Kyonko Hizara wrote:
I sorta know how that is. Altho for me, I am more relaxed if I am going out with friends, but as soon as I go out alone I start to feel like I'm having a panic attack.
A few months ago, I so much as had to walk down one part of the mall to get to my friend that was waiting for me and I almost had to call her to come to me because each step I took made me more and more anxious.
I have no idea how well i perform alone, if im not alone i can handle a few people (its uncomfortable though) but any more than that and i kinda go "Shut down everything" ie, grab my friends hand and concentrate on that only, ignoring everthing else.
B1rd wrote:
I think I have a similar problem I think with anxiety, I can't go outside without a hood and sunglasses because I'm really self conscious about my hair and my eyes will tear up with sunglasses. I don't have any good tips or anything but I wish you good luck
Thanks.
Its not that im consicous about my looks, im afraid of pulling attention on me, example situation would be that the bus driver didnt understand what i said and asks again, so that i stall the line or plain simply dropping something or stumbling when walking past people. I dont like being spoken to/speaking to someone either.
Brian OA wrote:
You guys literally spend hours upon hours on stuff that teaches you how to deal with these kinds of problems. You play and watch dozens of games that teach you not to be fearless, but to be courageous; to take on your fears for your own sake and come out at the end of the day a better person. They've taught and proved to me that life isn't as beautiful otherwise.
So I don't know what kind of troubling past you've had to give you such an insecurity, but I can assure you there's nothing to worry about except for stagnation. So take that first step and go talk to your shrink; it was probably all part of his/her keikaku anyway.
If it isn't, well you just took a big leap ahead so you can pat yourself on the back once you get to that office.
Well, the games kind of dont apply here, im spending my time clicking on circles, catching fruits and placing/breaking blocks. Oh and of course being rude and cynical on various forums.
But i get your point.
Still, its not the same, i cant just load a older save or am strong/cool/whatever in real life.
In any case thanks for your support.