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everytime i watch 2d guro...
Like people getting ripped apart....
Getting cut into half...
I start to fantasize....
I fantasize as the victim.....
Wtf is wrong with me
Like people getting ripped apart....
Getting cut into half...
I start to fantasize....
I fantasize as the victim.....
Wtf is wrong with me
nothing unless you touch yourself down there while doing it
actually there is nothing wrong with that either
you are completely normal
actually there is nothing wrong with that either
you are completely normal
*Person getting his fingers chopped off one by one*
*Imagine that happening to me*
*cringe*
I think it's normal
*Imagine that happening to me*
*cringe*
I think it's normal
well the thing is......
The gore has to be something like....
Something that guaranteed death or at least close to that
Like getting sliced in half, or getting your head lobbed off while you are going on with your everyday routine
The feeling of a short episode of pain overpowered by the thought of death which might come within milliseconds or minutes
inb4 nsfw
Guhhh......
Excuse me...
The gore has to be something like....
Something that guaranteed death or at least close to that
Like getting sliced in half, or getting your head lobbed off while you are going on with your everyday routine
The feeling of a short episode of pain overpowered by the thought of death which might come within milliseconds or minutes
inb4 nsfw
Guhhh......
Excuse me...
>talks about nsfw
>10
>10
yes
you got a problem?
you got a problem?
Nay, the fault is with the deceitful animators who can turn even the most grotesque scenes into paradoxical moe.Yuu-Chii wrote:
everytime i watch 2d guro...
Like people getting ripped apart....
Getting cut into half...
I start to fantasize....
I fantasize as the victim.....
Wtf is wrong with me
May I suggest the MorbidReality subreddit as a cure for your masochist fetish? ^^
oichjaisuhaschacsiuasiuch
*pukes*
Thank you.
*pukes*
Thank you.
I've been browsing gurochan for years i know how you feel, but the first thing that got me into it was a drowning fetish.Yuu-Chii wrote:
well the thing is......
The gore has to be something like....
Something that guaranteed death or at least close to that
Like getting sliced in half, or getting your head lobbed off while you are going on with your everyday routine
The feeling of a short episode of pain overpowered by the thought of death which might come within milliseconds or minutes
inb4 nsfw
Guhhh......
Excuse me...
It's a good movie and it really inspire meCeph23 wrote:
What do you feel about "The human Centepede"?
Also love the sequel
I hope there will be the closing trilogy :3
SAID NO ONE EVER
i may be jealous of a 27 year old man who's best friends with my ex + i may want to kill two people because they're extremely abusive and won't knock that shit off if i had a gun i'd gladly fire kill and face charges
on a more lighthearted note, one time i accidently poured iced tea into my cereal instead of milk and still ate it omg
on a more lighthearted note, one time i accidently poured iced tea into my cereal instead of milk and still ate it omg
Lolz similar situation where I accidentally poured Listerine over my toothbrush instead of toothpaste, herpderpElly-chan wrote:
one time i accidently poured iced tea into my cereal instead of milk and still ate it omg
I asked my mom how she'd feel if I told her a had a boyfriend during a car ride home from school recently. I am out to her, but I always felt that she was in denial of it or she was hopeful I'd change, but whatever it was, I think, ultimately, the product that came out of me asking her was a factor of how unnerving the whole situation was for her and how her hopes for me slowly started collapsing as I pushed the question further.
Essentially, I asked her at first and she laughed, which was not out of happiness obviously. She laughed out of denial. She laughed because she didn't think what was happening was happening or serious, despite how many clues she's gotten that this could happen. I asked her again, and she simply tried to dismiss the question, saying, "This won't happen."
She said, that if God does not will this to happen, then it will not happen, and instead I asked again, emphasizing the what if part of the question.
At this point, she stopped for a second (in thought, of course) in what I believe was shock and soon after she followed up by repeating, in a noticeably shaky voice, "Inshallah, this will not happen."
She was upset at this point, and anyone could notice it. I think at this point, most people would ease off and just comfort their mother, but, to be quite honest, my suspicions about her being in denial (which I felt ever since the night I came out to her after I was outed to her) made me feel quite remorseless. Between her frequent attempts (that I kindly responded to and still do) at trying to push me "back" to her religion and how often she would dehumanize and, in some extreme cases, even demonize gays, lesbians, and transgender people after I had come out, I felt it was too much to just let the air of uneasiness that settled around me over the past two years linger longer. I asked the question again, adding, "I am gay. You know that, right?"
