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Yarissa
Hello community! Okay so I know a lot of you guys may not be very interested in what I've been doing for the last three months in southeast asia. And a lot of you could care less. But I thought I should explain my absence from the osu! community in detail in case anyone was interested or curious about it.

So for the past three months I've been doing a gap year- studying abroad through Portland State University for university credits. You're probably wondering "Oh, what are you studying?" The answer to that is that I have (over the course of this gap year) decided that I don't want to get a university education and would rather self-study. With self-study I will be able to learn things that are exclusively relevant to what I want to learn in a shorter time with good cost-efficiency. I'll be self-studying a variety of subjects of my choice ranging from web design to psychology to physics. I'm going to prioritize web design for the sake of money making. But enough about my plans for the future. I'll explain exactly WHAT I've been doing for these last three months.

So over these last three months I've visited a variety of places in southeast asia. These places have included Thailand, Cambodia, and Vietnam. In northern Thailand outside of Chiang Mai I've visited a variety of places, all of which have been unique and enjoyable experiences. I started out the trip with a home stay in Mae Rim, just a couple of minutes outside Chiang Mai. I stayed there for two weeks, learning the Thai language and getting to know the culture first hand from a very rustic setting. It was very hard for me to get used to, since I have always been a spoiled North American with lots of conveniences and comforts. Overall that experience was very enjoyable and it was a lot of fun. After that, we left Mae Rim for Chiang Rai. From Chiang Rai we trekked towards the border of Laos to see the hill tribes that were living there. When I said that the homestays were very rustic, they were nothing in comparison to the hill tribes. In these hill tribes I slept on a small foam mat inside a bamboo hut with nothing but a blanket, no pillow, and a mosquito net. The animals were very loud all night and it was quite difficult to sleep. However it was amazing to make a difference in these people's lives; we helped build their houses and make their village a better place to live in. Eventually after another week or so, we left the hill tribes. We descended the mountains riding on the back of an elephant. (You can see said elephant inside the "Post a picture of yourself in real life" thread). After the hill tribes, we headed to the eco-friendly Pun Pun farm. Pun Pun was an eco-friendly farm ran by North Americans who had moved to Thailand in order to live off the land and help the local community. They saved their seeds and were very resourceful with all of their establishments and systems (they had adobe houses, recycled their water, and more). It was again a unique experience that would be very hard if not impossible to find in North America due to how our food industries work to make you buy from them. So after we left Pun Pun, we visited an orphanage outside Chiang Mai. We shared a lot of experiences with these kids. We extended our friendship with volunteer work (doing anything from planting coffee plants to building dams). In the evenings we enjoyed playing footbal (or as the North Americans call it, soccer) and badmiton with the kids as well. We showed them how we celebrate Halloween in North America as well by decorating masks and hosting a makeshift "Trick or Treat" with them. After a few days there, we finally left the orphanage to go to the Dharma Center in Northern Thailand. The Dharma Center was a wonderful place-- it was a Buddhist retreat where we were able to learn a lot about Buddhism from an Austrailian who had devoted his life to it. It was there that I gained some insight about my plans for the future; it helped me realize that I want to study and become a knowledgeable person simply for my own leisure. The Dharma Center was the end of our trip in Northern Thailand. From there we left for Ayutthaya which was in southern Thailand. Ayutthaya was an interesting place to see. After a long and tiring bike ride seeing the temples in the heat, we crashed at a hostel I had booked for the night. The live music there lasted late into the night and disturbed our sleep. The next morning we had to leave to catch a train for Bangkok bright and early. To our chagrin, we had been locked into the hostel. That was probably the one and only time I will ever have to break out of a hostel to make a ferry/ train somewhere. Fortunately, we had paid. Unfortunately, we caused some property damage (one of the students fell through the roof LOL). We made the train on time and made it to Bangkok. Bangkok was a really upbeat and busy place. Some of the students called it "New York with motorcycles." We saw the red light district and some of the stalls there. Let's just say it was a good thing we all left before things picked up later in the night.... We finally left Bangkok for the Cambodia border.

