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Rhythm32
96 posts
Joined July 2020
Topic Starter
Rhythm32
So there's this girl who used to bully me like quite a lot (along with some of her friends) when I was in 6th, 7th aaaand 8th standard. The sad part is that I kinda liked it because I had a crush on her for all that time. Maybe it is like this because the only time I interacted with her was when she bullied me. Ugh ugh ugh. Why was I so dumb.

I recently like a few weeks ago found out about her Instagram profile and she hasn't accepted my follow request yet 😔. For some reason I fantasize about her which I happen to do so very rarely. And I feel like I should approach her some way. But don't know quite how.

Like even though she bullied me and then she also said terrible things about my mom and dad bu still... Why TF am I down so bad?

Fuck this shit.
anaxii
15,034 posts
Joined December 2022
anaxii
I have no idea what to think about this situation. Maybe if your approach and ask her, she'll either harass you even more or feel uncomfortable, but no clue...
stevennnn
146 posts
Joined July 2014
stevennnn
omg do nottttt talk to her. she obviously does not fw you at all (bullies u and your family, doesnt accept ur follow request) stop interacting and looking at her, it's not worth it. stick with friends who actually care about you
Rhythm32
96 posts
Joined July 2020
Topic Starter
Rhythm32

stevennnn wrote:

omg do nottttt talk to her. she obviously does not fw you at all (bullies u and your family, doesnt accept ur follow request) stop interacting and looking at her, it's not worth it. stick with friends who actually care about you
I mean... To be honest she never said any bad things about my family. It only happened one day when I was in 7th standard and it was dispersal time, we were all going down the stairs and a fucking fuck-fuck kept saying terrible things to her and he was like "look what he(me) is saying to you". So actually HE IS THE ONE TO BLAME FOR THAT MATTER.

Well she did bully me a lot.

She still looks pretty... And I don't know anything more about her. I haven't seen her for like 3 or 4 years. So I don't really know anything about her.
Polyspora
452 posts
Joined September 2019
Polyspora
I miss being 16
stevennnn
146 posts
Joined July 2014
stevennnn

Rhythm32 wrote:

She still looks pretty... And I don't know anything more about her. I haven't seen her for like 3 or 4 years. So I don't really know anything about her.
nahh if it's been 3 years, let it go. tbh i kinda get it cause i've had pretty lengthy crushes myself but eventually you learn to move on

Polyspora wrote:

I miss being 16
This and seventeen #typeshit
Aireunaeus
3,077 posts
Joined December 2021
Aireunaeus
Damn u met nagatoro 😭😳

Jokes aside getting bullied is bad and annoying and gives you a bad mood everytime you go to the school. From my experience i never liked anyone from someone that bullied me mainly because theyre male and i sometimes fought them because i got dead annoyed about them. All you can do is to basically move on from it as she might’ve also done that. Life is too short to sulk about that
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Ymir
1,761 posts
Joined June 2020
Ymir

Polyspora wrote:

I miss being 16
I miss not having read this


Aireunaeus wrote:

Damn u met nagatoro 😭😳
We are going to kill you.
Jangsoodlor
Jangsoodlor
congratulations, you've discovered your inner desires for masochism.
Noreu
65 posts
Joined February 2021
Noreu
dud, having a crush on somebody that has a personality like that aint GOOD. like ima be deadass fr, shit can suck yo soul off yo body with a toxic relationship (if yall get together in someway idfk) but the healthiest thing to do is just saying fuck this and leaving her ass behind, you'll find better people in the future, trust. i got cheated once in my life, she was laughing about my ass in the past, and i was saying that im gonna stay single forever because my ass was AFRAID. but some girl just came to my life in like- a month? and she made me that i felt loved for like- 5 OR 6 YEARS.

just uhhhh.. be like a football scout when ur lookin or liking a girl, shit can go sideways my g.
Rhythm32
96 posts
Joined July 2020
Topic Starter
Rhythm32

Noreu wrote:

dud, having a crush on somebody that has a personality like that aint GOOD. like ima be deadass fr, shit can suck yo soul off yo body with a toxic relationship (if yall get together in someway idfk) but the healthiest thing to do is just saying fuck this and leaving her ass behind, you'll find better people in the future, trust. i got cheated once in my life, she was laughing about my ass in the past, and i was saying that im gonna stay single forever because my ass was AFRAID. but some girl just came to my life in like- a month? and she made me that i felt loved for like- 5 OR 6 YEARS.

just uhhhh.. be like a football scout when ur lookin or liking a girl, shit can go sideways my g.
What if she's changed? Guys it has been quite a lot of years since those incidents happened..... 😭
Noreu
65 posts
Joined February 2021
Noreu

Rhythm32 wrote:

Noreu wrote:

dud, having a crush on somebody that has a personality like that aint GOOD. like ima be deadass fr, shit can suck yo soul off yo body with a toxic relationship (if yall get together in someway idfk) but the healthiest thing to do is just saying fuck this and leaving her ass behind, you'll find better people in the future, trust. i got cheated once in my life, she was laughing about my ass in the past, and i was saying that im gonna stay single forever because my ass was AFRAID. but some girl just came to my life in like- a month? and she made me that i felt loved for like- 5 OR 6 YEARS.

just uhhhh.. be like a football scout when ur lookin or liking a girl, shit can go sideways my g.
What if she's changed? Guys it has been quite a lot of years since those incidents happened..... 😭
my homie, if she did that shit before, shes gonna do it again. personality gets created by past experiences. if shes a bully shes still gonna bully some people ima be fr. its not a great choice bruh, theres alot of women around the world. dont get stuck into just a singular person
Wimpy Cursed
1,192 posts
Joined July 2021
Wimpy Cursed
So your only stance about liking her is because she is pretty. That is what I gathered here.
And I have just have to say, what the fuck? You think you will have a better chance with a pretty woman just because you knew her in the past? Is that it?