She started to get teary-eyed when I said that.
She finally gave me a small taste of an answer when she said that she was able to deal with a devastating divorce, and that she could deal with "this". When she finished speaking she started to cry, and I think this is when my mom started to realize just how serious I was.
But, as I said, it was a small taste of an answer and I pushed even further.
I feel mostly upset about what I did beyond this point (I don't feel comfortable enough talking about it to the open public) because in the end, not only did it not get anything answered to a point I felt was satisfactory (it even left some more questions), it just hurt my mom a lot and the outcome of this seemed much more negative than positive.
Essentially, I asked her at first and she laughed, which was not out of happiness obviously. She laughed out of denial. She laughed because she didn't think what was happening was happening or serious, despite how many clues she's gotten that this could happen. I asked her again, and she simply tried to dismiss the question, saying, "This won't happen."
She said, that if God does not will this to happen, then it will not happen, and instead I asked again, emphasizing the what if part of the question.
At this point, she stopped for a second (in thought, of course) in what I believe was shock and soon after she followed up by repeating, in a noticeably shaky voice, "Inshallah, this will not happen."
She was upset at this point, and anyone could notice it. I think at this point, most people would ease off and just comfort their mother, but, to be quite honest, my suspicions about her being in denial (which I felt ever since the night I came out to her after I was outed to her) made me feel quite remorseless. Between her frequent attempts (that I kindly responded to and still do) at trying to push me "back" to her religion and how often she would dehumanize and, in some extreme cases, even demonize gays, lesbians, and transgender people after I had come out, I felt it was too much to just let the air of uneasiness that settled around me over the past two years linger longer. I asked the question again, adding, "I am gay. You know that, right?"
She started to get teary-eyed when I said that.
She finally gave me a small taste of an answer when she said that she was able to deal with a devastating divorce, and that she could deal with "this". When she finished speaking she started to cry, and I think this is when my mom started to realize just how serious I was.
But, as I said, it was a small taste of an answer and I pushed even further.
I feel mostly upset about what I did beyond this point (I don't feel comfortable enough talking about it to the open public) because in the end, not only did it not get anything answered to a point I felt was satisfactory (it even left some more questions), it just hurt my mom a lot and the outcome of this seemed much more negative than positive.
I have a feeling that even if you have a boyfriend, your mom won't believe that he's actually your boyfriend.
I think that if she cares that much about her religion, she won't ever really accept the fact that you're gay. If she's been degrading gays, what I believe all you have to do is show her that gays can actually achieve things, and that you haven't changed as a person.
You should take my opinion with a grain of salt though, as my parents aren't religious, so I don't know how serious religious parents can get.
I think that if she cares that much about her religion, she won't ever really accept the fact that you're gay. If she's been degrading gays, what I believe all you have to do is show her that gays can actually achieve things, and that you haven't changed as a person.
You should take my opinion with a grain of salt though, as my parents aren't religious, so I don't know how serious religious parents can get.
hahaha that's fucking hilarious
this is completely unrelated:
this is completely unrelated:
this should be the best ending not a bad endingBrian OA wrote:
One bad end features the player moving on to becoming the best player there ever was, is, and ever will be at the cost of his own humanity.
Well at least you got it out in the open now instead of later. I always think that immediate closure is a good thing.cheesiest wrote:
I asked my mom how she'd feel if I told her a had a boyfriend during a car ride home from school recently. I am out to her, but I always felt that she was in denial of it or she was hopeful I'd change, but whatever it was, I think, ultimately, the product that came out of me asking her was a factor of how unnerving the whole situation was for her and how her hopes for me slowly started collapsing as I pushed the question further.
Essentially, I asked her at first and she laughed, which was not out of happiness obviously. She laughed out of denial. She laughed because she didn't think what was happening was happening or serious, despite how many clues she's gotten that this could happen. I asked her again, and she simply tried to dismiss the question, saying, "This won't happen."
She said, that if God does not will this to happen, then it will not happen, and instead I asked again, emphasizing the what if part of the question.
At this point, she stopped for a second (in thought, of course) in what I believe was shock and soon after she followed up by repeating, in a noticeably shaky voice, "Inshallah, this will not happen."
