Lol wut, that's like saying christmas is a bad time for families that cant even afford simple gifts. you don't have to conform to holiday norms, just make them your ownKaoru wrote:
I think Valentine's day isn't really a fair holiday. First off, you have people who are single getting all self conscious about the fact that they don't have a date. They either bitch and complain or silently wallow in their sorrows, thinking there's something bad about them that makes them impossible to date. Then you have the people who are IN relationships. The mass media kinda illustrates the holiday as a day that the man in the relationship should pamper the woman. The man will typically take her out on a nice date to a dinner he had to pay for, buy her chocolates, flowers, and plushies, and then spend the rest of the day together all lovey-dovey. He'll receive a gift as well, usually, but I bet that some guys would prefer sex out of the deal. I know it's not ALWAYS like this, but I feel like this is the case 90% of the time. It's also a very sexualized holiday, meaning there may or may not be expectations on both ends-- meaning a relationship could end up along the lines of "all you wanted was sex today! Q_Q" Social norms are starting to irk me more every day. Why does society encourage guys and girls to act like this? And the fact that people actually DO it. How2shattersocialnorms?
I'm not saying this 'cuz I'm single or anything, but I mean, c'mon. I find it kind of fucked that people treat Valentine's day this way
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noone's forcing you to participate. don't let it ruin your dayKaoru wrote:
It's not at all the same. It's the same when singles treat it that way but I'm talking about how it's treated in general.
Besides, even if you make your own holiday traditions you can't change the expectations your significant other might have unless you tell them upfront "this is how I want to celebrate Valentine's day."
extremely rude please don't do that thank you god bless youZeraph wrote:
you're fucking retarded.
I always perfer headphones over earbuds. I mean I use headphones when I can, in ear earbuds if I can't use headphones and those annoying earbuds that sit outside my ear if I have no other option (I hate those type of earphones)sChris9427 wrote:
I listen to music with my huge headphones.. when I'm trying to sleep.
It's surprisingy comfortable.
this kills the headphonesChris9427 wrote:
I listen to music with my huge headphones.. when I'm trying to sleep.
It's surprisingy comfortable.
Awwww yeah Limewax.Chris9427 wrote:
Well, when I said I listen to music when trying to sleep, I mainly mean stuff like this.
And of course sometimes vocal arranges of touhou themes.
This is pretty relaxing, allthough, how about Sa†anStatic Noise Bird wrote:
Awwww yeah Limewax.Chris9427 wrote:
Well, when I said I listen to music when trying to sleep, I mainly mean stuff like this.
And of course sometimes vocal arranges of touhou themes.
I usually use drone music myself, sometimes stuff like Birdy and Zastabuj Kopec.
You have a pretty good taste for music.Static Noise Bird wrote:
All hardcore, breakcore, crossbreed, skullcore etc. is amazing, but I wouldn't sleep while listening to it.
Once I fell asleep in bus while listening to Phuture Doom though.
WARNING: loudChris9427 wrote:
You have a pretty good taste for music.Static Noise Bird wrote:
All hardcore, breakcore, crossbreed, skullcore etc. is amazing, but I wouldn't sleep while listening to it.
Once I fell asleep in bus while listening to Phuture Doom though.
Though, I can probably listen to anything I like when I'm trying to sleep, because I only go to sleep when I'm really tired.
I procrastinate so much that I end up doing absolutely nothing.Lemozade wrote:
I procrastinate too much.
i judge everyone i see in my head and usually end up hating them before i even meet them, goes for most people around here tooDulcet wrote:
c'mon people post actual confessions
i need my daily dose of deepest and darkest secrets
When I was six I made my friend kiss my dick.Dulcet wrote:
c'mon people post actual confessions
i need my daily dose of deepest and darkest secrets