually don't bring up this kind of stuff.
You are making excuses.Catgirl wrote:
everybody i could find in real life sucks, i don't want sociability with them. every single person i've talked to online is better than every person i've met in real life. basically i want a real life but not with any of the people who exist in the world around me.Railey2 wrote:
first step is to stop being in denial over it. The last sentence you wrote to conclude the paragraphs before, is a direct contradiction. If your life sucks because of your absence of a real sociability, then it does affect you.
Just to point out how implausible what you said is: Most of the people you talk to online probably have a real life too, unless you only attract the sort of people that are in a similar situation. You could come across one of them IRL randomly and probably wouldn't even notice.
The thing is, you just don't want to leave your room and get to know people in the real world. It is easier for you to accept your state if you tell yourself that everyone outside sucks balls anyway. If you tell yourself that the alternative is bad, your own way seems more compelling all of the sudden.
Quite sad. I'd expect something like that from an anxious 15 year old, but not from a 22 year old. You really should know better.
Do yourself a favor and give people IRL a chance. Try to get to know them like you try to get to know people online. Online or offline, people are just people.
Or don't do that, that's fine by me too. But at least stop making poor excuses for yourself, you can do better than that.
can I have a tldr
TL;DR - 3D people are just as important as 2D people
Go outdoors and meet people, etc
Go outdoors and meet people, etc
Almaz wrote:
TL;DR - 3D people are just as important as 2D people
Go outdoors and meet people, etc
Ewww
Just go up to random people and creep them out when they want nothing to donwith you good idea
Railey2 wrote:
Do yourself a favor and give people IRL a chance. Try to get to know them like you try to get to know people online. Online or offline, people are just people.
Or don't do that, that's fine by me too. But at least stop making poor excuses for yourself, you can do better than that.
just saying, i really do value your opinion and it's something more to think about, more things to try later. even if you or someone else tells me i'm a terrible example of a person for stuff like this, telling me that still helps me a lot. i know i'm far from being perfect and i want to take in as much as i can so that i can improve myself later on.
i did 4 years of university and i've been out in the real world for about a year and a half, meeting a ton of people through school and work. and the first thing i've found is that not a single person in that time has really met what i look for in a person. i'm not saying that anyone i've met online has either because everyone has some kind of problems (whether they share them or not), but they're generally more approachable and we already have one big thing in common because we met each other in a place like this.
after thinking about it for a bit, i would say the difference between meeting people in real life vs online is that when i meet people in real life, i meet them because i have to, and i see the things i don't like first. when i meet people online, i meet them by choice because i see the things we have in common first. later on i might find that i like a person in real life but they wouldn't get that far because i disliked them at first and won't take a second chance to get closer to them. online, typically i find things i don't like in people afterwards, but i keep giving them chances because we clicked initially. i don't know if this is a good comparison or not.
I was only summarizing what Railey said ;-;Khelly wrote:
EwwwAlmaz wrote:
TL;DR - 3D people are just as important as 2D people
Go outdoors and meet people, etc
the only khelly i know is a disgusting fat girlFaust wrote:
I think Khelly is a good name for a female, for what it's worth.
FuZ wrote:
the only khelly i know is a disgusting fat girlFaust wrote:
I think Khelly is a good name for a female, for what it's worth.
Hi
Almaz wrote:
Ewww[/quoteKhelly wrote:
quote="Almaz"]TL;DR - 3D people are just as important as 2D people
Go outdoors and meet people, etc
I was only summarizing what Railey said ;-;
Now explain how to do it in a way that doesn't make people run away from you because they have no business with you if they don't know you
irl + youre matthewKhelly wrote:
FuZ wrote:
the only khelly i know is a disgusting fat girl
Hi
My name isn't matthew
first off
next
bottom line; if you want friends in your daily life, you gotta work for it. potentially anyone can be your friend if you are willing to lend them some interest and put efforts in making a friendship develop.
or you could just become some sour fuck like me who at 22 years old goes around yelling at people on the internet, but unless you're fine with the prospect of spending most if not the rest of your life alone I wouldn't recommend it.
holy bonkers actual good advice in off-topic i did not expect thisRailey2 wrote:
Do yourself a favor and give people IRL a chance. Try to get to know them like you try to get to know people online. Online or offline, people are just people.
Or don't do that, that's fine by me too. But at least stop making poor excuses for yourself, you can do better than that.
next
now i've been at uni too and i don't know your story but most people I hung out with at uni were friendly people even if we didn't share the same interests. you're not in high school anymore, so you should be in an environment where the majority of the people you work with aren't acting like dicks. There's very little chance you haven't met anyone who shares common interests with you, maybe a lot of people did and never told you, or maybe you simply haven't gotten to know them well enough.Catgirl wrote:
and the first thing i've found is that not a single person in that time has really met what i look for in a person. i'm not saying that anyone i've met online has either because everyone has some kind of problems (whether they share them or not), but they're generally more approachable and we already have one big thing in common because we met each other in a place like this.
