just lock in
Shut upWinnyace wrote:
Man, I love how everybody sees me as a villain.Karmine wrote:
Oh no I missed the original post.
Also I'm definitely water.Here's how people would do in a zombie apocalypse (based on a peer reviewed scientific study).If we were all in the same area at the beginning somehow thus managing to find shelter and organise.
Hero = saved people, helped stop the zombies or was very helpful in one way or another
Survivor = survived until the end
Dead = died from zombies, illness, hunger, traitor...
Traitor = made things worse, probably on purpose
Zombie = got turned into one before reaching shelter/other people
Being mid is worst than being bad fuck you patataPatatitta wrote:
how good I consider your taste to be (based on the vibes I get from my thread)
Yeah, I consider your taste garbage too.Patatitta wrote:
how good I consider your taste to be (based on the vibes I get from my thread)
Fuck off.Polyspora wrote:
Shut upWinnyace wrote:
Man, I love how everybody sees me as a villain.Karmine wrote:
Oh no I missed the original post.
Also I'm definitely water.Here's how people would do in a zombie apocalypse (based on a peer reviewed scientific study).If we were all in the same area at the beginning somehow thus managing to find shelter and organise.
Hero = saved people, helped stop the zombies or was very helpful in one way or another
Survivor = survived until the end
Dead = died from zombies, illness, hunger, traitor...
Traitor = made things worse, probably on purpose
Zombie = got turned into one before reaching shelter/other people
Then you wonder why you didn't get anything in your queue for a few days.Winnyace wrote:
Yeah, I consider your taste garbage too.Patatitta wrote:
how good I consider your taste to be (based on the vibes I get from my thread)
I would say "i'm honored to be tsukkomi" but like none or these are bad, peak tier listNuuskamuikkunen wrote:
CGDCT archetypes.
gahahqhaj pee pee poo poo fart vahahahahhahah you suck ahhahahahaPolyspora wrote:
Being mid is worst than being bad fuck you patataPatatitta wrote:
how good I consider your taste to be (based on the vibes I get from my thread)
lovelysametdze wrote:
first winny crashout of the year lfg
HOW is this fucking guy on top of me, he literally only plays cs 24/7Ymir wrote:
gahahqhaj pee pee poo poo fart vahahahahhahah you suck ahhahahahaPolyspora wrote:
Being mid is worst than being bad fuck you patataPatatitta wrote:
how good I consider your taste to be (based on the vibes I get from my thread)
check my steam buddy I can no longer run the bloody bhenchode gamePolyspora wrote:
HOW is this fucking guy on top of me, he literally only plays cs 24/7Ymir wrote:
gahahqhaj pee pee poo poo fart vahahahahhahah you suck ahhahahahaPolyspora wrote:
Being mid is worst than being bad fuck you patataPatatitta wrote:
how good I consider your taste to be (based on the vibes I get from my thread)
they requested I sold my life for 1000 yen per yearPolyspora wrote:
HOW is this fucking guy on top of me, he literally only plays cs 24/7Ymir wrote:
gahahqhaj pee pee poo poo fart vahahahahhahah you suck ahhahahahaPolyspora wrote:
Being mid is worst than being bad fuck you patataPatatitta wrote:
how good I consider your taste to be (based on the vibes I get from my thread)
I mean that would remove the fun wouldn't itTateshina Eve wrote:
Some of you need to really read Jane Austen's "Pride and Prejudice" before making these lists.
Damn kinda wondering what I did to be below igor and same tier as kolon deeIsshiki Kaname wrote:
Honestly I don't remember much, but I think you were being an ass.WitherMite wrote:
Damn kinda wondering what I did to be below igor and same tier as kolon deeIsshiki Kaname wrote:
I wonder whyJun Maeda wrote:
Kolon Dee is always on the lowest xD
but i never did anything against Ishikki and i even think he's a nice guyWitherMite wrote:
Damn kinda wondering what I did to be below igor and same tier as kolon deeIsshiki Kaname wrote:
I wonder why im not in BFF section hmmIsshiki Kaname wrote:
That just seems random.reffty_gag wrote:
surprised poly isn't on most likelyDuck o-o wrote:
how likely people are to act as warlords if their country collapses and they are left like the drc
That just seems random.Karmine wrote:
[quote="reffty_gag"]
are you pro gamer guysametdze wrote:
this is exactly like when i beat my friend multiple times in the most random 1v1 and then he just hops off out of frustration then i gotta beg him to come back on fort 💔
what the fuckPatatitta wrote:
surprised poly isn't on most likelyDuck o-o wrote:
how likely people are to act as warlords if their country collapses and they are left like the drc
just post itBehrauder wrote:
I tried to make a tier list of when I think the users will quit OT! forever, but I don't think it was accurate at all. I won't even post it, lol.
