Reminds me of when I performed a minor sexual act on my girlfriend-at-the-time while I was literally asleep. She woke me up and had to tell me because I was confused.
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Controversial opinion: Public shaming him for this is going pretty far. I think it's quite a personal issue, not something that the entire world needs to know- after all, he's not going out and molesting his fangirls or whatever.
Going out and molesting a fangirl - be it with a lasting relationship between these two actions - is exactly what happened!DaddyCoolVipper wrote:
Controversial opinion: Public shaming him for this is going pretty far. I think it's quite a personal issue, not something that the entire world needs to know- after all, he's not going out and molesting his fangirls or whatever.
It may be wrong/inappropriate/illegal or w/e but come on. He touched his (girlfriend?) who slept in his bed on her own will (prolly after sex anyway) and boom - he's a rapist pig manipulative scumbag? I think this has blown way out of proportion unless I missed something. Please lmk if so.
Note I think he's a scumbag pig because of other reasons. I do not condone this type of behavior unless it's mutual ofc. Stil,l making a public scene and going to therapy because your s/o groped you in your sleep? I and Sooo many other people who have been through ten times worse stuff without the need of therapy see this as a cry for attention. Hate all you want but I think stuff like this can be resolved by a simple face to face dialogue.
Didn't mean to go OT but I just felt like expressing my opinion on the matter.
Note I think he's a scumbag pig because of other reasons. I do not condone this type of behavior unless it's mutual ofc. Stil,l making a public scene and going to therapy because your s/o groped you in your sleep? I and Sooo many other people who have been through ten times worse stuff without the need of therapy see this as a cry for attention. Hate all you want but I think stuff like this can be resolved by a simple face to face dialogue.
Didn't mean to go OT but I just felt like expressing my opinion on the matter.
I know if someone groped me in my sleep and woke me up I'd be fucking pissed off
i think HE (renard) goes to therapy, not her.Liiraye wrote:
It may be wrong/inappropriate/illegal or w/e but come on. He touched his (girlfriend?) who slept in his bed on her own will (prolly after sex anyway) and boom - he's a rapist pig manipulative scumbag? I think this has blown way out of proportion unless I missed something. Please lmk if so.
Note I think he's a scumbag pig because of other reasons. I do not condone this type of behavior unless it's mutual ofc. Stil,l making a public scene and going to therapy because your s/o groped you in your sleep? I and Sooo many other people who have been through ten times worse stuff without the need of therapy see this as a cry for attention. Hate all you want but I think stuff like this can be resolved by a simple face to face dialogue.
Didn't mean to go OT but I just felt like expressing my opinion on the matter.
also the groping was after the being gf and bf i think. and do you really think she would be upset about groping if they just had sex? like really?
If a random sleezeball would grope me in my sleep Id beat him upMr Color wrote:
I know if someone groped me in my sleep and woke me up I'd be fucking pissed off
However, regardless if I'm together with a girl, if she had groped me WHEN WE WERE SLEEPING IN THE SAME BED wink wink after obvious activities, at most I'd be mad she didn't wake me up for it.
Again, I don't know all the details and unless you guys do, I'd refrain from making bold claims.
Ironic that by making these logs public she mad an even bigger pig-like move.
the posts were pretty interesting. renard seems like a dirty cunt/10
Regarding the thing with renard; I don't really care. I can separate the music from the artist, so I'll still be enjoying or hating his music all the same.
This whole thing is something that is personal to renard and nishimikan, I don't understand why everybody is gossiping and speculating and discussing so intensely about it
I mean yeah he is a bit of a "celebrity" but ultimately it's his thing to work out
also I don't know who nishimikan is but s/he seems like a questionable *ahem cutthroat* person as well
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This whole thing is something that is personal to renard and nishimikan, I don't understand why everybody is gossiping and speculating and discussing so intensely about it
I mean yeah he is a bit of a "celebrity" but ultimately it's his thing to work out
also I don't know who nishimikan is but s/he seems like a questionable *ahem cutthroat* person as well
asdfjk;ewds
do they need to resolve those issues by themselves? yes
did she need to spread the word about it? absolutely not
the reason why she is so upset of being groped it's because of previous sex abuse experience. being touched without permission makes her feel defenseless, like a fish on the ground. it is natural that nishimikan would feel very scared towards renard, because he touched her many times in her sleep without her permission.
when i read the whole deal about nishimikan the first thought that popped in my head was "oh, poor girl", but was there anything i could do about it? no. and neither the other people who read it could help her in any way (unless they stalk renard and kill him, but that's another story).
