Damn op I really needed this. Thanks for posting ♥
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A Word of Advice to Everyone (long and not about osu!)
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I feel like everyone needs to see this post. Hell, this has somewhat restored a little of the self-confidence I lost in my previous relationship.
Thanks for reminding me of how lonely I am
Nice thoughts though
Nice thoughts though
Great post, Brambleclaw. I've experienced scenarios where if I were to link a post like this, it would probably have helped a lot, and it would probably have been an useful read for me at times.
I actually don't see posts like this often on the internet, although I bet there are a ton.
I actually don't see posts like this often on the internet, although I bet there are a ton.
what if im not attracted to real people only 2d
Step 1: get a body pillow of your waifuxxjesus1412fanx wrote:
what if im not attracted to real people only 2d
Step 2: ????
Step 3: Marry it
Step 4: profit
I have a body pillow of my waifu but I can't into step 2 pls help
That's quite an interesting read.
Nice of you to share this.
Nice of you to share this.
Mahogany wrote:
I have a body pillow of my waifu but I can't into step 2 pls help
Ask it out first, it's a pillow so it has to say yes
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That's a very nice heartfelt post OP. Thank you for taking your time to put into words what some of us often forget. I need to take what you said and apply it for my own sake. <3
I didn't get any of it really
Where's the part in which you give advices?
tl;dr relationships can fail, let who you love know that you love them
Oh? I thought everyone knew that already. Attraction to somebody is nothing but chemicals in your brain fucking with you because of primal instincts aimed at reproduction. Fucking get over it and stop overthinking things that are very simple in nature lol.
Where's the part in which you give advices?
tl;dr relationships can fail, let who you love know that you love them
Oh? I thought everyone knew that already. Attraction to somebody is nothing but chemicals in your brain fucking with you because of primal instincts aimed at reproduction. Fucking get over it and stop overthinking things that are very simple in nature lol.
so i want to breed with males? i don't think my brain is that stupidJordan wrote:
I didn't get any of it really
Where's the part in which you give advices?
tl;dr relationships can fail, let who you love know that you love them
Oh? I thought everyone knew that already. Attraction to somebody is nothing but chemicals in your brain fucking with you because of primal instincts aimed at reproduction. Fucking get over it and stop overthinking things that are very simple in nature lol.
can I get a body pillow of your avatar?SteakShadow wrote:
Step 1: get a body pillow of your waifuxxjesus1412fanx wrote:
what if im not attracted to real people only 2d
Step 2: ????
Step 3: Marry it
Step 4: profit
you seem to be a bit dense, I could go on for a while about what is wrong here but I'll keep it simple. Does this thread actually have anything to do about attraction? Not really, this thread is about caring about people, while the post will most of the time be helpful for people who are suffering from heartbreak, it could very well help someone who lost a good friend or something similiar. If being friends with people has anything to do with primal instincts aimed at reproduction, I don't know what dimension you're from.Jordan wrote:
I didn't get any of it really
Where's the part in which you give advices?
tl;dr relationships can fail, let who you love know that you love them
Oh? I thought everyone knew that already. Attraction to somebody is nothing but chemicals in your brain fucking with you because of primal instincts aimed at reproduction. Fucking get over it and stop overthinking things that are very simple in nature lol.
I hope I don't have to elaborate more or explain the post to you, have fun with your primal instincts and keep on...underthinking? That probably isn't a word and is probably a bit more rude than I'd intend.
ok i feel u too XDEndie- wrote:
Thanks for reminding me of how lonely I am
Nice thoughts though
but not all love is for couples... theres a love for parents too just saying XD
I got it. I still don't get where the "helping" or "advice" part is supposed to be. All I see are cheap clichés on friendship and love lol. If anything, the stupid (or should I say "dense" to be politically correct?) are the people that actually think this post has helped them in any wayagu wrote:
you seem to be a bit dense, I could go on for a while about what is wrong here but I'll keep it simple. Does this thread actually have anything to do about attraction? Not really, this thread is about caring about people, while the post will most of the time be helpful for people who are suffering from heartbreak, it could very well help someone who lost a good friend or something similiar. If being friends with people has anything to do with primal instincts aimed at reproduction, I don't know what dimension you're from.Jordan wrote:
I didn't get any of it really
Where's the part in which you give advices?
tl;dr relationships can fail, let who you love know that you love them
Oh? I thought everyone knew that already. Attraction to somebody is nothing but chemicals in your brain fucking with you because of primal instincts aimed at reproduction. Fucking get over it and stop overthinking things that are very simple in nature lol.
I hope I don't have to elaborate more or explain the post to you, have fun with your primal instincts and keep on...underthinking? That probably isn't a word and is probably a bit more rude than I'd intend.
"HURR DURR LET THEM KNOW YOU LOVE THEM, DONT GO APESHIT FOR ANY MINOR BUMP!!!" yeah alright... I guess this was post was really aimed at dumb people after all.