This tier list doesn't make any sense, and I've already changed my mind about some people (but I don't want to update it).Polyspora wrote:
just post itBehrauder wrote:
I tried to make a tier list of when I think the users will quit OT! forever, but I don't think it was accurate at all. I won't even post it, lol.
its fun
can confirmBehrauder wrote:
This tier list doesn't make any sense, and I've already changed my mind about some people (but I don't want to update it).Polyspora wrote:
just post itBehrauder wrote:
I tried to make a tier list of when I think the users will quit OT! forever, but I don't think it was accurate at all. I won't even post it, lol.
its fun
I don't take the Forum Games into account. Also, this is about when I think it will be their last post on OT!.Probably 60% of people are in the wrong tier, lol.
dontWimpy Cursed wrote:
if it helps, I quit tomorrow
Wait you commented on my drunk crash out thread where I said I lost my job how is this your placement 😭Polyspora wrote:
how rich I think you are (based on interactions, information and behavior)
I totally forgot about thatAshton wrote:
Wait you commented on my drunk crash out thread where I said I lost my job how is this your placement 😭Polyspora wrote:
how rich I think you are (based on interactions, information and behavior)
I wishPolyspora wrote:
how rich I think you are (based on interactions, information and behavior)
Reasonable honestlyPolyspora wrote:
how rich I think you are (based on interactions, information and behavior)
im staying here until i dieBehrauder wrote:
This tier list doesn't make any sense, and I've already changed my mind about some people (but I don't want to update it).Polyspora wrote:
just post itBehrauder wrote:
I tried to make a tier list of when I think the users will quit OT! forever, but I don't think it was accurate at all. I won't even post it, lol.
its fun
I don't take the Forum Games into account. Also, this is about when I think it will be their last post on OT!.Probably 60% of people are in the wrong tier, lol.
used to have a problem with hydros and tabs coming out of the military but nowadays I exclusively use weedKaaruumii wrote:
i'm not that richPolyspora wrote:
how rich I think you are (based on interactions, information and behavior)
It was recently discovered that one of my oldest ancestors were definitely part of mansa musa lelPolyspora wrote:
how rich I think you are (based on interactions, information and behavior)
hey man I dont want to be rude, but I dont think thats very rareAireunaeus wrote:
It was recently discovered that one of my oldest ancestors were definitely part of mansa musa lelPolyspora wrote:
how rich I think you are (based on interactions, information and behavior)
I pretty much forgot my diagnosis lol.keremaru wrote:
since you'd need some level of it to even consider interacting with OT...
no this is not meant to be taken as an insult, no this does not mean i think you're stupid, no this does not mean i dislike you, no this does not reflect any adjacent opinions i may hold in regards to your character
the power of being able to think as long as I want before I say something goes hardkeremaru wrote:
since you'd need some level of it to even consider interacting with OT...