The border was full of casinos and other commodities that weren't legal in the bordering countries. It was an interesting place to see. One of the students got pickpocketed. We even had to bribe some of the officials to expedite the visa process. We eventually made it into Bangkok and made it to Siam Reap. Angkorwat was one of the places we saw there. To some guides and articles it is one of the seven wonders of the world. On our first night there we saw these ruins in the sunset and it was one of the most awe inspiring things I have ever seen in my life. The next morning we woke up bright and early to see the sunrise and see the rest of Angkorwat. I saw wild monkeys that day and had my picture taken with them. I of course was a little more interested in the monkeys than I was in the ruins themselves. That was a little immature of me and I should have spent more time observing the ruins. On the bright side I got plenty of pictures of me and the other students that I will have with me for the rest of my life. We left Angkorwat mid afternoon due to the rain. After Siam Reap we left for Battambang, Cambodia. Battambang was where we went to PTD. PTD was a retreat for women who had been victims of sex or drug trafficking. Meeting these women and talking/ playing with them was very fun and I hope I made a difference in their lives. We also had fun teaching some of the students that came to the same retreat some English, which was really cool. After we left PTD we began doing a few more tourist-like activities. We saw the killing fields and s21 which was a testament to the genocides that happened on behalf of the Khmer Rouge. Cambodia's bloody history was very sobering and made me think about the value of life. We left Phnom Penh, Cambodia, on our way to Ho Chi Minh, Vietnam for the free travel portion of the trip.

The free travel portion of the trip has been very enjoyable. It was our (the students) responsibility to plan this portion of the trip. Of course, we all decided on spending our time having fun. We played at a water park inside Ho Chi Minh. We saw the night markets there and enjoyed a lot of the fun Ho Chi Minh had to offer. After we left Ho Chi Minh, we left for the Mekong River Delta. We made it to Cantho where we saw the floating markets over there (a supermarket on a boat literally drove up to us and offered us food and drink!) I bought some pineapple juice, fried banana, and some noodles. They were very delectable, suprisingly enough. As we left Cantho we headed for Ha Tien. Ha Tien was a coastal port town without many tourists. It was very relaxing and it was there that we enjoyed our first day on the beach. That day included playing basketball and ultimate frisbee on the water and getting some vicious sunburns. The next day, we left Ha Tien for our final destination, Phu Quoc island. Phu Quoc has been very very relaxing. We've spent most of our time enjoying the weather, the beach, the sunsets, and the food. We went squid fishing once, biked 36 km across the island once, and we even eventually did some scuba diving.

Ultimately, the trip has been a very genuinely unique and interesting experience. I recommend spending a gap year to ANYONE here considering studying abroad or anyone that is even interested in travelling/ studying. I spent the same amount most North Americans will spend on 1-2 semesters of university. I feel like I have personally gained more out of this single semester than I would have out of an entire four years of college. After all, you can't really learn very much about the world sitting in front of a computer every day. :D

TL;DR: I've been in Thailand, Cambodia, and Vietnam studying over the last three months.

If anyone is interested in seeing pictures, has any comments or questions about my travels leave them here! I'll be more than happy to answer them!
Vish024
People will be more interested if there were pictures especially naked ones.

Yeah I'd have done the gap year thing but I realised that a gap year would make me even lazier than I already am and I'd probably lose all motivation to continue studying after.
Topic Starter
Yarissa
It didn't per se make me lazy. It just made me reconsider the educational system.

Also! You're welcome to add me on facebook if you want to see pictures or have questions about studying abroad. PM me if you want me to add you!
rickyboi
omg are u a girl?
she_old
Teach me Thai now nii-nii!

rickyboi wrote:

omg are u a girl?
late to the party
Topic Starter
Yarissa
Cat's out of the bag.

I can be your rickygirl if you know what I mean
Foxtrot
Girl, or boy, who cares! After spending some time in Thailand he could be anything.
Topic Starter
Yarissa

Dulcet wrote:

Girl, or boy, who cares! After spending some time in Thailand he could be anything.
You mean he/she. ;)

You never know though. I might have a suprise in my pants.
rickyboi

Dulcet wrote:

Girl, or boy, who cares! After spending some time in Thailand he could be anything.
yea I love christmas surprise xDD
iHateFatPeople_old


I couldn't care less
Cyclohexane
What was the most touching experience or encounter you had during this trip?
Vext_old
That's a lot of reading, I'll wait for the movie.
Agnes
This is intriguing. I'll wait until you appear on IRC to talk to you more about this ('cause really I'm truly curious).
Topic Starter
Yarissa

Mr Color wrote:

What was the most touching experience or encounter you had during this trip?
S21, The Killing Fields, and the Vietnam War Museum (which I failed to mention in my story). Another something I also failed to mention was how I liked some of the books and documentaries I read/ saw. Confessions of an Economic Hitman was another great and touching read.