She was upset at this point, and anyone could notice it. I think at this point, most people would ease off and just comfort their mother, but, to be quite honest, my suspicions about her being in denial (which I felt ever since the night I came out to her after I was outed to her) made me feel quite remorseless. Between her frequent attempts (that I kindly responded to and still do) at trying to push me "back" to her religion and how often she would dehumanize and, in some extreme cases, even demonize gays, lesbians, and transgender people after I had come out, I felt it was too much to just let the air of uneasiness that settled around me over the past two years linger longer. I asked the question again, adding, "I am gay. You know that, right?"
She started to get teary-eyed when I said that.
She finally gave me a small taste of an answer when she said that she was able to deal with a devastating divorce, and that she could deal with "this". When she finished speaking she started to cry, and I think this is when my mom started to realize just how serious I was.
But, as I said, it was a small taste of an answer and I pushed even further.
I feel mostly upset about what I did beyond this point (I don't feel comfortable enough talking about it to the open public) because in the end, not only did it not get anything answered to a point I felt was satisfactory (it even left some more questions), it just hurt my mom a lot and the outcome of this seemed much more negative than positive.
I think things will get better on. Parents seem to always love their children no matter what, so I think your good.
Didn't know you liked dicks, cheesiest.
Who doesn't like dicks?
@cheesiest
First off, you did the right thing in asserting your sexuality. Right now it seems your mother has been perceiving you the way she wishes to perceive, and not who you actually are. Simply avoiding the problem might help her cope at first, but ultimately it'll come crashing down and distance you from the family. Rather, it should come to the point where your homosexuality is fully acknowledged and no more unusual than your father's left-handedness or your sister's birthmark. There should be no stigma or shame felt, at least not from the foundational family.
In regards to religion, the policy against homosexuality was one of my biggest obstacles to accepting Christ. In the end I put aside my intellectual pride and took a leap of faith, but here is the dilemma: if God created all men to be equal and commanded us to love our neighbors, then why would he intentionally create from his own hands a homosexual? In our modern society, that homosexual would only face a lifetime of prejudice, stigma, and even suicide. Should the commandment then be revised to "Love your neighbor, unless it's a blatant exception like homosexuality"? With mounting evidence that homosexuality is genetically influenced, why would God allow such a thing?
Furthermore, according to Christianity, God does not discriminate amongst "degrees" of sins. All sins are equally condemnable in his eyes and thus stealing a bread is just as unrighteous as committing a murder. Thus, the "Christians" who villianize homosexuals and lack love are just as sinful as the homosexual himself. It's truly humorous how the Church tries so desperately hard to cure homosexuals, while they hardly invest equal effort into curing smokers, drug addicts, or gamblers. Modern society does not share the indiscriminate eyes of God.
Now, here comes the tough part. While it is true God created you personally and that all sins are equal in unholiness, it is also true that God is objectively against homosexuality, as seen throughout scripture. However, he is not against the sinners, but the sin itself. If you wish to remain faithful to your religion, then you must first acknowledge that homosexuality is indeed a sin according to scripture. Then, you must pray. While I fully respect your natural sexuality, ultimately it is not our life to control but God's, and so pray that God's will be done, no matter the consequence.
I too will keep you in my prayers. Hope you find peace and love pal.
First off, you did the right thing in asserting your sexuality. Right now it seems your mother has been perceiving you the way she wishes to perceive, and not who you actually are. Simply avoiding the problem might help her cope at first, but ultimately it'll come crashing down and distance you from the family. Rather, it should come to the point where your homosexuality is fully acknowledged and no more unusual than your father's left-handedness or your sister's birthmark. There should be no stigma or shame felt, at least not from the foundational family.
In regards to religion, the policy against homosexuality was one of my biggest obstacles to accepting Christ. In the end I put aside my intellectual pride and took a leap of faith, but here is the dilemma: if God created all men to be equal and commanded us to love our neighbors, then why would he intentionally create from his own hands a homosexual? In our modern society, that homosexual would only face a lifetime of prejudice, stigma, and even suicide. Should the commandment then be revised to "Love your neighbor, unless it's a blatant exception like homosexuality"? With mounting evidence that homosexuality is genetically influenced, why would God allow such a thing?
Furthermore, according to Christianity, God does not discriminate amongst "degrees" of sins. All sins are equally condemnable in his eyes and thus stealing a bread is just as unrighteous as committing a murder. Thus, the "Christians" who villianize homosexuals and lack love are just as sinful as the homosexual himself. It's truly humorous how the Church tries so desperately hard to cure homosexuals, while they hardly invest equal effort into curing smokers, drug addicts, or gamblers. Modern society does not share the indiscriminate eyes of God.