no this is not meant to be taken as an insult, no this does not mean i think you're stupid, no this does not mean i dislike you, no this does not reflect any adjacent opinions i may hold in regards to your character
oh wait does it mean to be extremely low on the spectrum??sametdze wrote:
what does "saw the spectrum and did a cannonball" mean
hey man i dont want to be rude, but dont you understand what sarcasm is?Polyspora wrote:
hey man I dont want to be rude, but I dont think thats very rareAireunaeus wrote:
It was recently discovered that one of my oldest ancestors were definitely part of mansa musa lelPolyspora wrote:
how rich I think you are (based on interactions, information and behavior)
vasAireunaeus wrote:
hey man i dont want to be rude, but dont you understand what sarcasm is?Polyspora wrote:
hey man I dont want to be rude, but I dont think thats very rareAireunaeus wrote:
It was recently discovered that one of my oldest ancestors were definitely part of mansa musa lelPolyspora wrote:
how rich I think you are (based on interactions, information and behavior)
bro's rightKobold84 wrote:
i mean he's not wrongKobold84 wrote:
how is that sarcasm, you just made an statementAireunaeus wrote:
hey man i dont want to be rude, but dont you understand what sarcasm is?Polyspora wrote:
hey man I dont want to be rude, but I dont think thats very rareAireunaeus wrote:
It was recently discovered that one of my oldest ancestors were definitely part of mansa musa lelPolyspora wrote:
how rich I think you are (based on interactions, information and behavior)
To make things clear, i was being ironic that my ancestors comes from a rich person years ago. I have no idea or clue where my origins exactly are but based on your tierlist, i was just joking and not being genuine. But i apologize if you misunderstood i guess lol.Polyspora wrote:
how is that sarcasm, you just made an statementAireunaeus wrote:
hey man i dont want to be rude, but dont you understand what sarcasm is?Polyspora wrote:
hey man I dont want to be rude, but I dont think thats very rareAireunaeus wrote:
It was recently discovered that one of my oldest ancestors were definitely part of mansa musa lelPolyspora wrote:
how rich I think you are (based on interactions, information and behavior)
was the refined sarcasm of yours summarized by the "lel" you threw in the end of the phrase?
dont make the problem of your half cooked irony fall upon my reading skills, you just sound rude and immature
BruhYmir wrote:
The sarcasm was so pointless there, I doubt most normal people would realise it was sarcasm.
man I think you're making a mountain out of a molehillYmir wrote:
The sarcasm was so pointless there, I doubt most normal people would realise it was sarcasm.
It’s possible to make a tier list of all the incidents that have happened in this thread so far, lol.Patatitta wrote:
man I think you're making a mountain out of a molehillYmir wrote:
The sarcasm was so pointless there, I doubt most normal people would realise it was sarcasm.
do it cowardBehrauder wrote:
It’s possible to make a tier list of all the incidents that have happened in this thread so far, lol.Patatitta wrote:
man I think you're making a mountain out of a molehillYmir wrote:
The sarcasm was so pointless there, I doubt most normal people would realise it was sarcasm.
Same, difference being that I'm not a child, just unemployed lol.Ymir wrote:
Does it count that I'm getting by if I still live with my parents?
Nah no way I'm more functioning than aireu, eblf, pata and farf.keremaru wrote:
since you'd need some level of it to even consider interacting with OT...
no this is not meant to be taken as an insult, no this does not mean i think you're stupid, no this does not mean i dislike you, no this does not reflect any adjacent opinions i may hold in regards to your character
Means very autism. Like doing a cannonball at the pool except the pool is the spectrum.sametdze wrote:
oh wait does it mean to be extremely low on the spectrum??sametdze wrote:
what does "saw the spectrum and did a cannonball" mean
I should be in psychological horror.Kobold84 wrote:
Patatitta wrote:
do it cowardBehrauder wrote:
It’s possible to make a tier list of all the incidents that have happened in this thread so far, lol.Patatitta wrote:
man I think you're making a mountain out of a molehillYmir wrote:
The sarcasm was so pointless there, I doubt most normal people would realise it was sarcasm.
Explain howPatatitta wrote:
man I think you're making a mountain out of a molehillYmir wrote:
The sarcasm was so pointless there, I doubt most normal people would realise it was sarcasm.