so why did she post it in anyway? i like to think of it as a cry of desperate help. when someone is desperate enough to get out of a situation, they'll end up doing very idiotic things, like talking about your own (very serious) personal issues about your boyfriend, even though she perfectly know the world is not obliged to care, unless it's tumblr.
tumblr is ridden by radical feminists and every type of female that hates the male sex. what nishimikan did was a smart move: she posted a rape accuse in a website like tumblr, because its bloggers will always give a shit about you if you're a "rape survivor" (and if you are not, you might as well kill yourself, you cishet scum). but then again, can these radfem do anything about it? no.
tldr; renard may be a scumbag, but posting it around won't help her, nor him.
did she need to spread the word about it? absolutely not
the reason why she is so upset of being groped it's because of previous sex abuse experience. being touched without permission makes her feel defenseless, like a fish on the ground. it is natural that nishimikan would feel very scared towards renard, because he touched her many times in her sleep without her permission.
when i read the whole deal about nishimikan the first thought that popped in my head was "oh, poor girl", but was there anything i could do about it? no. and neither the other people who read it could help her in any way (unless they stalk renard and kill him, but that's another story).
so why did she post it in anyway? i like to think of it as a cry of desperate help. when someone is desperate enough to get out of a situation, they'll end up doing very idiotic things, like talking about your own (very serious) personal issues about your boyfriend, even though she perfectly know the world is not obliged to care, unless it's tumblr.
tumblr is ridden by radical feminists and every type of female that hates the male sex. what nishimikan did was a smart move: she posted a rape accuse in a website like tumblr, because its bloggers will always give a shit about you if you're a "rape survivor" (and if you are not, you might as well kill yourself, you cishet scum). but then again, can these radfem do anything about it? no.
tldr; renard may be a scumbag, but posting it around won't help her, nor him.
because I'll just make a terrible comment, I'll just quote what I think is the most important thing said about this topic.
Jarby wrote:
his attitude from the quote is horribly problematic
>There are people on this earth right now in the year two thousand and thirteen plus one who literally think that is legally rape.
The SRS have already won.
He's lucky it ended there and he didn't accidentally roll over one morning and tap her leg with his morning wood. She would have called the police. It doesn't take a genius to recognize that casual sex might not be a great idea for someone mentally damaged from sexual assault/abuse/literal rape.
The SRS have already won.
He's lucky it ended there and he didn't accidentally roll over one morning and tap her leg with his morning wood. She would have called the police. It doesn't take a genius to recognize that casual sex might not be a great idea for someone mentally damaged from sexual assault/abuse/literal rape.
Wow this thread has been real serious.
On a lighter note I've been haply due to some recent events. Its a nice change from all the consistant indifference
On a lighter note I've been haply due to some recent events. Its a nice change from all the consistant indifference
It's pretty ridiculous to ask him to pay good money to go to therapy over something which she has a problem with, especially when it can also be solved with, I don't know, sleeping separately.
She's basically saying, "I was abused by someone with a big nose and renard has a big nose why won't he spend 20,000 dosh to get plastic surgery to remove his nose? He literally rapes me every time he looks at me." This obviously isn't a perfect metaphor for the situation as a whole but more so for the aftermath.
I also find it funny how intense her victim complex is that she actually posted this private situation online with the intent of "warning" other girls that he might touch them sexualy incase they get in a sexual relationship with him, like she's just assumed that it's completely normal to forbid your sexual partner from touching you unannounced and that it isn't her personal issue.
Fucking thanks, tumblr.
She's basically saying, "I was abused by someone with a big nose and renard has a big nose why won't he spend 20,000 dosh to get plastic surgery to remove his nose? He literally rapes me every time he looks at me." This obviously isn't a perfect metaphor for the situation as a whole but more so for the aftermath.
I also find it funny how intense her victim complex is that she actually posted this private situation online with the intent of "warning" other girls that he might touch them sexualy incase they get in a sexual relationship with him, like she's just assumed that it's completely normal to forbid your sexual partner from touching you unannounced and that it isn't her personal issue.
