MrMcMikey22 wrote:

Recently, like literally less than an hour ago, my father argued my mother, because "She is just a whore, who drinks too much alcohol!", he said. Althoughs she was just chillin' in the balcony and not much else, besides drinking beer. Then the argument started with him pouring beer out of the balcony. Then as I got SOOOOOOO tired of them arguing for decades, I just went insane and went downstairs into the kithen and then threw a few beer cans onto the floor. And then my father saw that and then me and my mom went upstairs and we had to stay up there....yade...yade..yade..At this point I just called the police telling my father to stop arguing with my mom. It was a disaster as always and I know that feeling that it's going to get into this awlward loop every few months, whether it was less intense or more, it just makes me want to get a house.

What's kinda funny or sad is that my father is the one, that buys all the beer..

Anyways, how would you guys react when your parents are arguing?

Dementedduck wrote:

MrMcMikey22 wrote:

Recently, like literally less than an hour ago, my father argued my mother, because "She is just a whore, who drinks too much alcohol!", he said. Althoughs she was just chillin' in the balcony and not much else, besides drinking beer. Then the argument started with him pouring beer out of the balcony. Then as I got SOOOOOOO tired of them arguing for decades, I just went insane and went downstairs into the kithen and then threw a few beer cans onto the floor. And then my father saw that and then me and my mom went upstairs and we had to stay up there....yade...yade..yade..At this point I just called the police telling my father to stop arguing with my mom. It was a disaster as always and I know that feeling that it's going to get into this awlward loop every few months, whether it was less intense or more, it just makes me want to get a house.

What's kinda funny or sad is that my father is the one, that buys all the beer..

Anyways, how would you guys react when your parents are arguing?

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Stomiks wrote:

Are you ok?

Polyspora wrote:

ps: @MrMcMikey22 you're the only one that should read this fully tbh, the others can read the TL;DR


oh, you gave me some memories... although I was too young to call the police lmao. I know a divorce seems harsh, but its the best thing that can happen to the abused in the relation, not so much of a cool thing for the abuser though

My father went a little to far than just verbal abuse, he is pretty possesive, mother still depressed to this day but like I said, the divorce changed a bunch of things

I went live with my mother because duh she was my safe harbor, dad got mad at her for "taking me from him" started threatening her, started trying to buy me "hey poly, you want the new ps4 pro? I'll leave it in my house" and mother couldnt do anything about it because I was young, naive and actually went to his house to play some games and do other stuff with him, he offered me experiences that I never was offered in my entire life so far, I grew older and smarter and stop falling for his traps, now he's just alone with crippling sadness and my mother is getting by with her boyfriend. I visit my father sometimes to eat some sushi and fish on the countryside, but it rarely happens.

resuming what'll happen to you: you'll need to choose someone to live with (migrating to one house and other doenst work), you'll be left with a brutal anxiety, (you probably have some symptoms already ) you'll grow smarter (at least one good thing happened) and one of the sides will be happier than the other one, because one have what they live for and the other dont.

No, they'll never stop fightning, the love is over, there is only obsession and compulsion now. try planting the idea of a divorce in your mother's head, if there is a restraining order (I hope austria have those in law) your mom will finally be safe. you'll feel bitter after the divorce, but its only a phase, live it fully so it can get away some day (dont postpone it)

Tl;DR: just giving some tips and telling about a similar situation, so he can see that all this shit is not forever

-JeD- wrote:

happens bro it is what is it, I just shut the door and play osu

arguing is natural so I just let them do so since involving myself into their problem wont help and will only make it more of a mess

MFGSTC wrote:

never drink kids

MFGSTC wrote:

never drink kids

WitherMite wrote:

MFGSTC wrote:

never drink kids

yea, they dont taste very good

MFGSTC wrote:

WitherMite wrote:

MFGSTC wrote:

never drink kids

yea, they dont taste very good

Stomiks wrote:

MFGSTC wrote:

WitherMite wrote:

MFGSTC wrote:

never drink kids

yea, they dont taste very good

I mean, drinking uncooked flesh would taste awful to most people.