Now, here comes the tough part. While it is true God created you personally and that all sins are equal in unholiness, it is also true that God is objectively against homosexuality, as seen throughout scripture. However, he is not against the sinners, but the sin itself. If you wish to remain faithful to your religion, then you must first acknowledge that homosexuality is indeed a sin according to scripture. Then, you must pray. While I fully respect your natural sexuality, ultimately it is not our life to control but God's, and so pray that God's will be done, no matter the consequence.
I too will keep you in my prayers. Hope you find peace and love pal.
Islam isn't Christianity
We worship the same God. Notice how I didn't bring up Jesus anywhere.DaddyCoolVipper wrote:
Islam isn't Christianity
Ehhh.AlucPanda wrote:
We worship the same God. Notice how I didn't bring up Jesus anywhere.DaddyCoolVipper wrote:
Islam isn't Christianity
The morals of Islam aren't the same as Christian ones, that's what I was getting at. It's nice to think of using the "God said not to judge anybody, he without sin may cast the first stone" etc but that doesn't apply to Islam.
i just changed my username and avatar. i won't regret it
battler077 wrote:
i just changed my username and avatar. i won't regret it
battler077 wrote:
i won't regret it
yes you will.battler077 wrote:
regret
get on facebook nigggerNotEvenDoomMusic wrote:
battler077 wrote:
i just changed my username and avatar. i won't regret itbattler077 wrote:
i won't regret ityes you will.battler077 wrote:
regret
Static Noise Bird wrote:
get on facebook niggger
NotEvenDoomMusic wrote:
hero of suomi
You should've just kept it at "Trash".Trash Boat wrote:
i just changed my username and avatar. i won't regret it
based on that, why you didn't just kept your name at "Cake"?GladiOol wrote:
You should've just kept it at "Trash".
or maybe just "boat"
oh wait
oh wait
Battler is that you??Trash Boat wrote:
i just changed my username and avatar. i won't regret it
who else could it be? boat?Sal32 wrote:
Battler is that you??
my house might be foreclosed on next month
huge back taxes
nowhere to go
anxiety overload
huge back taxes
nowhere to go
anxiety overload
Anyone who changes their name based on a stupid joke will regret it eventually.NotEvenDoomMusic wrote:
battler077 wrote:
i just changed my username and avatar. i won't regret itbattler077 wrote:
i won't regret ityes you will.battler077 wrote:
regret
Except stupid people, I guess. So hey.
my name is way too cool to be changed.
coming from youYoeri wrote:
Anyone who changes their name based on a stupid joke will regret it eventually.
Except stupid people, I guess. So hey.
My real name is a stupid joke. Never have I been so rekt. T~TTrash Boat wrote:
coming from youYoeri wrote:
Anyone who changes their name based on a stupid joke will regret it eventually.
Except stupid people, I guess. So hey.
whenever my facial hair starts to itch me, i have to shave it, even in the middle of the night
except bumperpower64 was actually cool and retro
I give no shits about that name anymore. 14 year old me can go die.
I use roughly half of my incomes on computer parts and peripherals :s
I'm a stupid meme.
But yet it somehow became my currently most and widely used user name.
Now everyone thinks i'm a stupid 14 yr old who plays CoD and tries to 360noscope people out of dem XxSKILLZxX
Though i don't think that i'm going to change my name either.
But yet it somehow became my currently most and widely used user name.
Now everyone thinks i'm a stupid 14 yr old who plays CoD and tries to 360noscope people out of dem XxSKILLZxX
Though i don't think that i'm going to change my name either.
who is this bumper you speak of? i only know bu,perKanye West wrote:
except bumperpower64 was actually cool and retro
when i was 12 my nickname was gladi-a-tor with those beautiful horizontal lines inbetween them. i have no idea why. atleast it wasn't xXxgladiatormlgxXx
when you were 12 that name would've been new and fresh though.GladiOol wrote:
who is this bumper you speak of? i only know bu,perKanye West wrote:
except bumperpower64 was actually cool and retro
when i was 12 my nickname was gladi-a-tor with those beautiful horizontal lines inbetween them. i have no idea why. atleast it wasn't xXxgladiatormlgxXx
except the xXx thingies. those are there since the beginning of time.
