[ Sebastian ] wrote:

For me: I don't get how people can fall in sexual love for each other just from online interactions. At least meet each other a few times before wanting to fuck each other.

eblf2013 wrote:

Eeeeh, depends what do you want to do with them. Wanting to have sex just for the sake of it is completely different than wanting to date someone. In summary, sexual attraction is not the same as romantic attraction. Be really careful with mistaking one with the other, people.

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

eblf2013 wrote:

Eeeeh, depends what do you want to do with them. Wanting to have sex just for the sake of it is completely different than wanting to date someone. In summary, sexual attraction is not the same as romantic attraction. Be really careful with mistaking one with the other, people.

I know that. I'm talking about people who just want to have sex with each other just from talking to each other online with no physical meetups. That is what I don't understand :/

Manishh wrote:

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

eblf2013 wrote:

Eeeeh, depends what do you want to do with them. Wanting to have sex just for the sake of it is completely different than wanting to date someone. In summary, sexual attraction is not the same as romantic attraction. Be really careful with mistaking one with the other, people.

I know that. I'm talking about people who just want to have sex with each other just from talking to each other online with no physical meetups. That is what I don't understand :/

IMO these type of things are only in hentai or adult comics/videos. Majority people dont want to have sex just for the sake of it by just talking to each other online.

It can be one sided but most likely not in both sides. For example a guy might wanna have sex with a girl but its really unlikely that the girl think the same for the guy.

But both person wanting to date is possible

Reyalp51 wrote:

life has no meaning and no purpose, we are born by chance and we die by chance and that is not a bad thing, i believe that is the best posible outcome. Because if life had a defenitive meaning and someone could't fulfill it that would be depressing. If life has no meaning then you can give life meaning just the way you want.

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

eblf2013 wrote:

Eeeeh, depends what do you want to do with them. Wanting to have sex just for the sake of it is completely different than wanting to date someone. In summary, sexual attraction is not the same as romantic attraction. Be really careful with mistaking one with the other, people.

I know that. I'm talking about people who just want to have sex with each other just from talking to each other online with no physical meetups. That is what I don't understand :/

eblf2013 wrote:

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

eblf2013 wrote:

Eeeeh, depends what do you want to do with them. Wanting to have sex just for the sake of it is completely different than wanting to date someone. In summary, sexual attraction is not the same as romantic attraction. Be really careful with mistaking one with the other, people.

I know that. I'm talking about people who just want to have sex with each other just from talking to each other online with no physical meetups. That is what I don't understand :/

Photos and videos exist my friend.

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

eblf2013 wrote:

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

eblf2013 wrote:

Eeeeh, depends what do you want to do with them. Wanting to have sex just for the sake of it is completely different than wanting to date someone. In summary, sexual attraction is not the same as romantic attraction. Be really careful with mistaking one with the other, people.

I know that. I'm talking about people who just want to have sex with each other just from talking to each other online with no physical meetups. That is what I don't understand :/

Photos and videos exist my friend.

That still seems weird to me.

Karmine wrote:

Reyalp51 wrote:

life has no meaning and no purpose, we are born by chance and we die by chance and that is not a bad thing, i believe that is the best posible outcome. Because if life had a defenitive meaning and someone could't fulfill it that would be depressing. If life has no meaning then you can give life meaning just the way you want.

Is this really spicy? It seems obvious to me.

Here's mine:
Most people don't have the required patience and teaching skills to be parents and are therefore bad parents.
There should be mandatory training for that (in high school perhaps).

179bpm wrote:

time for another one

went to hofbrauhaus for the first time yesterday and i just wanna say

it’s like if extroversion was a restaurant

-Remi wrote:

nuke taiwan to solve the worlds problems

Karmine wrote:

179bpm wrote:

time for another one

went to hofbrauhaus for the first time yesterday and i just wanna say

it’s like if extroversion was a restaurant

What is that supposed to mean?

179bpm wrote:

also the iced tea burned my throat for some reason

179bpm wrote:

Karmine wrote:

179bpm wrote:

time for another one

went to hofbrauhaus for the first time yesterday and i just wanna say

it’s like if extroversion was a restaurant

What is that supposed to mean?

it was really loud there

they had bavarian music playing

people could literally get SLAPPED there

and it was probably the first restaurant to overwhelm me

also the iced tea burned my throat for some reason

eblf2013 wrote:

-Remi wrote:

nuke taiwan to solve the worlds problems

Please no, they have uncensored furry hentai manga.

eblf2013 wrote:

Windy days are superior to rainy days.

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

Another hot take: A trans person should be misgendered if they did something horrible. I'm against trans people being misgendered for no reason, but I think it would be good if people started misgendering horrible trans people. It's like a punishment for them to never do that thing again and excludes them from the trans community.