Fucking thanks, tumblr.
i have something to confess but i'll wait to see if it success or not so i can tell you
schrödingers cat?Trash Boat wrote:
i have something to confess but i'll wait to see if it success or not so i can tell you
at least be nice and say god bless.SaigonAlice wrote:
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thats actually not meNotEvenDoomMusic wrote:
at least be nice and say god bless.SaigonAlice wrote:
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so remember when we knew renard for his music
yeah I don't either I just raged on BD's beatmaps a lot
yeah I don't either I just raged on BD's beatmaps a lot
burp! lolSaigonAlice wrote:
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0K3ZsrbgPZ7
i'm sorry for your continuous utter stupiditySethlied wrote:
holy fuck why do men even lust after 3dpd
Was wondering when people would finally take the bait
Re: first paragraph: Renard already admits to themselves BEFORE this post that his gropiness is a problem regardless of what nishi thought about it, second one is a gross exaggeration i won't even humor and the third is entirely stilted. How about if you know that a girl has issues with touching her in sexual places because of PTSD, would you hide your sleepgroping when she stays over, and sleep together anyway? If somebody you know has a problem with getting felt up then just don't feel her up???????????Shellghost wrote:
It's pretty ridiculous to ask him to pay good money to go to therapy over something which she has a problem with, especially when it can also be solved with, I don't know, sleeping separately.
She's basically saying, "I was abused by someone with a big nose and renard has a big nose why won't he spend 20,000 dosh to get plastic surgery to remove his nose? He literally rapes me every time he looks at me." This obviously isn't a perfect metaphor for the situation as a whole but more so for the aftermath.
I also find it funny how intense her victim complex is that she actually posted this private situation online with the intent of "warning" other girls that he might touch them sexualy incase they get in a sexual relationship with him, like she's just assumed that it's completely normal to forbid your sexual partner from touching you unannounced and that it isn't her personal issue.
Fucking thanks, tumblr.
wow shelly since when are you an idiot.
Not every woman who says she has been sexually abused is doing it because it is a crime from a man abusing a woman. Some people do this because it is a crime from a person to a person.
I'm going to confess that I hate Simone de Beauvoir and Jean-Paul Sartre. They ruined existentialism.
On that topic, I get the impression that most existentialists need to learn how to write, especially Marcel. It might just be the translation though.
On that note, it really does piss me off how philosophers just can't resist writing in such unnecessarily convoluted syntax. It's as if they're afraid they'll suddenly lose credibility if they decided to speak in a clearer, less fancy form. I understand that speaking formally and intelligibly helps foster a more critical mindset, but bear in mind there's a fine line between rhetorical professionalism and rhetorical grandiosity.
He wears a fedora, he's entitled to talk like that.Yoeri wrote:
Do you not notice your hypocrisy right now?
1. Vocabulary =/= syntax. In a field like philosophy, I would certainly expect multi-syllabic words to be used.Yoeri wrote:
Do you not notice your hypocrisy right now?
2. It's as if you read one or two SAT words in my post and immediately labeled it as rhetorically pretentious. SAT words, much scary.
3. It's clear you've never read a philosophy work then. My previous post is literally Doctor Seuss compared to the convoluted bullshit they conjure up.
You caught me. I'm actually afraid of smart people, that's why I bully them.
Wait.
Wait.
relative to the general iq of this forum what you just wrote is equivalent to convoluted philosophy and therefore makes you a hypocrite
please avoid intellectual discussion in future
please avoid intellectual discussion in future
I merely provided an orderly response to a conversation you yourself initiated. No ad hominem or overly emotional attacks were used.
2+ SAT words = pretentious hypocrite, Maturely respond to something Yoeri initiated = insecure cyber bully. I will remember to be extra cautious in your presence so as to not spontaneously set off another red flag.
@tyrael6192 In comparison to philosophical works, the post was fairly straightforward. But I understand where you're coming from, point taken.
2+ SAT words = pretentious hypocrite, Maturely respond to something Yoeri initiated = insecure cyber bully. I will remember to be extra cautious in your presence so as to not spontaneously set off another red flag.
@tyrael6192 In comparison to philosophical works, the post was fairly straightforward. But I understand where you're coming from, point taken.
I bet you have a lot of friends.AlucPanda wrote:
I merely provided an orderly response to a conversation you yourself initiated. No ad hominem or overly emotional attacks were used.
2+ SAT words = pretentious hypocrite, Maturely respond to something Yoeri initiated = insecure cyber bully. I will remember to be extra cautious in your presence so as to not spontaneously set off another red flag.
I like how the topic suddenly changed
mekadon_old
I always have the feeling of "feeling bad" after accidentally spoiling an innocent person, oh well
Anything? I could get in prison for that.Aeidxst wrote:
Confess something about yourself, your thoughts, anything.
how new are youAlucPanda wrote:
I merely provided an orderly response to a conversation you yourself initiated. No ad hominem or overly emotional attacks were used.
2+ SAT words = pretentious hypocrite, Maturely respond to something Yoeri initiated = insecure cyber bully. I will remember to be extra cautious in your presence so as to not spontaneously set off another red flag.