Oh god. When I was 12 my CS name was L33tStealthLord or something ridiculous like that
The same goes to my old e-mail.
I used to have a really kiddyfied e-mail add. something like ShadowKill3@etc
Imagine having to put that in your resume.
I used to have a really kiddyfied e-mail add. something like ShadowKill3@etc
Imagine having to put that in your resume.
I confess that I once had an edgy name when I was 12-13 and joined the internet
"ben-over"
Mr Color is not much better but I've never had a good opportunity to switch
"ben-over"
Mr Color is not much better but I've never had a good opportunity to switch
I now have an character named yoloswagger420 in planetside 2 because it is humiliating to be killed by a guy named yoloswagger420.
now i only need to not suck at the game \:D/
now i only need to not suck at the game \:D/
here is a real confession
i hate anyone that posts gay stuff in the Post you in real life thread
i hate anyone that posts gay stuff in the Post you in real life thread
poor D33ddNextGen wrote:
here is a real confession
i hate anyone that posts gay stuff in the Post you in real life thread
i still use the same name i used when i was 12
I think my first internet name was [fin]Blade and then finBlade and then BladeMichael. I didn't really play online but my first nick that I used when playing online was Mianki which I thought for osu!. So yeah, osu! was my first online game and I found osu! when I was 18.
Console faggot yeaaaaaaaah
Console faggot yeaaaaaaaah
my first name was madeforfun100 I was so confused when people made sex jokes towards me 
me too (mathexpert)silmarilen wrote:
i still use the same name i used when i was 12
Made relization I made madeforfun10 when i was 10 and i changed to beeboy at 12 so im the same as you guysmathexpert wrote:
me too (mathexpert)silmarilen wrote:
i still use the same name i used when i was 12
mathexpert, would u recommend me to watch K-ON!? because i'm kinda bored and can't decide with which anime i should re-introduce myself
I thought I've already told you to watch that manly show.
Late to the party, but I've used 2nnt since 2005 May (8 years old [was first stylized as 2 nnt, but I realized it looked dumb and most of the sites didn't allow spaces]) and it took me long enough to start using Static Noise Bird (mid-2012) / Equinox Songbird (mid-2013). Waiting for mid-2014~
Related confession because this post is way off-topic (in Off-Topic):
I still visit Neopets every summer (the first site where I used 2nnt as it is)
Related confession because this post is way off-topic (in Off-Topic):
I still visit Neopets every summer (the first site where I used 2nnt as it is)
been using thelewa for 10 years I think
yeahhhhh
yeahhhhh
i didnt even know what the internet was when i was 8
i find cave/other random shmup game fans who are too cool for touhou hipster elitists really distasteful
I don't think I never really got the whole Touhou thing. Played 2 Touhou games and the songs were pretty cool but they started to get repetitive imo.
SaigonAlice wrote:
i find cave/other random shmup game fans who are too cool for touhou hipster elitists really distasteful
So basically you mean that unless I find touhou super cool and awesome I'm a distasteful hipster fag?
I think the same way about prejudice people like you then \:v/
edit: hmmm...
Heh it seems we all have our childhood passions. I still visit Maplestory every summer and religiously track the development of Maplestory 2 :3Static Noise Bird wrote:
Related confession because this post is way off-topic (in Off-Topic):
I still visit Neopets every summer (the first site where I used 2nnt as it is)
I go back to Maplestory for making new characters every time there is one, like I'm going to make a beast tamer when it comes out. And then I quit in 2 weeks again.AlucPanda wrote:
Heh it seems we all have our childhood passions. I still visit Maplestory every summer and religiously track the development of Maplestory 2 :3Static Noise Bird wrote:
Related confession because this post is way off-topic (in Off-Topic):
I still visit Neopets every summer (the first site where I used 2nnt as it is)
Maplestory goes way back for me though, like I played before there was a cash shop.
Ah yes, the good old days where we rolled for hours for that perfect 4/4 stat, considered Crimson Balrog to be the strongest monster ever, and stalked Tiger/Suuushi while hoarding their loot with Dark Sight hoho. MS always brings out the nostalgia in me <3Rorona wrote:
AlucPanda wrote:
Maplestory goes way back for me though, like I played before there was a cash shop.
i knew i'd hurt someones feelings when i made that post, sorry about that.Liiraye wrote:
SaigonAlice wrote:
i find cave/other random shmup game fans who are too cool for touhou hipster elitists really distasteful
So basically you mean that unless I find touhou super cool and awesome I'm a distasteful hipster fag?
