I would hangout with an obsessive-compulsive narcissist that demands a lot from me, because at least I would try my best to meet the expectations of this person . Somehow, I would be challenging myself not only on my capabilities but also on my patience to withstand this person.
On the other hand, being with an insincere liar that plays with my emotions and messes with me would mess with my mental health. I would develop truth issues and my deep human necessity to know what's true would haunt my consciousness... and that's bad since it brings bad energy to my life.
If you were to be reincarnated, would yo want to be born as a girl/boy with rich parents who neglect her/him or a poor girl/boy with a big family that support and love her/him?