well this just sounds like you don't want to meet people really, unless there's some kind of layer of anonymity (like a username) which I can respect, but i'm pretty sure you not clicking with people irl is mostly on you. it really shouldn't matter if the people you meet don't share your interests, chances are they're also very interesting people with incredible stories to tell, so if you don't click immediately by some common hobby, interest yourself in theirs instead. It's not like people online are magically more drawn to each other or whatever the fuck. If anything I'm a lot more aggressive and opinionated online than irl where i mostly don't give half a shit about anything.Catgirl wrote:
i would say the difference between meeting people in real life vs online is that when i meet people in real life, i meet them because i have to, and i see the things i don't like first. when i meet people online, i meet them by choice because i see the things we have in common first.
bottom line; if you want friends in your daily life, you gotta work for it. potentially anyone can be your friend if you are willing to lend them some interest and put efforts in making a friendship develop.
or you could just become some sour fuck like me who at 22 years old goes around yelling at people on the internet, but unless you're fine with the prospect of spending most if not the rest of your life alone I wouldn't recommend it.
lol don't u mean Tyler, Fuz
also you're shittu if you don't even give ppl irl a chance
like literally you're missing out on good opportunities tbh
like literally you're missing out on good opportunities tbh
Ya'll need to chill out and look at some breasts.
Or get some real ones ?
Jeez, I wish.
I do think about it, but alas I wanna focus on my career.
If some cute girl enters my life one way or another, sure.
I do think about it, but alas I wanna focus on my career.
If some cute girl enters my life one way or another, sure.
Faust wrote:
Ya'll need to chill out and look at some breasts.
way ahead of you buddy
dam got seriously outplayed here
Me too, I was already looking downMr Color wrote:
Faust wrote:
Ya'll need to chill out and look at some breasts.
way ahead of you buddy
Hika wrote:
also you're shittu if you don't even give ppl irl a chance
like literally you're missing out on good opportunities tbh
You're also missing out on all the ways hey can hurt and fuck you over too
if that's likely to stop you, maybe you should consider staying on your own
It is some good reasons
Hypothetically, I guess if you were strongly mentally then perhaps talking to people irl wouldn't be so bad
and you probably wouldn't spend as much time on the internet, too.
What made you crawl out of your hole here again
I assume you got killed in a france attack
I assume you got killed in a france attack
Hika wrote:
Hypothetically, I guess if you were strongly mentally then perhaps talking to people irl wouldn't be so bad
You guys are kind of giving him shit for things we've all done thoughMr Color wrote:
and you probably wouldn't spend as much time on the internet, too.
I still wanna name chane to vcr
Mr Color wrote:
long post
thanks mr color~
i guess i'm just always conflicted and never really know what i want. everything in my life has gone poorly so i guess i just avoid people thinking they would make it even worse. at the same time i'm so used to being by myself that i'm too unmotivated to make any kind of change. sometimes i like being alone, sometimes i hate it, so i just kinda stay in limbo in the middle too afraid to do anything with my life.
NoKhelly wrote:
I still wanna name chane to vcr
Ok vhs-chan
are you implying something about inserting the VHS in the VCR?
l-lewd...
l-lewd...
Catgirl wrote:
are you implying something about inserting the VHS in the VCR?
l-lewd...
HOLY SHIT YOU ACTUALLY FIGURED IT OUT
omg Catgril is a genius
yeah ofc he's 22Khelly wrote:
Catgirl wrote:
are you implying something about inserting the VHS in the VCR?
l-lewd...
HOLY SHIT YOU ACTUALLY FIGURED IT OUT
90s basic knowledge right there
Khelly wrote:
Catgirl wrote:
are you implying something about inserting the VHS in the VCR?
l-lewd...
HOLY SHIT YOU ACTUALLY FIGURED IT OUT
yeah my mom's the strange type of person who still uses a VCR to record TV shows because she lives in the past and won't learn any new technology... it's 2016 get with the program (or just don't watch TV)
I want dulcet to insert her big vhs into my vcr hole
or any of you fuckers
or any of you fuckers
Khelly wrote:
I want dulcet to insert her big vhs into my vcr hole
[spoiler]or any of you fuckers[/spoiler]
and you can record whatever you want when it's in your vcr hole
mmmmm 6 hours of playback~
edit: wait do spoiler tags not work on new forums site? i didn't even see there was a spoiler and now it's just showing a broken tag for me
Living the dream right there
Hey catfirl you want some fuck
Hey catfirl you want some fuck
u post shit ur gettin shit m8
Khelly wrote:
Living the dream right there
Hey catfirl you want some fuck
yeah sure just wait until i get home, i got some shows i want to watch tonight but we can record them and watch later :^)
No seriously wann fuck a boy in the buttCatgirl wrote:
yeah sure just wait until i get home, i got some shows i want to watch tonight but we can record them and watch later :^)Khelly wrote:
Living the dream right there
Hey catfirl you want some fuck
homosex is sinful don't do it
Sin is fun
is not pope John Paul II defend Poland from sin
SIN IS FUN
be a good catholic Khelly and stop sinning