This is not meant to be transphobic and is just a weird idea by me.

Aireunaeus wrote:

has anyone tried the one chip challenge. well i did, and that was one of the spiciest chip i ever tried. it has bout 2.2mil scoville . i could not speak once after i ate that. i also expected this chip to taste like bbq or something spicy. but that was spicier than ever. so that was my spiciest take rn 🥵

octowave wrote:

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

Another hot take: A trans person should be misgendered if they did something horrible. I'm against trans people being misgendered for no reason, but I think it would be good if people started misgendering horrible trans people. It's like a punishment for them to never do that thing again and excludes them from the trans community.

This is not meant to be transphobic and is just a weird idea by me.

i know you say you're not trying to be transphobic, and i honestly believe you to some extent, but unless you pull the same thing on cis people as well, you are just being transphobic. and in probably the pettiest way possible

it's a bad idea in general, really. it sets a dangerous precedent that correct gendering is a privilage for trans people that can be taken away at any time if they're perceived to be "wrong" in some way. i'm sure we all know by now just how easy it is to influence people by poking at their morals and need for "justice" (however petty that justice may be)

there's far better ways to express your anger towards someone

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

octowave wrote:

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

Another hot take: A trans person should be misgendered if they did something horrible. I'm against trans people being misgendered for no reason, but I think it would be good if people started misgendering horrible trans people. It's like a punishment for them to never do that thing again and excludes them from the trans community.

This is not meant to be transphobic and is just a weird idea by me.

i know you say you're not trying to be transphobic, and i honestly believe you to some extent, but unless you pull the same thing on cis people as well, you are just being transphobic. and in probably the pettiest way possible

it's a bad idea in general, really. it sets a dangerous precedent that correct gendering is a privilage for trans people that can be taken away at any time if they're perceived to be "wrong" in some way. i'm sure we all know by now just how easy it is to influence people by poking at their morals and need for "justice" (however petty that justice may be)

there's far better ways to express your anger towards someone

I'm not talking about when a trans people is wrong about something, I mean whenever a trans person does something absolutely horrible like doxx someone. At that point even normal trans people don't want to associate with those types of people.

Also, why do you think this is just me expressing my anger towards trans people?

octowave wrote:

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

octowave wrote:

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

Another hot take: A trans person should be misgendered if they did something horrible. I'm against trans people being misgendered for no reason, but I think it would be good if people started misgendering horrible trans people. It's like a punishment for them to never do that thing again and excludes them from the trans community.

This is not meant to be transphobic and is just a weird idea by me.

i know you say you're not trying to be transphobic, and i honestly believe you to some extent, but unless you pull the same thing on cis people as well, you are just being transphobic. and in probably the pettiest way possible

it's a bad idea in general, really. it sets a dangerous precedent that correct gendering is a privilage for trans people that can be taken away at any time if they're perceived to be "wrong" in some way. i'm sure we all know by now just how easy it is to influence people by poking at their morals and need for "justice" (however petty that justice may be)

there's far better ways to express your anger towards someone

I'm not talking about when a trans people is wrong about something, I mean whenever a trans person does something absolutely horrible like doxx someone. At that point even normal trans people don't want to associate with those types of people.

Also, why do you think this is just me expressing my anger towards trans people?

that's not what i meant, b. when i said "wrong" i meant wrong in pretty much any way you can interpret the word, which includes doing messed up stuff like doxxing. i get that you think it'll work as some form of punishment, but if it gets normalized it will get used against people who don't actually "deserve" it. especially when you throw false accusations into the mix. trust me when i say that most trans people would prefer you don't do it regardless. it's a common sentiment i've seen

also i guess i kinda phrased the other thing wrong. what i meant by anger is trying to perform some kind of justice against someone. i kinda got stuck in the "seeking justice = anger" kind of thing there. which i guess might not necessarily be true? idk. but i wasn't trying to imply you were only angry at specifically trans people or anything, if that's what you think i meant

honestly i'm not going to keep arguing about this for my own sanity. i'm trans. i'd like my existance to not be treated like some moral indicator, or the invalidation of it like a perfectly normal punishment. end of. i can't stop you from doing it, but don't get mad if people call you out on it

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

octowave wrote:

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

octowave wrote:

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

Another hot take: A trans person should be misgendered if they did something horrible. I'm against trans people being misgendered for no reason, but I think it would be good if people started misgendering horrible trans people. It's like a punishment for them to never do that thing again and excludes them from the trans community.