I think the same way about prejudice people like you then \:v/
edit: hmmm...I'm not sick enough to stay home today but I don't wanna work either wiiieI'm a good liar.
Edit, but you're right, I am prejudiced. Im prejudiced against Chinese for the 1000 year invasion of Vietnam and the sino-Vietnamese war. Im prejudiced against the French for the 100 year occupation. Im prejudiced against Cambodians for Pol Pot. Im prejudiced against Americans for intiating war with Vietnam and the chemicals they left, creating birth defects. Im prejudiced against against Koreans for the rape of Vietnamese women during the war and mail order brides. Im prejudiced against Japanese for whale hunting and colonisation of Vietnam. Im prejudiced against Germans for their Nazi history. Im prejudiced against Nordics for Ive seen a number them involved in White supremacy. Im prejudiced against atheists for a few of them have been harassing people for having a religion. The list is endless and when I think about, its hypocritical because the Vietnamese and Catholics have done pretty horrible things too. Yet I still befriend these people, whether real life or online. Why? Because I feel the benefits of emotional support and purely just having another buddy to talk to outweighs my grudges. Im human and sad to say not perfect, I happen to be extremely good at something shared by many of us, being stupidly Judgemental. Unfortunately clinging to these prejudices is something i do too. We need more open minded people like you, Liiraye. Sorry, I really wanted to confess this to let out some "steam".
so you admit being a cunt.
everyone has prejudices, but that doesn't mean that they are good. you should work on reducing your prejudices, especially those that stem from relatively old conflicts (where most, if any, of the people who could be held responsible are dead already).
I'm prejudiced against asteroids for wiping out dinosaurs
i like japanese people even if their grandparents raped my country ^____^
Hey, you don't see me complain about germany
Huh...Mr Color wrote:
Hey, you don't see me complain about germany
i know that i made an racist comment against french people somewhere as an answer to you.Mr Color wrote:
Hey, you don't see me complain about germany
you added me as a friend.
10/10 would racist again.
German > FrenchMr Color wrote:
Hey, you don't see me complain about germany
do you want a croissant
CAAAAN YOU FEEEEL THE LOOOOVE TONIGHTTTTTTSethlied wrote:
German > FrenchMr Color wrote:
Hey, you don't see me complain about germany
do you want a croissant
yesGladiOol wrote:
so you admit being a cunt.
i see. thank you.Tanzklaue wrote:
everyone has prejudices, but that doesn't mean that they are good. you should work on reducing your prejudices, especially those that stem from relatively old conflicts (where most, if any, of the people who could be held responsible are dead already).
I don't know anything about this open-mind nonsense. That falls short whenever you're prompted by others to take up extremist, prejudiced, or illogical ideas you can't accept. Clearly, there is a point where you have to draw a line, even when your stance is complete neutrality.
Anyway, when you judge people, the best thing you can do is to do it fairly. Do it on a case-by-case basis, because people exist as individuals and not as groups. They can't help—as individuals—the standard or image others might make for them. Exceptions exist. People born now don't necessarily agree with what their country believed fifty or a thousand years ago. The public image is not necessarily the truth.
You ought to realize it yourself since you said you try to befriend people despite the prejudices in your mind. At least, for that much, I don't think of you as a bad person.
Then yet again, I never took you seriously because of the god bless thing in the first place but w/e.
inb4 do not judge lest you be judged
Anyway, when you judge people, the best thing you can do is to do it fairly. Do it on a case-by-case basis, because people exist as individuals and not as groups. They can't help—as individuals—the standard or image others might make for them. Exceptions exist. People born now don't necessarily agree with what their country believed fifty or a thousand years ago. The public image is not necessarily the truth.
You ought to realize it yourself since you said you try to befriend people despite the prejudices in your mind. At least, for that much, I don't think of you as a bad person.
Then yet again, I never took you seriously because of the god bless thing in the first place but w/e.
inb4 do not judge lest you be judged
hmm okay i see your point and will try to apply it. god bless and thank you.Brian OA wrote:
I don't know anything about this open-mind nonsense. That falls short whenever you're prompted by others to take up extremist, prejudiced, or illogical ideas you can't accept. Clearly, there is a point where you have to draw a line, even when your stance is complete neutrality.