@tyrael6192 In comparison to philosophical works, the post was fairly straightforward. But I understand where you're coming from, point taken.
mmmmmmf baby
you guys SUCK AT CONFESSING
I CONFESS THAT
I CONFESS THAT
I don't recall condoning his actions, my statements were said in order to point out her illogical actions in order to bring a bit of diversity into the tumble/reddit hugbox that this place has seemed to turn into.Wojjan wrote:
Re: first paragraph: Renard already admits to themselves BEFORE this post that his gropiness is a problem regardless of what nishi thought about it, second one is a gross exaggeration i won't even humor and the third is entirely stilted. How about if you know that a girl has issues with touching her in sexual places because of PTSD, would you hide your sleepgroping when she stays over, and sleep together anyway? If somebody you know has a problem with getting felt up then just don't feel her up???????????
wow shelly since when are you an idiot.
Not every woman who says she has been sexually abused is doing it because it is a crime from a man abusing a woman. Some people do this because it is a crime from a person to a person.
As it turns out, people's words often betray their true intentions, like when someone says something is a problem but doesn't do anything about it. It's highly likely he even went into therapy for the short time he did in the hopes that he could continue to have sex with the girl.
And again, maybe someone with PTSD from sexual abuse shouldn't try to have carefree sex in a casual manner. She'd be better of trying to find a relationship. And she still has no reason to anounce all this private stuff publicly other than to shame him.
If you're fine with having such an abundant guilty until proven innocent mentality in this place than whatever.
If you want a response to your arguments in full feel free to PM me, but I'm not gonna continue that in a thread where the entire discussion is kind of irrelevant from the start. I just want to affirm that when your opinion is an obvious minority for once, the forum has not per se "become a hugbox," in whatever sense you're using an empty term. So far I can only see people agreeing with one another, which in the O-T clique mentality is definitely not a rarity. If that becomes a symptom of a hugbox the moment you're not part of the feelgood, well, whatever.Shellghost wrote:
I don't recall condoning his actions, my statements were said in order to point out her illogical actions in order to bring a bit of diversity into the tumble/reddit hugbox that this place has seemed to turn into.
As it turns out, people's words often betray their true intentions, like when someone says something is a problem but doesn't do anything about it. It's highly likely he even went into therapy for the short time he did in the hopes that he could continue to have sex with the girl.
And again, maybe someone with PTSD from sexual abuse shouldn't try to have carefree sex in a casual manner. She'd be better of trying to find a relationship. And she still has no reason to anounce all this private stuff publicly other than to shame him.
If you're fine with having such an abundant guilty until proven innocent mentality in this place than whatever.
circlejerk is so 2013
hugbox is totally the thing now
hugbox is totally the thing now
silmarilen wrote:
circlejerk is so 2013
hugbox is totally the thing now
stay mad used goodsStatic Noise Bird wrote:
i'm sorry for your continuous utter stupiditySethlied wrote:
holy fuck why do men even lust after 3dpd
im so in.mekadon wrote:
There is always room for one, Zeraph
Why does everyone hate reddit. It's actually a useful resource and anyone who says otherwise has never been to r/medicine
Because the popularized culture of a site is what the whole site is identified as by those who don't want to come into contact with that culture.
I hate that I can't make people suffer ._.
Kanye West wrote:
Why does everyone hate reddit. It's actually a useful resource and anyone who says otherwise has never been to r/medicine
I actually see the contrary. Everyone seems to fkn idolize reddit as some kind of diety.
Kanye West wrote:
Why does everyone hate reddit. It's actually a useful resource and anyone who says otherwise has never been to r/medicine
When it comes to my personal interests, 4chan has a lot more of insight than reddit ever will
And I wanna say a lot less shitposting but then people like Sethlied exist
Put some laxative in drinks of your friendsSulker wrote:
I hate that I can't make people suffer ._.
^wut??
I'm a night person. my brain activates when it's dark but my eyelids doesn't seem to agree
I'm a night person. my brain activates when it's dark but my eyelids doesn't seem to agree
and apparently that sentence contradicts each other I guess
Same here. My friends say I get real lively during the night. Also the morning and I do NOT get along at all.hersa37 wrote:
^wut??
I'm a night person. my brain activates when it's dark but my eyelids doesn't seem to agree
pénis is french for penis haha so romanticmaal wrote:
i thought you quit sonSeiuji wrote:
i love maal, he has good penis
im disappointed
Good to see I'm not the only one.silmarilen wrote:
many people think i am a girl, including myself.
I confess that Asuna, Homura, and Luka really are my waifus. I sleep with them every night, too.
lol a polygam
It's okay.Ilfri wrote:
Good to see I'm not the only one.silmarilen wrote:
many people think i am a girl, including myself.
I confess that Asuna, Homura, and Luka really are my waifus. I sleep with them every night, too.