missed this, it's accurateKobold84 wrote:
Serrai portals should be higher they're cool.Patatitta wrote:
missed this, it's accurateKobold84 wrote:
anyways, my opinion on each person "gimmick" (it will be apparent what i'm refeering too when you read the explanations, also probably missed some people)explanationsAchromalia: typing a lot
Acroba: having too much money and gifting way too much supporter
MrMcMikey22: their persona/webcomic stuff
Farfocele: Typing (formerly chess),
Marco: Hatsune Miku (putting marco above every other waifuposter because marco is above the level of every other waifuposter)
abraker: putting it here because of the mad scientist rp they used to do, not really a thing anymore tho
behrauder: AI
reffty_gag: answering everything with lyrics from american rap songs
serraionga: portals
Aireunaeus: music/aesthetics
anaxii: psot farming
BluePyTheWDeer_: Linux
Coren2Plum3: Linux AND furryposting
winnyace: Linux
they just don't really redirect to anything I care about, most of the times it's either youtube poops or 9 year old threadsKarmine wrote:
Serrai portals should be higher they're cool.Patatitta wrote:
missed this, it's accurateKobold84 wrote:
anyways, my opinion on each person "gimmick" (it will be apparent what i'm refeering too when you read the explanations, also probably missed some people)explanationsAchromalia: typing a lot
Acroba: having too much money and gifting way too much supporter
MrMcMikey22: their persona/webcomic stuff
Farfocele: Typing (formerly chess),
Marco: Hatsune Miku (putting marco above every other waifuposter because marco is above the level of every other waifuposter)
abraker: putting it here because of the mad scientist rp they used to do, not really a thing anymore tho
behrauder: AI
reffty_gag: answering everything with lyrics from american rap songs
serraionga: portals
Aireunaeus: music/aesthetics
anaxii: psot farming
BluePyTheWDeer_: Linux
Coren2Plum3: Linux AND furryposting
winnyace: Linux
My version:Patatitta wrote:
missed this, it's accurateKobold84 wrote:
anyways, my opinion on each person "gimmick" (it will be apparent what i'm refeering too when you read the explanations, also probably missed some people)explanationsAchromalia: typing a lot
Acroba: having too much money and gifting way too much supporter
MrMcMikey22: their persona/webcomic stuff
Farfocele: Typing (formerly chess),
Marco: Hatsune Miku (putting marco above every other waifuposter because marco is above the level of every other waifuposter)
abraker: putting it here because of the mad scientist rp they used to do, not really a thing anymore tho
behrauder: AI
reffty_gag: answering everything with lyrics from american rap songs
serraionga: portals
Aireunaeus: music/aesthetics
anaxii: psot farming
BluePyTheWDeer_: Linux
Coren2Plum3: Linux AND furryposting
winnyace: Linux
https://skillpath.com/blog/how-to-apologizeAireunaeus wrote:
To make things clear, i was being ironic that my ancestors comes from a rich person years ago. I have no idea or clue where my origins exactly are but based on your tierlist, i was just joking and not being genuine. But i apologize if you misunderstood i guess lol.Polyspora wrote:
how is that sarcasm, you just made an statementAireunaeus wrote:
hey man i dont want to be rude, but dont you understand what sarcasm is?
was the refined sarcasm of yours summarized by the "lel" you threw in the end of the phrase?
dont make the problem of your half cooked irony fall upon my reading skills, you just sound rude and immature
Achromalia wrote:
https://skillpath.com/blog/how-to-apologizeAireunaeus wrote:
To make things clear, i was being ironic that my ancestors comes from a rich person years ago. I have no idea or clue where my origins exactly are but based on your tierlist, i was just joking and not being genuine. But i apologize if you misunderstood i guess lol.Polyspora wrote:
how is that sarcasm, you just made an statementAireunaeus wrote:
hey man i dont want to be rude, but dont you understand what sarcasm is?
was the refined sarcasm of yours summarized by the "lel" you threw in the end of the phrase?
dont make the problem of your half cooked irony fall upon my reading skills, you just sound rude and immature
Not even gonna lie, typing kinda took a backseat for me for now. I still do it though, sometimes - but it's not a main thing for me anymore.Patatitta wrote:
Farfocele: Typing (formerly chess)
Are you baiting because 500mg is a crazy high doseYmir wrote:
I've greened out from just 500mg of weed so I don't think I'd actually do hard drugs.
I'm probably just stupid and don't know how the measurements work.Ashton wrote:
Are you baiting because 500mg is a crazy high doseYmir wrote:
I've greened out from just 500mg of weed so I don't think I'd actually do hard drugs.