Anyway, when you judge people, the best thing you can do is to do it fairly. Do it on a case-by-case basis, because people exist as individuals and not as groups. They can't help—as individuals—the standard or image others might make for them. Exceptions exist. People born now don't necessarily agree with what their country believed fifty or a thousand years ago. The public image is not necessarily the truth.
You ought to realize it yourself since you said you try to befriend people despite the prejudices in your mind. At least, for that much, I don't think of you as a bad person.
Then yet again, I never took you seriously because of the god bless thing in the first place but w/e.
inb4 do not judge lest you be judged
the funny thing is that i found my prejudices exclusively from the internet, reading articles and such.
one time i had a lao friend online, we were cool. as you might know it was on a highly nationalistic asian forum, the kind where they talk about pale skin beauty and the like. there was a forum fight between the lao and the viets, then he started talking bad about the vietnamese. i felt betrayed because i thought he knew better, but now i realized how much of a hyporcrite i am.
Sometimes I wonder what committing a heinous crime would be like. Stuff along the lines of rape, serial murder, necrophilia, terrorism, etc. Can't see myself doing it or even having the motivation/sexual inclinations for it, but it's an experience no standard man would ever go through. I at least want to talk someone that has done any of the above.
On another note, I don't seem to have any motivation to finish that CYOA thread.
On another note, I don't seem to have any motivation to finish that CYOA thread.
>rapeBrian OA wrote:
Sometimes I wonder what committing a heinous crime would be like. Stuff along the lines of rape, serial murder, necrophilia, terrorism, etc. Can't see myself doing it or even having the motivation/sexual inclinations for it, but it's an experience no standard man would ever go through. I at least want to talk someone that has done any of the above.
On another note, I don't seem to have any motivation to finish that CYOA thread.
>serial murder
those aren't even close to each other
wow, thats strange, i have those thoughts too. i've always dreamed about strangling my science teacher.Brian OA wrote:
Sometimes I wonder what committing a heinous crime would be like. Stuff along the lines of rape, serial murder, necrophilia, terrorism, etc. Can't see myself doing it or even having the motivation/sexual inclinations for it, but it's an experience no standard man would ever go through. I at least want to talk someone that has done any of the above.
I have a friend who once raped a 17yr old girl.
He told me it was mostly out of anger. It was a mix of bad parents, bullies and bad influences that led him to do this. He's still in prison BTW.
I still call him friend because he really isn't a bad guy. He was always definetly nicer than me during highschool. I knew that he had problems with his dad, but something bad must have happened to get him to do something as bad as this.
Guess we should just be careful with the people around us.
He told me it was mostly out of anger. It was a mix of bad parents, bullies and bad influences that led him to do this. He's still in prison BTW.
I still call him friend because he really isn't a bad guy. He was always definetly nicer than me during highschool. I knew that he had problems with his dad, but something bad must have happened to get him to do something as bad as this.
Guess we should just be careful with the people around us.
ughCeph23 wrote:
I have a friend who once raped a 17yr old girl.
He told me it was mostly out of anger. It was a mix of bad parents, bullies and bad influences that led him to do this. He's still in prison BTW.
I still call him friend because he really isn't a bad guy. He was always definetly nicer than me during highschool. I knew that he had problems with his dad, but something bad must have happened to get him to do something as bad as this.
Guess we should just be careful with the people around us.
just because his parents were horrible (or whatever, really) to him it is not an excuse to cause harm to another innocent human being
do you know what kind of trauma it can give to the victim?
your "friend" is a pig, and a rapist; he can be the nicest guy in the world, but at the end he is still a rapist.
i can't believe you still dare to call him like that (i am not saying that you are stupid or anything, please don't get me wrong, but it's just unbelievable for me)
Except for the part where he fucking raped a 17 year old what the fuckCeph23 wrote:
he really isn't a bad guy
anong klasing tao yan?Ceph23 wrote:
I have a friend who once raped a 17yr old girl.
He told me it was mostly out of anger. It was a mix of bad parents, bullies and bad influences that led him to do this. He's still in prison BTW.
I still call him friend because he really isn't a bad guy. He was always definetly nicer than me during highschool. I knew that he had problems with his dad, but something bad must have happened to get him to do something as bad as this.