Everyone makes mistakes my quoting something from the very first page with the content being over a year old.
and yes, silm is a very sexy girl.
NotEvenDoomMusic wrote:
It's okay.
Everyone makes mistakes my quoting something from the very first page with the content being over a year old.
and yes, silm is a very sexygirlloli.
But im a cuter loli ;-;
if u say so...
i've cross dressed before
I never really got cross dressing. Why do people do that? I'd like to know.SaigonAlice wrote:
i've cross dressed before
gender identity issues, curiousity, lost bets...Ceph23 wrote:
I never really got cross dressing. Why do people do that? I'd like to know.SaigonAlice wrote:
i've cross dressed before
i really sensed it that you're a cute loli ever since :33 <33Yuu-Chii wrote:
But im a cuter loli ;-;
many people think i am a girl, including myself.but im also teasing me as a girl/loli/nee-san in osu ;//////;
Good to see I'm not the only one.
and this...
i've cross dressed beforei dressed a black short skirt, taking pictures it and showing it to my close japanese girl in osu a long ago. recently i wore a wig and eventually make it my profile pic on fb. ;/////; anyway, i got more likes than any of my pics have xD
for my media studies assignment last yearCeph23 wrote:
I never really got cross dressing. Why do people do that? I'd like to know.SaigonAlice wrote:
i've cross dressed before
i dressed up as a marisa-ish witch. i has a blonde wig, a broom specifically for a halloween costume, a thick black coat and a retarded fedora.E s s a wrote:
i dressed a black short skirt, taking pictures it and showing it to my close japanese girl in osu a long ago. recently i wore a wig and eventually make it my profile pic on fb. ;/////; anyway, i got more likes than any of my pics have xD
thats right im a boy.
I will never understand cross dressing......
Aside from when you lost a bet or you have to do it.
Aside from when you lost a bet or you have to do it.
its funCeph23 wrote:
I will never understand cross dressing......
Aside from when you lost a bet or you have to do it.
I'd bet there's a very long list of things you'll never understand.
Well yeah. We all have a list of things we can't understand.
Like why people love to leave things undone until the last minute. I do it, but I don't understand why I do it.
Like why people love to leave things undone until the last minute. I do it, but I don't understand why I do it.
fun fun fun fun looking forward to the weekend
lazy, maybe?Ceph23 wrote:
Well yeah. We all have a list of things we can't understand.
Like why people love to leave things undone until the last minute. I do it, but I don't understand why I do it.
mekadon_old
i feel you, brother (or sister).mekadon wrote:
I "crossdress" by wearing kneesocks, and sometimes a pantyhose to office. I want to try out a skirt, but I don't want to get fired for "moral" issues
gender stereotypes really are the worst. god bless.
Try it in public first.mekadon wrote:
I "crossdress" by wearing kneesocks, and sometimes a pantyhose to office. I want to try out a skirt, but I don't want to get fired for "moral" issues
The girls around me are so annoying that I wanted to be gay.
And I became gay, but I heard you get AIDS and afterlife punishment by being gay, so I became heterosexual.
And I became gay, but I heard you get AIDS and afterlife punishment by being gay, so I became heterosexual.
Seph
its normal to be nervous. u can do it Seph. if she doesnt accept u, well its not the end of the world
You don't get AIDS from being gay, it's just more common among people who have a lot of casual sex etc who are gay because it's easier to catch diseases in the butt. I doubt you're the kind of person who has a lot of casual sex, so no worries there.Apex wrote:
The girls around me are so annoying that I wanted to be gay.
And I became gay, but I heard you get AIDS and afterlife punishment by being gay, so I became heterosexual.
As for afterlife punishment, eh. Depends on your religion. Christians don't go to hell for it.
Nah, gay people and straight people are pretty much at the same risk.
Only reason people think gay people can get AIDS easier is because Patient Zero was gay.
Only reason people think gay people can get AIDS easier is because Patient Zero was gay.
I'm so confused....mekadon wrote:
I "crossdress" by wearing kneesocks, and sometimes a pantyhose to office. I want to try out a skirt, but I don't want to get fired for "moral" issues
I remember about another Malaysian saying that she was a girl using their cousin's account therefore the username.....
My memories serves to fail again
ggdoesn't that mean you're getting into the pussy-zoneSeph wrote:
I will go out of the pussy-zone and confess to her tomorrow. I hope it goes well.
Jesus fucking christ I am so nervous for tomorrow.
Good luckSeph wrote:
I will go out of the pussy-zone and confess to her tomorrow. I hope it goes well.
Jesus fucking christ I am so nervous for tomorrow.
