don't worry i'm pretty friendly
Raose wrote:
don't worry i'm pretty friendly
D:Kitsunemimi wrote:
Naturally, I do my best to scare off anyone who comes in my way whom I haven't known for 3 years already~
I feel the same orz :cBeatofIke wrote:
OMG when I first join osu! I was extremely scared to even chat and post on the forums
most is, and i mean it.thelewa wrote:
the osu! community is fucking terrifying
btw did the black rock shooter take 50% of your money when you divorced it?silmarilen wrote:
its kind of scary how people are "married" to anime characters
1 grid up kd plsTrust wrote:
that blanket
silmarilen wrote:
its kind of scary how people are "married" to anime characters
This haha.winber1 wrote:
I've realized half the time people give no shits about your posts anyway.
yeah, and now he has to pay child supportlaport wrote:
btw did the black rock shooter take 50% of your money when you divorced it?silmarilen wrote:
its kind of scary how people are "married" to anime characters
The truth.winber1 wrote:
I've realized half the time people give no shits about your posts anyway.
words can hurt, especially sensitive peoplebewaredrev wrote:
This community can't hurt you. Why be scared?
Learn to have thick skin then. Being overly sensitive is not a positive trait to have.chox wrote:
words can hurt, especially sensitive people
every person is capable of hurting others and some have pleasure from doing so or are doing that unconsciously while being directed by their true nature
sadly there's no selection in nowadays world and innocent people get hurt by those kinds of people.
yesOzzyOzrock wrote:
osu! community is scary
have you seen those lolis
horrifying
i am confusedPandemoniusz wrote:
This is how i see osu community:
mathexpert wrote:
Learn to have thick skin then. Being overly sensitive is not a positive trait to have.chox wrote:
words can hurt, especially sensitive people
every person is capable of hurting others and some have pleasure from doing so or are doing that unconsciously while being directed by their true nature
sadly there's no selection in nowadays world and innocent people get hurt by those kinds of people.
Of course, being kind is also important. But I feel like some people nowadays are way too sheltered and sensitive to criticism.
in my opinion there's no negative or positive traits one can have, there are just differencesmathexpert wrote:
Learn to have thick skin then. Being overly sensitive is not a positive trait to have.
Of course, being kind is also important. But I feel like some people nowadays are way too sheltered and sensitive to criticism.
But the thing is he's talking about a context over the internet where being overly sensitive to what a random stranger says to you is not a positive trait at ALL to have. ESPECIALLY over the internet where people will say anything with no remorse or regards to the person it's directed towards as it's just the internet, they'll never meet in person and the person will never feel bad over something they said in chat as they won't know how it effects the person. They probably wouldn't give a shit about what it does to the person either.chox wrote:
in my opinion there's no negative or positive traits one can have, there are just differencesmathexpert wrote:
Learn to have thick skin then. Being overly sensitive is not a positive trait to have.
Of course, being kind is also important. But I feel like some people nowadays are way too sheltered and sensitive to criticism.
for example lets say that someone is pessimistic, it may be beneficial that this person isn't expecting too much of themselves thus doesn't get hurt if things go in wrong direction, on the other hand it may limit someone's capability if he is too pessimistic.
i think that "traits" aren't set on stone in person, you can change things if you want to, it's just that individual develops them over time and by that defines himself as a person, which means that those "traits" are developed on their own or by their environment, it just depends on what trait you want to take a look at.
sensitive people tend to overthink some situations and possibly learn to avoid such as it hurts them, and on the other hand if something positive happens to them they overthink it too so they're happier than a "normal" person would be, there's just so many variables in such things..
so to conclude this i think that being sensitive isn't something negative, there are different views on it.
i guess you gotta balance things out, like with everything in lifeZeraphlol wrote:
But the thing is he's talking about a context over the internet where being overly sensitive to what a random stranger says to you is not a positive trait at ALL to have. ESPECIALLY over the internet where people will say anything with no remorse or regards to the person it's directed towards as it's just the internet, they'll never meet in person and the person will never feel bad over something they said in chat as they won't know how it effects the person. They probably wouldn't give a shit about what it does to the person either.
Learning to have thick skin and not being sensitive over the internet is always a good thing. It's also good for real life encounters.
Also this is really ironic cause I'm a huge asshole in #osu.
we just have different approaches on thisZeraphlol wrote:
It's not about being able to take criticism as much as people will say some terrible things and if they're taken too seriously then people get hurt, when they shouldn't be because what does it matter what someone you don't even know says to you?
basically you're saying that you shouldn't take seriously people which you don't know and i guess you mean the negative thingsZeraphlol wrote:
Not exactly, I think you're misunderstanding what I'm saying but I'm too lazy to type an essay. o/
This is where i get scaredEphemeral wrote:
ALL OF YOU WILL PAY FOR YOUR SACRILEGE
I agree that no trait is necessarily bad. But every trait can be bad in excess. Just like how being so kind that you're donating all the money you have to charity and starving yourself is bad. Just like how being so angry that you're beating up your wife is bad. Just like how being so depressed that you're hurting yourself and committing suicide is bad (for you and your loved ones). I'm not talking about being sensitive, I'm talking about overly sensitive.chox wrote:
in my opinion there's no negative or positive traits one can have, there are just differences
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so to conclude this i think that being sensitive isn't something negative, there are different views on it.
I agree, that's why I'm saying learning to have thick skin can be beneficial. People own their lives, and I have no right to tell them what to do. I'm simply stating that for me at least, it is a positive trait.chox wrote:
i think that "traits" aren't set on stone in person, you can change things if you want to
mathexpert wrote:
I agree that no trait is necessarily bad. But every trait can be bad in excess. Just like how being so kind that you're donating all the money you have to charity and starving yourself is bad. Just like how being so angry that you're beating up your wife is bad. Just like how being so depressed that you're hurting yourself and committing suicide is bad (for you and your loved ones). I'm not talking about being sensitive, I'm talking about overly sensitive.
Of course, these examples are a bit extreme (but still very common, mind you) and "overly" is a very subjective verb and the meaning can differ from people to people. But wouldn't you agree that there exists a point where it's just too much?
Being overly sensitive is not a positive trait to have.
overlyoh wow this mind of mine skipping such important words
If you look at 'some threads', you'll know why this thread is created.SoG Tava wrote:
idk why we should be scared lol