I guess I do just say things without thinking. the main reasons being that I have this “passive-aggressive” behavior, is that I mostly feel ashamed or angry about myself if I just accept the criticism and was proven wrong and assume that I have to deal with things like being laughed at / made fun of or just being seen as a dumb person. it's frustrating and also demotivating. I also act like this when I'm usually at home. (surprisingly rarely on public).Achromalia wrote:
https://skillpath.com/blog/how-to-apologizeAireunaeus wrote:
To make things clear, i was being ironic that my ancestors comes from a rich person years ago. I have no idea or clue where my origins exactly are but based on your tierlist, i was just joking and not being genuine. But i apologize if you misunderstood i guess lol.Polyspora wrote:
how is that sarcasm, you just made an statementAireunaeus wrote:
hey man i dont want to be rude, but dont you understand what sarcasm is?
was the refined sarcasm of yours summarized by the "lel" you threw in the end of the phrase?
dont make the problem of your half cooked irony fall upon my reading skills, you just sound rude and immaturei forgot if i posted what i drafted earlier in that thread where you suspected people didn't like you... in case i didn't, one of the subjects included in my hypotheses had been that people (myself included) seemed to see you as somewhat immature as a result of your responses to others, similar to this scenario where you read as though you were deflecting blame for a mistake that you had a part in-- specifically, the articulation of these passive-aggressive responses to critique (and in other cases, you seemed to avoid making any serious response at all). miscommunication can be a challenging experience, understandably... but this rarely benefits anyone, yourself least of all :(
i appreciate that you try to find humor in things, just be aware of your motivations and feelings whenever you do choose to express it, or alternatively try to reference the interpretations people express of your comments in the future so that you're better informed about what you're communicating to each person. otherwise, it may not be humor, but veiled aggression or evasiveness for things you may not have wanted to acknowledge or address;;
in fairness, it seems like i'm rude/insensitive myself for some of the things i take issue with in people or the things they express... so, you wouldn't be alone in passive-aggressiveness;; but i take issue with my own behavior as well, and am very tightly controlling of what i express whenever possible because i have an extreme sense of anxiety toward the consequences of them for both myself and others. you or others may not see the text i type when i draft the responses i erase or heavily edit, but i fear i'm not incredibly different from other people in being reactive and sarcastic in some way
typically, i avoid those things with a passion whenever i realize they're there, and i greatly prefer a sweeter/kinder/compassionate/understanding tone in my writing... if not for others' benefit, then at least it does seem to benefit my own well-being :) i would recommend it, but just... try not to be performative about it if possible, and avoid weaponizing it at all costs. the entire premise is to absorb that and reform yourself as a person in order for it to be sincere, not to show it off :>
granted, people may believe you're being performative anyway, and maybe that could be true in a form that you hadn't recognized yet... in my own case, i imagine the tone i adopt can feel patronizing, so, ideally in my scenario i would listen to who is saying that and why that's their interpretation and take note of what elements of my comments would make that interpretation possible, then see what i could change if i couldn't convey what i meant or if what i said has come at others' expense regardless of whether i thought i was being sincere or kind. that may be something you could try for yourself? in any case, just be mindful of the responses you've been getting and balance their merits with the preservation of your own well-being as well as that of the people around you, and hopefully it will serve you well <3
So for a first time thc user usually the recommended dose is 5-10mg of thc, if you smoked half a blunt you could have very well taken like 50mg of thc (assuming the average blunt has like 100mg of thc), if it was filed with bunk you might have taken less, but chances are you smoked way more more than 10mg if you felt like that.Ymir wrote:
I'm probably just stupid and don't know how the measurements work.Ashton wrote:
Are you baiting because 500mg is a crazy high doseYmir wrote:
I've greened out from just 500mg of weed so I don't think I'd actually do hard drugs.
I don't mean 500mg of THC, I'm talking in blunts.
The blunt was "1 gram", whatever that means, I smoked half and my mate smoked the other half. So I'd assume I had 500mg of the whatever was in that blunt. Likely not just weed but some other additives to make it weigh more or some shit.