It is so weak of a stance, it's laughable. Looking for different women is all that needs to be said here.
I had my experience of a lengthy crush as well, but I know enough not to bother her once the signs are given. Just had to learn to drop it over time, and all it takes is looking elsewhere.
Rhythm32
96 posts
Joined July 2020
Topic Starter
Rhythm32
I am staring to form the pieces here. In the past when I first looked at her, somehow she became my crush. Like I had a crush on her for three years continuously. All of this because she looked pretty. And I am doing that same thing again. Just because she looks pretty. This is a bit messed up no?
Wimpy Cursed
1,192 posts
Joined July 2021
Wimpy Cursed
I can't say that it is messed up, but more so that it is stupid. You're just stupid, I'm sorry. Though, I believe now that you can learn from it if you can realize this.
Rhythm32
96 posts
Joined July 2020
Topic Starter
Rhythm32
I see. Someone calling me stupid doesn't hurt anymore. It just feels meaningless to me.

And if being called "stupid" does actually hurt me then I am a fucking fuck-fuck. Glad to say it doesn't.
Wimpy Cursed
1,192 posts
Joined July 2021
Wimpy Cursed
My point was not made to hurt you. I wanted you to know that what you're doing is a stupid decision.

I believe that you can understand that.
Rhythm32
96 posts
Joined July 2020
Topic Starter
Rhythm32
I do understand.
Rhythm32
96 posts
Joined July 2020
Topic Starter
Rhythm32
OMG She accepted the follow request today!!! Let's go!!!

I guess she does remember me after all. <3
Noreu
65 posts
Joined February 2021
Noreu

Rhythm32 wrote:

OMG She accepted the follow request today!!! Let's go!!!

I guess she does remember me after all. <3
so you wanna learn in the hard way huh. continue then.
Wimpy Cursed
1,192 posts
Joined July 2021
Wimpy Cursed

Noreu wrote:

Rhythm32 wrote:

OMG She accepted the follow request today!!! Let's go!!!

I guess she does remember me after all. <3
so you wanna learn in the hard way huh. continue then.
Unfortunate.
Karmine
898 posts
Joined November 2015
Karmine
He's doomed.
Noreu
65 posts
Joined February 2021
Noreu

Karmine wrote:

He's doomed.
he is beyond cooked fam. he will be burnt. mf wants to have an actual canon event..
Ymir
1,761 posts
Joined June 2020
Ymir
Why even come here with this sob story if you aren't going to take any of the advice given?
sametdze
343 posts
Joined July 2021
sametdze
i just hope whatever follows ends up in things being ok
Noreu
65 posts
Joined February 2021
Noreu

sametdze wrote:

i just hope whatever follows ends up in things being ok
he aint makin outta the hood, trust.
how do i know?





...experience.
Winnyace
645 posts
Joined June 2016
Winnyace

sametdze wrote:

i just hope whatever follows ends up in things being ok
It won't most likely. At best, the girl won't care because just following someone on Instagram doesn't open a lot of doors, if any. At worst, he ends up with someone that, for we know, is not very good as a person.

If there's a moral to the story is that you shouldn't try to live your past in the present. What makes you uncomfortable now should be dealt with, either by doing something you need to do or by letting something go. Oh, and of course, don't chase girls.
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Aireunaeus
3,077 posts
Joined December 2021
Aireunaeus
Kinda related but if they aren’t interested in you, don’t win them back, just let them be and move on. It makes you look like a weird guy if you don’t but whatever i do hope she has a change of heart tho.
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Noreu
65 posts
Joined February 2021
Noreu
my genuine reaction to bro
Rhythm32
96 posts
Joined July 2020
Topic Starter
Rhythm32
I now know that what I did was only because I was very desperate. Looks aren't everything. She fucking disrespected my family. It hurted me so much at that time. I'll now try to think about her as less as possible. Maybe I should even try to forget about her and move on. Life is short and I have to live it lovingly which also means respecting myself.

Anyways...

Guys, Linux Mint looks so good. I wanna try the Cinnamon edition. :3
Noreu
65 posts
Joined February 2021
Noreu

Rhythm32 wrote:

I now know that what I did was only because I was very desperate. Looks aren't everything. She fucking disrespected my family. It hurted me so much at that time. I'll now try to think about her as less as possible. Maybe I should even try to forget about her and move on. Life is short and I have to live it lovingly which also means respecting myself.

Anyways...

Guys, Linux Mint looks so good. I wanna try the Cinnamon edition. :3
BRO FINALLY AVOIDED IT LETS FUCKING GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Achromalia
343 posts
Joined November 2016
Achromalia

Rhythm32 wrote:

I now know that what I did was only because I was very desperate. Looks aren't everything. She fucking disrespected my family. It hurted me so much at that time. I'll now try to think about her as less as possible. Maybe I should even try to forget about her and move on. Life is short and I have to live it lovingly which also means respecting myself.

Anyways...

Guys, Linux Mint looks so good. I wanna try the Cinnamon edition. :3
im glad,, <33

you will have so much more to learn, and i would like to believe in the possibility that if you give yourself the time and space to watch and keep open eyes and an open heart for what you experience, then you could see more of what you want to understand and cultivate more of the life you want to live for yourself once you do understand yourself-- when you understand yourself, you will know more of how you can respect yourself best :)

it looks like youll be joining the off-topic forum linux-user population!! i dont use it or know anything about it, but i wish you luck ^^
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sametdze
343 posts
Joined July 2021
sametdze
bro just realised the truth then casually just dropped a linux bomb, fuck yeah
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