I don't get people who are like "school should only be about life skills", mostly because there's classes sort of like that, like Home Economics and Drivers Ed and stuff, and people find that pretty stupid. Plus, a lot of lessons can just be like, told, rather than taught. There are a lot of mathematical things, but I've managed to learn a lot of those in math classes (such as calculating interest, functional algebra, finding percentages of stuff, etc), and the stuff I don't know, it's not super hard to learn. People will be like "wow school didn't teach me how to balance a checkbook" like seriously just write your purchases in the book and keep track of it (and most companies do that for you on an online banking system, so checkbooks are mostly just for extra security, and I personally don't use one.)
The problem with a lot of schooling is that people want everything to be custom tailored to be as relaxing as possible without putting in effort. A lot of kids that I talk to complain about being bad at school never do tutoring, and they never talk in class, which is the worst thing you could do in a class if you're struggling. They'll spend a lot of time hanging out with friends or passing time on the internet, and they'll be like "Oh yeah I'm smart, i just don't do xxx" or "Oh yeah the system just doesn't work for me", but in actuality, a lot of problems lie from a lack of effort. I did tutoring at my school back when I was a part of CSF, and I maybe got to tutor like, 2-3 kids. I did about 4 tutoring sessions. Sure, there were multiple people, and I was the music guy, so I was low priority on getting people sent to me, but still. Kids complain a lot about school, but they're forgetting that like, there's so many opportunities for help.
People are also being little shits about education because they're like "wow life after you graduate it forces you to do xxx and xxx why can't it just later." Because these end up being the people that also complain that school shouldn't take so long and other stuff. Like, there's tailoring to needs, and then there's bullshit. Just because you spent all of your time on tumblr talking about how much you want to ruffle David Tennant's feathers instead of exploring your interests, doesn't mean that the world is cruel, it means that you didn't have the right motivation, and you're facing the consequences, and you're blaming others for it. I had an idea of what I was gonna do when I hit high school. I wanted to do something with music, and I changed around ideas, but now I'm going to school for Music Education, with an interest in Music Therapy that I may pursue if life throws me the right cards.
And if you want a sort of tangent, education is gonna hurt a LOT of it ever goes to a focus on online schools. I'm not just saying this as a music educator, but as a person that has done online school. It's pretty pointless. There's VERY few resources to help you, it's easy to just find answers, and it hurts social skills as well. Same with homeschooling, especially when parents do it who aren't really qualified to teach at all. I understand that situations happen, but if the focus goes to that, the quality of teaching is gonna go downhill.
One of my BIGGEST pet peeves about the school system is that there's a whole "You go on no matter what". Here's how a lot of kids end up going through school
1) They fail to understand basic concepts in elementary school
2) The parents refuse to believe that their child is doing bad, and there's no real GPA barrier to stop the kid from moving on
3) Kids goes on
4) Kid might get put in remedial classes, but never get stopped to review concepts
5) Kid goes to high school in remedial classes
6) Kid does bad and ends up having to go to night school
7) Kid fails and breaks everything
Wanna know why? Because there's no standard to keep kids on a good track. It's all based on the parents, and a lot of kids come from households that don't really support education or know whats best. And that's why kids struggle in high school.
Keep the kids back early. A good foundation is what you need for success in the future. Who cares if you get held back? If you're struggling, its helpful to try again and get a review.
im gonna stop before this gets longer