Vext wrote:

That's a lot of reading, I'll wait for the movie.
You did see I had a TL;DR right?
theowest
nice blog post
Kaona
Long but I still read it.

Your experiences seem very unique and interesting (no shit Sherlock) and I'm happy you were able to experience those 3 months immersed in different cultures and trying out new things. I may even be a little jealous. :P

This is definitely something I would want to experience in the future and I'm glad you would recommend it to others.
jjrocks
That was a wonderful post about your trip, I might just want to talk to you more about this actually. Every 2-4 years I take a trip to Uganda to my parents village and it always is a ton of fun, but back to you. I think I just have a few pet peeves here and there but I think it's best to pm them instead of writing them up here. I'm glad you found your ways through this culture and, from the looks of this article, it certainly seems that you've gained a better perspective of the world.
mathexpert

Kaoru wrote:

The answer to that is that I have (over the course of this gap year) decided that I don't want to get a university education and would rather self-study. With self-study I will be able to learn things that are exclusively relevant to what I want to learn in a shorter time with good cost-efficiency. I'll be self-studying a variety of subjects of my choice ranging from web design to psychology to physics. I'm going to prioritize web design for the sake of money making.
If you don't mind, I'm kinda curious as to how you're going about doing this. I've heard that being an autodidact tends to mean that you have specialized knowledge in an aspect of a subject, but there there are also huge holes in learning (because you tend to study more on what you enjoy, and not on what you hate, of course). How do you usually study, and are there any difficulties in doing it in this way? For example, procrastination and understanding the more technical concepts would definitely be challenges for me. I usually learn better when somebody is there explaining it where I can ask questions, rather than from a book in a library.

Also, very interesting post in general! I'd love to see pictures of your trip ^^
Topic Starter
Yarissa
Well as far as self-studying goes I was literally just planning on picking up a book or two (or booting up the internet) then starting to learn whatever the hell I wanted to. I'd kill a few hours with it and then get back on the games or decide to go make some money or whatever. I personally never feel like I require explanations when I get a textbook education (the books teach you better than the teachers half of the time, anyways). Suffice it to say self-study will still be hard but I'm definitely going to proceed with it. I'm starting immediately after this short little holiday hiatus.

If you wanna see pictures btw, PM me for my facebook.

Also thanks everyone for actually taking the time to read this; to be honest I wasn't expecting this many responses on my wall of text.
Ephemeral
an admirable effort, but unless you are one of those savant-grade autodidacts, you're going to end up good at a lot of things but not good enough to warrant people paying you for the privilege of your skills.

textbook education for a lot of subjects (95%+) is sub-par and the mentor-student relationship you get from a university environment is invaluable for learning difficult skills as well. I honestly think you're going to have a lot of trouble sticking with this.
Apex_old
Can you make a thread of darkness in humanity you have witnessed?
Topic Starter
Yarissa

Apex wrote:

Can you make a thread of darkness in humanity you have witnessed?
If enough people request it, I will.

Ephemeral wrote:

an admirable effort, but unless you are one of those savant-grade autodidacts, you're going to end up good at a lot of things but not good enough to warrant people paying you for the privilege of your skills.

textbook education for a lot of subjects (95%+) is sub-par and the mentor-student relationship you get from a university environment is invaluable for learning difficult skills as well. I honestly think you're going to have a lot of trouble sticking with this.
Well, my clinical IQ testing actually told me I'm below average on a lot of areas but INCREDIBLY above average in others. The overall IQ averaged at about 134, if I recall correctly. Anyways, in other words I exceed at things I am interested in most of the time... so you could say I am savant. The thing is I'm most likely going to focus my studying (at first) on web design. It's really simple to learn and I'm confident maybe 6 months of education could teach me HTML/ PHP better than most college graduates. The best thing about that industry is that a portfolio speaks better than an education most of the time. I know I'm being very optimistic but I think I'll have no problem making the money that I need to make. Popular to contrary belief, I am 100% okay with living humbly and NOT being rich. I find most of my happiness out of intrinsic activites, anyways.
Apex_old

Kaoru wrote:

Apex wrote:

Can you make a thread of darkness in humanity you have witnessed?
If enough people request it, I will.
I'm one of them. Remember me.

