same here ,mrdumpling64 wrote:
real life: almost don't really talk to anyone
internet: depends, sometimes i talk to many people but otherwise it's the same as real life
same here ,mrdumpling64 wrote:
real life: almost don't really talk to anyone
internet: depends, sometimes i talk to many people but otherwise it's the same as real life
In that case I would prefer that you act like your irl self moreKokoaCrunch wrote:
Well in real life most people tried to talk to me but i mostly ignored them, I'm more of an antisocial type i guess. But in the internet i keep spouting out nonsense trying to get people's attention.
A complete opposite :/
Be the same outside as you are here, like me.Mahoganytooth wrote:
IRL I'm withdrawn and won't talk to you unless I know you
Online I'm horribly blunt all the time and I'm not worried about pissing people off
Dear god, talking about the stuff you talk to me in chat IRL? Everyone would think I'm wierd...er.Kheldragar wrote:
Be the same outside as you are here, like me.Mahoganytooth wrote:
IRL I'm withdrawn and won't talk to you unless I know you
Online I'm horribly blunt all the time and I'm not worried about pissing people off
Sounds exactly like meAurani wrote:
I beg to differ. Being open on the Internet (being a general dick) and completely withdrawn in real life means that the person lacks self-confidence and is generally a spongy nerd.
Why would you be like that? I mean, unless you really enjoy being a dick, I see no reason why you would behave like that...Mahoganytooth wrote:
Sounds exactly like me
No no, I didn't mean it like that. You have just said that you don't INTENTIONALLY want to be a dick, but people perceive you as one because of your straightforwardness. I would also fall under that category, so no, there is nothing wrong with that.Mahoganytooth wrote:
I don't mean to be a jackass (most of the time (not on these forums anyway)) but I'm usually incredibly blunt with what I say, not for the intention of being a dick, but because I've always been blunt with what I say.
It's the same reason I'm completely hopeless with people
Aurani wrote:
We all enjoy doing naughty things from time to time. :p
I can be a dick too, despite looks, actually, everyone from staff can be if you're dick/dumb to them.bigfeh wrote:
and while we're at it (and if we're going to be honest), who doesn't enjoy being a dick from time to time
Most people (and just so we're crystal clear, I'm not most people in this case) would first assume staff are asses instead of normal people. It's happened to me and people often go "you're actually nice", which is... weird (especially considering it's me we're talking about here)Marcin wrote:
Aurani wrote:
We all enjoy doing naughty things from time to time. :pI can be a dick too, despite looks, actually, everyone from staff can be if you're dick/dumb to them.bigfeh wrote:
and while we're at it (and if we're going to be honest), who doesn't enjoy being a dick from time to time
Genuine question: where did you get that from? Just because you assume someone's an ass, it doesn't mean you'd act like an assMarcin wrote:
People that assume/think that staff are asses are almost always the ones who get silenced, so no surprise there \:D/
thissilmarilen wrote:
online me is how irl me would be if i wasnt so scared of talking to people or speaking my mind.
Yeah, because they express their opinionMarcin wrote:
People that assume/think that staff are asses are almost always the ones who get silenced, so no surprise there \:D/
your avatar makes me like youChiuyo wrote:
In-real: I'm careful with not making weird jokes that makes people feel different about me, and I don't like sociolizing with a lot of people cuzzz it's too far away from my comfortable zone (?) I can't express my feelings at all too.
Internet: I'm too honest and always make sexual and immature jokes and literally don't give a crap if people consider me as a weird person. Also I'm more loveable for some reason.
As for me, I don't put conscious effort into creating an alter-ego. There are differences that arise from communication online and offline being .. well, different. I always liked to view the gap between RL and online-self as a result of said differences, like for instance: anonymity and directness to name the two most important ones.aisakatayga wrote:
Do you guys create your alter-ego, second part of yourself in internet? If yes, you feel like spending few min and being honest what's reason of this?
You don't have to put conscious effort in creating an online personality, it happens by itself when you interact a lot with people. Try to pin down how you generally behave when interacting online. Try to pin down how you generally behave when interacting offline. The coining differences make up the gap between online and offline personality.- [ U z z I ] - wrote:
I don't understand the concept of having an online personality. I've always found it to require effort to do something like that so I just don't.
4th: People that are nice here and assholes IRL.Marcin wrote:
There are 3. types of people:
First that will be hating you in internet (I as moderator am hated a lot), but is not going to do a thing when he meets you in real life, and will generally stay cool
Second that will be cool in internet and even better in real life
Third one complete fucktards that will attempt to be idiots both in real life and internet
That's meRailey2 wrote:
4th: People that are nice here and assholes IRL.