Why not play medium sized servers? Many of them also offer fun gamemodes as well as relatively good community, at least some of them.LowComboFC wrote:
also I used to play on the hypixel and mineplex servers until I realised how bad the community is. the thing that interested more is inserting my creativity into building but I now do it for osu mapping something that's more effective for me apparently so I quit xdd
regarding the post above I played on large communities only because of the variety of unique gamemodes (hence the servers I mentioned), something that small servers don't really have.
Or alternatively, medium sized SMP (non factions) server generally has good community.