Oh, it was suppose to go to the Confess thread? Sorry about that.
First of all, I'd like to thank everyone who offered advice. I appreciate it heavily.
Second, there are a few questions in my head. 'How do I get rid of the fears of being judged by others?' is one of them.
Is it plausible to wait a bit and barely mutter a peep on my first day as a transfer student? Like, so I can observe which groups of people seem friendly, which aren't, the funny ones, the drama/gossip ones, sporty ones, artsy, etc... Forgive me, I'm really shy. I just came up with this method right now. I need ideas on how to get rid of my stage-fright/shyness. Its affecting my life now and will continue to in the future if I don't act on it.
Also, I think of myself as a really nice person. I don't go around insulting or spreading rumors around people. I don't break my promises too.
So... I guess I need to raise my confidence...?
Thank you so much for the people who posted & offered advice. ♥
First of all, I'd like to thank everyone who offered advice. I appreciate it heavily.
Second, there are a few questions in my head. 'How do I get rid of the fears of being judged by others?' is one of them.
Is it plausible to wait a bit and barely mutter a peep on my first day as a transfer student? Like, so I can observe which groups of people seem friendly, which aren't, the funny ones, the drama/gossip ones, sporty ones, artsy, etc... Forgive me, I'm really shy. I just came up with this method right now. I need ideas on how to get rid of my stage-fright/shyness. Its affecting my life now and will continue to in the future if I don't act on it.
Also, I think of myself as a really nice person. I don't go around insulting or spreading rumors around people. I don't break my promises too.
So... I guess I need to raise my confidence...?
Thank you so much for the people who posted & offered advice. ♥