This is not meant to be transphobic and is just a weird idea by me.

i know you say you're not trying to be transphobic, and i honestly believe you to some extent, but unless you pull the same thing on cis people as well, you are just being transphobic. and in probably the pettiest way possible

it's a bad idea in general, really. it sets a dangerous precedent that correct gendering is a privilage for trans people that can be taken away at any time if they're perceived to be "wrong" in some way. i'm sure we all know by now just how easy it is to influence people by poking at their morals and need for "justice" (however petty that justice may be)

there's far better ways to express your anger towards someone

I'm not talking about when a trans people is wrong about something, I mean whenever a trans person does something absolutely horrible like doxx someone. At that point even normal trans people don't want to associate with those types of people.

Also, why do you think this is just me expressing my anger towards trans people?

that's not what i meant, b. when i said "wrong" i meant wrong in pretty much any way you can interpret the word, which includes doing messed up stuff like doxxing. i get that you think it'll work as some form of punishment, but if it gets normalized it will get used against people who don't actually "deserve" it. especially when you throw false accusations into the mix. trust me when i say that most trans people would prefer you don't do it regardless. it's a common sentiment i've seen

also i guess i kinda phrased the other thing wrong. what i meant by anger is trying to perform some kind of justice against someone. i kinda got stuck in the "seeking justice = anger" kind of thing there. which i guess might not necessarily be true? idk. but i wasn't trying to imply you were only angry at specifically trans people or anything, if that's what you think i meant

honestly i'm not going to keep arguing about this for my own sanity. i'm trans. i'd like my existance to not be treated like some moral indicator, or the invalidation of it like a perfectly normal punishment. end of. i can't stop you from doing it, but don't get mad if people call you out on it

You know what? I don't think misgendering trans people like that will do anything like what I imagined. Yes, I am sick of all the bashing trans people have to go through because of the few idiots in there who go overboard on stuff like what happened when Hogwarts Legacy came out. But like you said this would eventually get normalized and cause trans people to feel even more bad about themselves, which was the opposite outcome of what I wanted to achieve doing this.

Treating trans people like a whole other species rather than human just for wanting to go by different things is a stupid idea. I just wanted to help thier name by disassociating the awful trans people from the normal ones. But I should've looked at how it would make people feel about that. There's no excuse for my idea. None whatsoever.

octowave wrote:

in the uk there's a flavor called "flaming hot", but tbh it doesn't taste spicy at all. closer to a weird tomato-y flavor. i actually like how it tastes, but calling it any kind of spicy is just plain wrong

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

octowave wrote:

in the uk there's a flavor called "flaming hot", but tbh it doesn't taste spicy at all. closer to a weird tomato-y flavor. i actually like how it tastes, but calling it any kind of spicy is just plain wrong

I thought you said flower at first lol

Maybe there aren't any really spicy ingredients in the UK? I don't know.

octowave wrote:

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

octowave wrote:

in the uk there's a flavor called "flaming hot", but tbh it doesn't taste spicy at all. closer to a weird tomato-y flavor. i actually like how it tastes, but calling it any kind of spicy is just plain wrong

I thought you said flower at first lol

Maybe there aren't any really spicy ingredients in the UK? I don't know.

flaming hot flower lol

tbh my spice tolerance is probably just super high in comparison to other people over here. either that or it was made and named at a time where it was super spicy to people and it just kinda stuck. we're not exactly known for spicy food over here lol

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

octowave wrote:

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

octowave wrote:

in the uk there's a flavor called "flaming hot", but tbh it doesn't taste spicy at all. closer to a weird tomato-y flavor. i actually like how it tastes, but calling it any kind of spicy is just plain wrong

I thought you said flower at first lol

Maybe there aren't any really spicy ingredients in the UK? I don't know.

flaming hot flower lol

tbh my spice tolerance is probably just super high in comparison to other people over here. either that or it was made and named at a time where it was super spicy to people and it just kinda stuck. we're not exactly known for spicy food over here lol

By the way, are you still mad at me for what I said earlier?

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

Another hot take: A trans person should be misgendered if they did something horrible. I'm against trans people being misgendered for no reason, but I think it would be good if people started misgendering horrible trans people. It's like a punishment for them to never do that thing again and excludes them from the trans community.

This is not meant to be transphobic and is just a weird idea by me.

Patatitta wrote:

[ Sebastian ] wrote:

Another hot take: A trans person should be misgendered if they did something horrible. I'm against trans people being misgendered for no reason, but I think it would be good if people started misgendering horrible trans people. It's like a punishment for them to never do that thing again and excludes them from the trans community.

This is not meant to be transphobic and is just a weird idea by me.

bad take, it's like, it's right to say racial slurs at someone if they did something bad, wtf dude