General information about this post
Like someone said - meta changes, not gonna make a big post, I am still messed up completely since when i started lurking here back to... around 3 years ago, I still like this place and more - I still like people here, no matter if they are old fags who I recognize or new one who try to make it a different place.
Let me start from one thing - Yes, i left discord and main reason for this was to clear my mind, cut out of all people and make this post without watching for "what is going on discord", tl;dr - cut down all this drama. This post is supposed to be anti-drama management, general damage control and maybe a way to satbilize everything around what we "can" do together. I am out of speaking "this is better" or "this is shit", just before you stop even reading this.
Like someone said - meta changes, not gonna make a big post, I am still messed up completely since when i started lurking here back to... around 3 years ago, I still like this place and more - I still like people here, no matter if they are old fags who I recognize or new one who try to make it a different place.
Let me start from one thing - Yes, i left discord and main reason for this was to clear my mind, cut out of all people and make this post without watching for "what is going on discord", tl;dr - cut down all this drama. This post is supposed to be anti-drama management, general damage control and maybe a way to satbilize everything around what we "can" do together. I am out of speaking "this is better" or "this is shit", just before you stop even reading this.
Content
First off, I am aware that Ephemeralis posted his set of rules to OT - cannot find it, I lost link, my appologize but i guess, what i will propse will not go away from them much.
How about - we all agree to some rules, to live together. Lets be honest - OT is our home, we all live in one place, together and we all expect from everyone else something - freedom of speach, freedom of making useless topics, having fun posting shit, etc. But everything needs to have red line which nobody should cross. All of this what will be posted below, should be discussed with you and especially with:
- Ephemeralis - since it is also additional problem on his head and i guess he also would love to enjoy this place
- Mods - since lets be honest, it is our fault they abandoned us
1. Off-topic is a place where lands everything what is out of general subforums - All kind of spam which have hope to be a discussion, all memes, all useless shit which should be left in oblivion faster than normally.
2. All registered admins, moderators, citizens, trashposters, oldfags, newfags, refugees, terrorists, lolicons, gays, bdsm lovers and everyone else not mentioned here should treat this place as a home, place where you come and live with others. - You are not alone here, others want to use this place too, respect their needs and then, expect them to respect your needs.
3. Content of topics should follow some basic rules:
5. Everyone should have fun - Lets just stop being a bitches like I was in past days and get together. I guess we owe appologize to mods, especially Flanster and Stefan, to Ephemeral for all this shit what was done. I am sure we can go back in time and have fun together here. Remember, if one person is laughing and other is crying, it's not fun, it is pathetic situation. Right now whole situation here is sad and close to make one side laugh and other side cry.
6. We all know people which we don't like and don't accept but please do not be openly hostile towards them - Don't openly insult them, their families, don't make unnecessary fun of them in bad way, just... if you really need to - ignore them, thread as oxygen. Don't create drama over your own bad behavior because at the end, you are not better than him if you get down to his level and insult him.
Forever the same point. This above are guidelines which everyone should follow on their own will - Why? We all want to have fun, we all want this place to be a chillout from work/school/gameplay etc. If everyone follows it, nobody will be hurt. It is for everyones good sake and avoiding unnecessary dramas.
First off, I am aware that Ephemeralis posted his set of rules to OT - cannot find it, I lost link, my appologize but i guess, what i will propse will not go away from them much.
How about - we all agree to some rules, to live together. Lets be honest - OT is our home, we all live in one place, together and we all expect from everyone else something - freedom of speach, freedom of making useless topics, having fun posting shit, etc. But everything needs to have red line which nobody should cross. All of this what will be posted below, should be discussed with you and especially with:
- Ephemeralis - since it is also additional problem on his head and i guess he also would love to enjoy this place
- Mods - since lets be honest, it is our fault they abandoned us
1. Off-topic is a place where lands everything what is out of general subforums - All kind of spam which have hope to be a discussion, all memes, all useless shit which should be left in oblivion faster than normally.
2. All registered admins, moderators, citizens, trashposters, oldfags, newfags, refugees, terrorists, lolicons, gays, bdsm lovers and everyone else not mentioned here should treat this place as a home, place where you come and live with others. - You are not alone here, others want to use this place too, respect their needs and then, expect them to respect your needs.
3. Content of topics should follow some basic rules:
- Do not derail topics which are healthy, have some respect for a creator and if topic have some health and content to provide, do not derail it completely. Making a meme which may indirectly derail topic but doesn't disturb general discussion may be acceptable
- If this is happy birthday topic, please do not derail it, there is no need, let this topics contain something for a person who got +1 to life level
- Personal blogs (mentioning for a rason) - maybe keep them in one thread, get a bit creative with posts, maybe... if you want to say someone that there is a rain, post some picture or something? Make in catching eye! DO NOT spread this into hundred of topics, keep everything else in one like "Taiga's daily shithole life"
- AMA - one per person, need it on top? bump it but with some common sense and logic, don't spam it with bumps
- Fanclubs - same as above
- General shitpost - Be at list a bit creative in either - way of speaking, pictures, general content OR make topic have some basic topic which can ignite some discussion, memes or something where everyone could have some fun.
- Memes, picture-talking etc - do it with some logic, eg. don't post them where discussion is healthy unless it is on topic, use common sense
- General utter shit - Means everything what is posted by simple urge for comming here, clicking "New Topic", facerolling keyboard and clicking post. If you post it, expect it to be locked, oblivioned and even if this didn't happen, let this die asap.
5. Everyone should have fun - Lets just stop being a bitches like I was in past days and get together. I guess we owe appologize to mods, especially Flanster and Stefan, to Ephemeral for all this shit what was done. I am sure we can go back in time and have fun together here. Remember, if one person is laughing and other is crying, it's not fun, it is pathetic situation. Right now whole situation here is sad and close to make one side laugh and other side cry.
6. We all know people which we don't like and don't accept but please do not be openly hostile towards them - Don't openly insult them, their families, don't make unnecessary fun of them in bad way, just... if you really need to - ignore them, thread as oxygen. Don't create drama over your own bad behavior because at the end, you are not better than him if you get down to his level and insult him.
Forever the same point. This above are guidelines which everyone should follow on their own will - Why? We all want to have fun, we all want this place to be a chillout from work/school/gameplay etc. If everyone follows it, nobody will be hurt. It is for everyones good sake and avoiding unnecessary dramas.
Last words
Yes, I was a bitch and I personally admit this as I have courage to see this. I don't expect certain people to agree with me, I am prepared to see them shit over this post, hell, do it. But with all your hate, throw some constructive discussion into it ok?
More, answering Meah post, I will even start myself:
I am sorry from deep of my heart for insulting others and forcing my opinion. I am truly sorry but overall image of what was going on just made me angry.
Will try to reach elders, make them post their feeling.
As i said, I am part of this forum, I use it a lot and I care what is going on around.
Also about you peeps.
Yes, I was a bitch and I personally admit this as I have courage to see this. I don't expect certain people to agree with me, I am prepared to see them shit over this post, hell, do it. But with all your hate, throw some constructive discussion into it ok?
More, answering Meah post, I will even start myself:
I am sorry from deep of my heart for insulting others and forcing my opinion. I am truly sorry but overall image of what was going on just made me angry.
Will try to reach elders, make them post their feeling.
As i said, I am part of this forum, I use it a lot and I care what is going on around.
Also about you peeps.