And if someone really wants to destroy you emotionally, they will (given that you have had any kind of affective / friendly relation with them), there are no barriers we can put to what our brain tells us to feel. OP's post is essentially useless.
If your idea of a strong arguement is to try and convince people that you're right by making what you say look factual without making any good point, I will not argue with you.
Since you seem to like translating posts to the way you perceive them your post mostly just looks like "This post is pointless because I didn't find it useful, anyone who thinks otherwise is probably stupid"
Honestly the only difference I see from what you've said and what I wrote there is that you make it look like what you say is sensible, which happens to be very commonly practised by trolls.
Since you seem to like translating posts to the way you perceive them your post mostly just looks like "This post is pointless because I didn't find it useful, anyone who thinks otherwise is probably stupid"
Honestly the only difference I see from what you've said and what I wrote there is that you make it look like what you say is sensible, which happens to be very commonly practised by trolls.
I made a pretty good point actually, this post is useless because it contains no real advices. It hasn't helped anyone because its content is, as i already said, cheap clichés; and if anyone actually feels moved from that, well, let them live in their blissful ignorance? Though it is ignorance nonetheless.
>making what you say look factual without making any good point
Did you ever tell yourself to feel better when feeling like shit, and felt better afterwards? Can you just switch or control your emotions like you're some kind of machine? No? I don't see where I'm wrong then.
>making what you say look factual without making any good point
Did you ever tell yourself to feel better when feeling like shit, and felt better afterwards? Can you just switch or control your emotions like you're some kind of machine? No? I don't see where I'm wrong then.
Well, that is mostly your opinion. I'm not going to spend much time on trying to convince you otherwise, however if you feel like shit because of a break up or something similiar, then you can probably feel better from encouragement and such as well. I do understand if you don't feel like you got any wiser from the post.
But seriously I have no idea what you're saying with your last sentences, you're comparing the idea of deciding your own mood to being affected emotionally by other people, this comparison makes very little sense and is just taken out of the blue. I'd say the same for most of the reasons you think the post is useless, honestly.
Anyways, I don't see a reason to convince you to not have your current opinion, that is actually not the reason I'm posting this. Hopefully that concludes everything I felt like saying.
But seriously I have no idea what you're saying with your last sentences, you're comparing the idea of deciding your own mood to being affected emotionally by other people, this comparison makes very little sense and is just taken out of the blue. I'd say the same for most of the reasons you think the post is useless, honestly.
Anyways, I don't see a reason to convince you to not have your current opinion, that is actually not the reason I'm posting this. Hopefully that concludes everything I felt like saying.
It's not a "comparison", it's one thing as a whole. You said I make what I say look factual without any point and I gave you a point: You don't get to decide your own mood and your own mood largely depends on the influence that other people have in your life (whoever disagrees with this is honestly pretty deluded). Hopefully that concludes everything I felt like saying.agu wrote:
Well, that is mostly your opinion. I'm not going to spend much time on trying to convince you otherwise, however if you feel like shit because of a break up or something similiar, then you can probably feel better from encouragement and such as well. I do understand if you don't feel like you got any wiser from the post.
But seriously I have no idea what you're saying with your last sentences, you're comparing the idea of deciding your own mood to being affected emotionally by other people, this comparison makes very little sense and is just taken out of the blue. I'd say the same for most of the reasons you think the post is useless, honestly.
Anyways, I don't see a reason to convince you to not have your current opinion, that is actually not the reason I'm posting this. Hopefully that concludes everything I felt like saying.
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I guess you missed the part about lulling yourself into a false sense of security. And the part where you shouldn't let one person leaving you totally crush your spirits, because guess what, that happens. A lot. And I guess you missed pretty much the rest of the post if you think it's all cliche. I know it's an extreme example, but this stuff leads people to killing themselves sometimes, come on now! And as far as the "cliches," sure some of these things are cliche, but not all of it. And since when do people always follow what a cliche says anyway? If it were as simple as you make it sound, this wouldn't be such an issue in today's world. No, it'd all be good and happy and everyone's in love and it's okay. Yeah . . . no it doesn't work that way, it's not as simple as a cliche. Not even close.Jordan wrote:
"HURR DURR LET THEM KNOW YOU LOVE THEM, DONT GO APESHIT FOR ANY MINOR BUMP!!!" yeah alright... I guess this was post was really aimed at dumb people after all.
Do you have any idea how many relationships fail because the other person didn't feel loved even though the feelings were there, they just weren't expressed properly? Do you have any idea how many relationships go down the drain because of a few minor bumps that are blown out of proportion? You can be arrogant and call the people who this post helped stupid and dense all you want, but you're getting nowhere buddy.
Real women will take your cash then leave. A waifu will be your devoted partner for life.
That is my life advice.
That is my life advice.
Nice post Bramble!
It kind of felt like one of those encouragement things where it says "everything will be alright."
It kind of felt like one of those encouragement things where it says "everything will be alright."