13/f/tokyo hi white boyGladiOol wrote:
hi girl, asl?Dulcet wrote:
isn't this surveys?
also, i'm single because i don't want a relationship
13/f/tokyo hi white boyGladiOol wrote:
hi girl, asl?Dulcet wrote:
isn't this surveys?
also, i'm single because i don't want a relationship
I'm a sissy tooIppE wrote:
Don't blame society for being a fucking sissy.Mahogany wrote:
Also I blame society for making me turn out this way
You can't make me not do thatIppE wrote:
Don't blame society for being a fucking sissy.Mahogany wrote:
Also I blame society for making me turn out this way
thank you for letting us know about your miserable life and for hiding the cum stainsMahogany wrote:
Dulcet wrote:
thank you for letting us know about your miserable life and for hiding the cum stainsMahogany wrote:
Khelly wrote:
I can show you the cum stains in my blanketDulcet wrote:
thank you for letting us know about your miserable life and for hiding the cum stains
My waifu is perfectly clean, how dare you?Dulcet wrote:
thank you for letting us know about your miserable life and for hiding the cum stainsMahogany wrote:
Mahogany wrote:
My waifu is perfectly clean, how dare you?
RightDexenta wrote:
Because weeaboos shouldn't reproduce.
Fun Fact: Some people with good socials skills have trouble getting into a relationshiplol wrote:
No but I believe people can get with people who are on their level, jeremy kyle being the lowest level. Also people only put the worst of jeremy kyle on youtube because thats what its known for, there are more than enough normal(ish) people that go on jeremy kyle.
Do you honestly believe these people don't have girlfriends/boyfriends for any other reason than bad social skills? Or are you just disagreeing to disagree
Just because someone might have good social skills, it doesn't mean there's no chance whatsoever they can be a complete asshole, you know? It just means you're good at talking to people. I'm pretty sure if you're not a prick, someone will genuinely like you for who you are.Kisses wrote:
Fun Fact: Some people with good socials skills have trouble getting into a relationship
Are you implying that you can't get a date if you're an asshole? I assure you that I'm a genuine asshole but I can most definitely get someone to like me. Those two have no correlation, as all it takes for someone to like you is for you to carefully play the right cards and match the mood.Dulcet wrote:
Just because someone might have good social skills, it doesn't mean there's no chance whatsoever they can be a complete asshole, you know? It just means you're good at talking to people. I'm pretty sure if you're not a prick, someone will genuinely like you for who you are.
I wasn't only talking about getting laid. I was talking about someone genuinely liking you for who you are - even if you're a complete and utter asshole. Also, true love does not exist in my book - only love with high or low maintenance.Dulcet wrote:
I wasn't implying that at all? It's easy to get a date if you have good social skills, but it doesn't mean the person will genuinely like you. If the feeling is mutual, though, I'm pretty sure you'd want to have a committed relationship with them, right? But at the same time, steady relationships are hard if you insist on acting like an asshole all the time, because they do require some kind of empathy. It's easy to get pussy, but it's hard to find true love. :'(
Aurani wrote:
I have literally zero redeeming qualities
Aw, they like you. <3Aurani wrote:
I wasn't only talking about getting laid. I was talking about someone genuinely liking you for who you are - even if you're a complete and utter asshole. Also, true love does not exist in my book - only love with high or low maintenance.
I mean I'm 160% sure that two girls I know want to be with me despite me being not only extremely hard to approach and talk to, but also a pure and straight asshole. I have literally zero redeeming qualities, yet I got someone to like me for who I am. It would be talking out of my arse if I was just mentioning other people I've seen, but I've experienced it and I can safely say that no matter WHAT, you can not only get laid but also have a steady relationship. It just requires some damn effort - no one is going to knock on your door, you have to work for it.
I don't mind hanging around someone who tells it like it is, but I can't tolerate a prick who's just being mean for no reason whatsoever (I'll think twice if it's for comedy).Aurani wrote:
I feel like you have experience with assholes since you really seem to not like them. :p
no, I failed in all of my relationshipsAurani wrote:
Also, you should be the one teaching me about relationships, Miss Married. :p
Aurani wrote:
I mean I'm 160% sure that two girls I know want to be with me despite me being not only extremely hard to approach and talk to, but also a pure and straight asshole.
Actually trueIppE wrote:
Life itself is a problem tho, might as well be dead and face no more problems :^)KingKlick[01] wrote:
because as far as ive seen, the only thing relationships bring are problem after problem after fucking problem and i dont care enough to bother with that shit.
yes best post xdEphemeral wrote:
alternatively just find a really cool person that you enjoy spending time with and spend lots of time with them
no expectations, no entering a relationship for a "purpose", just let things fuckin go the way they're supposed to go
to be fair i'd also probably be single if i hadn't met my fiancee in the last year of high school but i find that the methodology of generally eliminating one's expectations does wonders for relationships of all types
Why should you let go of your expectations? That implies settling for something substandard.Ephemeral wrote:
alternatively just find a really cool person that you enjoy spending time with and spend lots of time with them
no expectations, no entering a relationship for a "purpose", just let things fuckin go the way they're supposed to go
to be fair i'd also probably be single if i hadn't met my fiancee in the last year of high school but i find that the methodology of generally eliminating one's expectations does wonders for relationships of all types
Aurani wrote:
B1rd wrote:
A man needs to have a successful career and life in order to get a good women, and women try to get the best man they can. This is the competition and natural selection that drives the human race forward.