Basically just half a blunt made me high for a long time and I didn't enjoy the experience. Like, someone was using a jack-hammer on my face type pain, terrible taste in my mouth, time being extremely slow and a bunch of vomiting by the end.
okay maybe you do hate funPatatitta wrote:
missing a joke should NOT warrant multiple multi paragraph responses
I'm not, answering everything with lyrics from american rap songs........... or am i forgot ??Patatitta wrote:
missed this, it's accurateKobold84 wrote:
anyways, my opinion on each person "gimmick" (it will be apparent what i'm refeering too when you read the explanations, also probably missed some people)explanationsAchromalia: typing a lot
Acroba: having too much money and gifting way too much supporter
MrMcMikey22: their persona/webcomic stuff
Farfocele: Typing (formerly chess),
Marco: Hatsune Miku (putting marco above every other waifuposter because marco is above the level of every other waifuposter)
abraker: putting it here because of the mad scientist rp they used to do, not really a thing anymore tho
behrauder: AI
reffty_gag: answering everything with lyrics from american rap songs
serraionga: portals
Aireunaeus: music/aesthetics
anaxii: psot farming
BluePyTheWDeer_: Linux
Coren2Plum3: Linux AND furryposting
winnyace: Linux
Yeah. I don't know if I'll try it out again with a small dose next time, the taste is what made me the most sick. I ended up getting out of my high long after I smoked, but didn't feel too great. I was also still completely high in my dreams for like 2 nights after for some reason.Ashton wrote:
So for a first time thc user usually the recommended dose is 5-10mg of thc, if you smoked half a blunt you could have very well taken like 50mg of thc (assuming the average blunt has like 100mg of thc), if it was filed with bunk you might have taken less, but chances are you smoked way more more than 10mg if you felt like that.Ymir wrote:
I'm probably just stupid and don't know how the measurements work.Ashton wrote:
Are you baiting because 500mg is a crazy high doseYmir wrote:
I've greened out from just 500mg of weed so I don't think I'd actually do hard drugs.
I don't mean 500mg of THC, I'm talking in blunts.
The blunt was "1 gram", whatever that means, I smoked half and my mate smoked the other half. So I'd assume I had 500mg of the whatever was in that blunt. Likely not just weed but some other additives to make it weigh more or some shit.
Basically just half a blunt made me high for a long time and I didn't enjoy the experience. Like, someone was using a jack-hammer on my face type pain, terrible taste in my mouth, time being extremely slow and a bunch of vomiting by the end.
Just for reference one of the first times I did weed I only took 10mg of thc and I was rolling around in my bed super uncomfortable.
not everything, but you do mention american rap / american rap lyrics VERY oftenreffty_gag wrote:
I'm not, answering everything with lyrics from american rap songs........... or am i forgot ??Patatitta wrote:
missed this, it's accurateKobold84 wrote:
anyways, my opinion on each person "gimmick" (it will be apparent what i'm refeering too when you read the explanations, also probably missed some people)explanationsAchromalia: typing a lot
Acroba: having too much money and gifting way too much supporter
MrMcMikey22: their persona/webcomic stuff
Farfocele: Typing (formerly chess),
Marco: Hatsune Miku (putting marco above every other waifuposter because marco is above the level of every other waifuposter)
abraker: putting it here because of the mad scientist rp they used to do, not really a thing anymore tho
behrauder: AI
reffty_gag: answering everything with lyrics from american rap songs
serraionga: portals
Aireunaeus: music/aesthetics
anaxii: psot farming
BluePyTheWDeer_: Linux
Coren2Plum3: Linux AND furryposting
winnyace: Linux
oooooh, ok okPatatitta wrote:
not everything, but you do mention american rap / american rap lyrics VERY oftenreffty_gag wrote:
I'm not, answering everything with lyrics from american rap songs........... or am i forgot ??Patatitta wrote:
missed this, it's accurateKobold84 wrote:
anyways, my opinion on each person "gimmick" (it will be apparent what i'm refeering too when you read the explanations, also probably missed some people)explanationsAchromalia: typing a lot
Acroba: having too much money and gifting way too much supporter
MrMcMikey22: their persona/webcomic stuff
Farfocele: Typing (formerly chess),
Marco: Hatsune Miku (putting marco above every other waifuposter because marco is above the level of every other waifuposter)
abraker: putting it here because of the mad scientist rp they used to do, not really a thing anymore tho
behrauder: AI
reffty_gag: answering everything with lyrics from american rap songs
serraionga: portals
Aireunaeus: music/aesthetics
anaxii: psot farming
BluePyTheWDeer_: Linux