Kaoru wrote:

Ephemeral wrote:

an admirable effort, but unless you are one of those savant-grade autodidacts, you're going to end up good at a lot of things but not good enough to warrant people paying you for the privilege of your skills.

textbook education for a lot of subjects (95%+) is sub-par and the mentor-student relationship you get from a university environment is invaluable for learning difficult skills as well. I honestly think you're going to have a lot of trouble sticking with this.
Well, my clinical IQ testing actually told me I'm below average on a lot of areas but INCREDIBLY above average in others. The overall IQ averaged at about 134, if I recall correctly. Anyways, in other words I exceed at things I am interested in most of the time... so you could say I am savant. The thing is I'm most likely going to focus my studying (at first) on web design. It's really simple to learn and I'm confident maybe 6 months of education could teach me HTML/ PHP better than most college graduates. The best thing about that industry is that a portfolio speaks better than an education most of the time. I know I'm being very optimistic but I think I'll have no problem making the money that I need to make. Popular to contrary belief, I am 100% okay with living humbly and NOT being rich. I find most of my happiness out of intrinsic activites, anyways.
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So, you're a savant. I am not a savant and my IQ is 142. I found myself interpretting knowledge and memorizing faster than others which often made me a finalist of Spelling Bees, me diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome and intermittent, intense periods of psychopathy. Nice to meet one with extraordinary IQ, I say, it's really a talent and a burden. I find many recreation through love and religion beliefs.

Also, big words are not cool, only use them when you are cornered or desperate. Not everyone can get what "endeavors" mean, and you should say "What I did recently" beccause English is our second, ot third language and not everyone is professional at it.
mathexpert

Apex wrote:

Also, big words are not cool, only use them when you are cornered or desperate. Not everyone can get what "endeavors" mean, and you should say "What I did recently" beccause English is our second, ot third language and not everyone is professional at it.
lol, Umm you don't have to be a "professional" at English to understand what endeavors means. It's not that hard of a word, and there's always this.
Foxtrot
Also, big words are not cool, only use them when you are cornered or desperate. Not everyone can get what "endeavors" mean, and you should say "What I did recently" beccause English is our second, ot third language and not everyone is professional at it.
Any person with common sense would look up a word they don't understand.

You clearly don't have any.
Topic Starter
Yarissa

Dulcet wrote:

Also, big words are not cool, only use them when you are cornered or desperate. Not everyone can get what "endeavors" mean, and you should say "What I did recently" beccause English is our second, ot third language and not everyone is professional at it.
Any person with common sense would look up a word they don't understand.

You clearly don't have any.
No need to devolve this into a flame war. Although he may have internet access maybe he doesn't care enough to look it up. Besides, there's no harm in me *ahem* deigning to use simpler English.
Kanye West
A+ word choice. Also it sounded like an interesting trip, 10/10
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Moriya Suwako
I will go to Thailand one month later for international volunteer work.
I bet it's great to stay in such countries 'cause of the cultural exchange, which will be a very great experience.
Well...currently I'm studying in a Chinese international school, not for short time but for a long period. :D
Moriya Suwako
Interesting, I love traveling very much.If I have such a good chance I will go and study in Combodia or Vietnam for several monthes too. :D
Topic Starter
Yarissa

Soly wrote:

For the amount of text there was a severe lack of detail. Also really terrible spacing, it's like looking at mount everest.

I did manage to get through it though, sounds like an invaluable experience. Must be a killjoy coming back to the mundane, where you have nothing but a static existence and time to slowly eat away at your memories and feelings of enthusiasm.
I was trying to keep from using too many details. If I wrote my story in detail it would have been nearly a hundred pages long. Again, that's why I am here: to answer questions not write a 1000 page memoir. And sorry if the spacing was brutal; I was trying to split things up by country.
Tesu
what an experience ..
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