I'm not particularly mad, I just wish that for once I could have a conversation/debate on a forum about something (isn't that its purpose?) instead of having the people that don't agree just spamming pictures, smileys, or ridicule while ignoring the subject matter entirely. Like they're feminist at a Trump rally or something.Aurani wrote:
You need some chill mate - eat a Snickers.
If there is a place for it, then this is it.Aurani wrote:
The only reason I posted the picture is because what you wrote felt awfully dry and lifeless. I'm not disagreeing or agreeing with any of the points since I didn't want to start a discussion in the first place, but the way you wrote it feels out of place for this thread.
It's the opposite. GD is for post your x threads and circlejerking. There are no debates because debates only arise from natural conversations, of which there are basically none in GD and are all in Off-Topic. Even if there was an actual debate in GD, it would be quickly locked/deleted, because GD is more heavily moderated and mods do not allow and sort of dissension whatsoever, because osu! forums are a safe space where people shouldn't be subjected to the cyber-violence of having their opinions challenged.QuillGill wrote:
Off Topic - For the not so logical discussions
Tbh I thought this was just a forum to dick around and have fun while in the General Discussion is where the debates are at
ok i will humour youB1rd wrote:
words
Why should you let go of your expectations? That implies settling for something substandard.it is extraordinarily hard to build meaningful expectations of something that has never actually happened before. a relationship is sort of like a chimera of two completely unique people smooshing themselves together in a way that is really quite unlike anything else ever. similarities may be drawn sure, but for the most part, you're going to be treading ground that literally nobody else in the history of mankind has ever tread before
Unfortunately the real world doesn't work like that, the relationship between genders is determined very largely by biological principles. Sure you might meet someone and fall in love, but unless the relationship is grounded in practicality it will almost always fail. A man needs to have a successful career and life in order to get a good women, and women try to get the best man they can. This is the competition and natural selection that drives the human race forward.i kind of get where you're going here with the biological principles guff but that generally isn't a conscious mediator of where a relationship goes in most people from what i've seen. if this were actually the case, humanity wouldn't have spent several thousand years rolling around in utter mediocrity. people are flagrantly irrational beings and people do all sorts of shit just because they like how it is, like flower arrangement or urethral sounding. relationships are not free from this foible, if anything they're more privy to it than other things
For example, the divorce rate is much much higher if Western countries than it was a century ago. This is because the welfare state has made it so women do not need to financially rely on men, thus marriages are not the practical and mutually beneficial thing like it was last century. And it has resulted in an epidemic in single-motherhood which leads to an extremely negative effect on their children and thus society as a whole.it's more because there's no longer a fucking HUGE religious and social stigma re: divorce, tbh. single motherhood is another kettle of fish entirely and i'm not wholly sure how it is related, tbh
That's why I have always advocated against the state and leftism, it tries to cheat nature by creating 'equality' artificially, and encourages poverty, ineptitude, and the deterioration of society.so you're a bonafide nihilo-anarchist then? i don't really know what else to say to that.
probably the #1 in my list of "lines i wish i could have come up with"Ephemeral wrote:
people are flagrantly irrational beings and people do all sorts of shit just because they like how it is, like flower arrangement or urethral sounding.
Doesn't that imply that you're the one who gives a shit about the other person?Mr Color wrote:
protip people will not give a shit about you until you make the first move
I'll just have to find someone to give a shit about first. Then I'll take your "protip" to good use.Mr Color wrote:
protip people will not give a shit about you until you make the first move
people do give a shit about other people and the potentially given reason for the other person to give a shit is already the first move, if there is none then it has to be madeKhelly wrote:
Doesn't that imply that you're the one who gives a shit about the other person?Mr Color wrote:
protip people will not give a shit about you until you make the first move
Doesn't this seem like a paradox? If no one gave a shit about anyone then no one ever makes the first move.
Can you see benefits to friendship then? Because there is definitely some overlap in terms of benefits you can get when you have either, a friendship or a relationship.KingKlick[01] wrote:
big thing with me is that i would just hate having only one fucking thing on my mind at all times, the one thing being the significant other. relationships in general are just stupid; i see no benefit to them.
Ephemeral wrote:
GET OUT RIAJUU
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
リア充爆発しろEphemeral wrote:
GET OUT RIAJUU
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
who are you? your name is way too similar to katzeDer Katze wrote:
Because I'm beautiful.