Coren2Plum3: Linux AND furryposting
winnyace: Linux
Aireunaeus wrote:
I guess I do just say things without thinking. the main reasons being that I have this “passive-aggressive” behavior, is that I mostly feel ashamed or angry about myself if I just accept the criticism and was proven wrong and assume that I have to deal with things like being laughed at / made fun of or just being seen as a dumb person. it's frustrating and also demotivating. I also act like this when I'm usually at home. (surprisingly rarely on public).Achromalia wrote:
https://skillpath.com/blog/how-to-apologizei forgot if i posted what i drafted......earlier in that thread where you suspected people didn't like you... in case i didn't, one of the subjects included in my hypotheses had been that people (myself included) seemed to see you as somewhat immature as a result of your responses to others, similar to this scenario where you read as though you were deflecting blame for a mistake that you had a part in-- specifically, the articulation of these passive-aggressive responses to critique (and in other cases, you seemed to avoid making any serious response at all). miscommunication can be a challenging experience, understandably... but this rarely benefits anyone, yourself least of all :(
i appreciate that you try to find humor in things, just be aware of your motivations and feelings whenever you do choose to express it, or alternatively try to reference the interpretations people express of your comments in the future so that you're better informed about what you're communicating to each person. otherwise, it may not be humor, but veiled aggression or evasiveness for things you may not have wanted to acknowledge or address;;
in fairness, it seems like i'm rude/insensitive myself for some of the things i take issue with in people or the things they express... so, you wouldn't be alone in passive-aggressiveness;; but i take issue with my own behavior as well, and am very tightly controlling of what i express whenever possible because i have an extreme sense of anxiety toward the consequences of them for both myself and others. you or others may not see the text i type when i draft the responses i erase or heavily edit, but i fear i'm not incredibly different from other people in being reactive and sarcastic in some way
typically, i avoid those things with a passion whenever i realize they're there, and i greatly prefer a sweeter/kinder/compassionate/understanding tone in my writing... if not for others' benefit, then at least it does seem to benefit my own well-being :) i would recommend it, but just... try not to be performative about it if possible, and avoid weaponizing it at all costs. the entire premise is to absorb that and reform yourself as a person in order for it to be sincere, not to show it off :>
granted, people may believe you're being performative anyway, and maybe that could be true in a form that you hadn't recognized yet... in my own case, i imagine the tone i adopt can feel patronizing, so, ideally in my scenario i would listen to who is saying that and why that's their interpretation and take note of what elements of my comments would make that interpretation possible, then see what i could change if i couldn't convey what i meant or if what i said has come at others' expense regardless of whether i thought i was being sincere or kind. that may be something you could try for yourself? in any case, just be mindful of the responses you've been getting and balance their merits with the preservation of your own well-being as well as that of the people around you, and hopefully it will serve you well <3
So again, I apologize to poly for acting insensitive or/and rude and maybe other people who didn't understand the “joke” that I wanted to say. Sometimes I do need to think before talking and now I just feel like an idiot rn. which maybe I am, idk. omg this is so embarrasing from me idk
a fair underlying sentiment;; although im unsure about the assessment itself, it may be inaccurately articulated? because the ironic joke would not be the direct cause in my case, i would probably not have cared to comment about that... but i did care about the sarcasm that followed in the responses between poly and aireunaeus, even if it may be trivial and only briefly strange to most people beyond aireunaeus. and his initial responses before i arrived were not particularly long and would only be serious at the end :<Patatitta wrote:
missing a joke should NOT warrant multiple multi paragraph responses
im interested in the thought process of my position here :Okeremaru wrote:
since you'd need some level of it to even consider interacting with OT...
no this is not meant to be taken as an insult, no this does not mean i think you're stupid, no this does not mean i dislike you, no this does not reflect any adjacent opinions i may hold in regards to your character