Guess we should just be careful with the people around us.
that's crazy. you don't do an unforgivable crime and expect people to still like you after. I respect your decision for still calling him your friend, but regardless of how nice he is, there is no excuse for rape.
You know there is a reason why the word "fuck", which hints at the sexual intercourse of a subject, is much more insulting than the word "damn", which directly hints at the death of a subject. So this means, raped at some perspectives is worse than death.
Wait, if it's like that why isn't there an anime about rape victims to capture all the powerful pathos and drama?
Wait, if it's like that why isn't there an anime about rape victims to capture all the powerful pathos and drama?
Taong biktima ng masamang kapaligiran.dkun wrote:
anong klasing tao yan?
I agree that he did something really unforgivable and that he deserves every punishment he received and maybe even more. And maybe the only reason why I still call him friend is my foolish decision too try and see the good in all people. But I feel a bit guilty.
I mean I've known the guy for a very long time so I knew about the things that were hurting him. If I knew that these things would eventualy lead him to do something despicable, I would have done what I could to convince him not to.
It just bothers me that I never did anything to help him before it was too late.
So I still treat him like my friend.
Just make sure you're not blaming his parents or whatever for it. Sure, they might've given him a hard life, but as Dulcet said- there's no excuses to hurt someone who's totally innocent like that, and *especially* not when it comes to rape. A lot of people get their lives absolutely ruined just because some guy decided to do that, eurghgh, you must have no idea how much it can hurt somebody.Ceph23 wrote:
Taong biktima ng masamang kapaligiran.dkun wrote:
anong klasing tao yan?
I agree that he did something really unforgivable and that he deserves every punishment he received and maybe even more. And maybe the only reason why I still call him friend is my foolish decision too try and see the good in all people. But I feel a bit guilty.
I mean I've known the guy for a very long time so I knew about the things that were hurting him. If I knew that these things would eventualy lead him to do something despicable, I would have done what I could to convince him not to.
It just bothers me that I never did anything to help him before it was too late.
So I still treat him like my friend.
I can somewhat relate. First off, relax guys, Ceph is in no way trying to "justify" the crime or give an "excuse"; she's simply stating the essential core character of her friend. It is not always the case that someone who commits a crime is automatically and forever distinguished as a "bad guy". For instance, during acute depression I too have resorted to sexual means for relief. While nowhere near the degree of underage rape, I can at least understand the motives and pressures that led to his decision. (Relax, I said understand, not acknowledge).Ceph23 wrote:
I still call him friend because he really isn't a bad guy. He was always definetly nicer than me during highschool.
Ceph, who knows what I would have done if not a single friend would stay by my side during my darkest of times. I understand this is a highly serious crime and understand why many would choose to ignore him. But I also understand why you still consider him a friend and still recognize his core character, and I encourage you to stay by his side and facilitate his reflective rehabilitation.
There's not much rehabilitation if you're treating it as: "Oh, it wasn't really *him* doing it, it was because of his bad background!"
I don't know too much about 'murrican prisons, but they don't seem like they help much with this sort of behaviour. To be able to rape someone, your "core character" has to be the type that could. Even people with horrible lives can understand how horrible and wrong it is, never mind actually going out and doing it.
I don't know too much about 'murrican prisons, but they don't seem like they help much with this sort of behaviour. To be able to rape someone, your "core character" has to be the type that could. Even people with horrible lives can understand how horrible and wrong it is, never mind actually going out and doing it.
Ok point taken.
The guy is messed up like pickle flavored ice cream I get it. I know I can't blame it all on the shit that happened in his life and he deserves to get his dick get ripped apart by tigers or something. Maybe he decieved us by showing us a fake version of himself for 11 damned years and maybe he is rotten to the core.
But please understand he was my friend before he became like this. It's hard to just abandon a person you've grown up with because of a single defining moment. We WANT to see him change for the better.
As stupid and foolish as it might sound, we aren't giving up on him yet.
I don't expect many people to understand this.
The guy is messed up like pickle flavored ice cream I get it. I know I can't blame it all on the shit that happened in his life and he deserves to get his dick get ripped apart by tigers or something. Maybe he decieved us by showing us a fake version of himself for 11 damned years and maybe he is rotten to the core.
But please understand he was my friend before he became like this. It's hard to just abandon a person you've grown up with because of a single defining moment. We WANT to see him change for the better.
As stupid and foolish as it might sound, we aren't giving up on him yet.
I don't expect many people to understand this.
uff, thanks