I don't know how to talk to people, thanks for the offer though.TheNekoNextDoor wrote:
SNB-san, I'll be happy to help if you need me.Static Noise Bird wrote:
People have been disgusting me so much that it has started to hurt. Also the fact that there's exactly one person who cares about me enough to help me.
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How do you mean you don't know how to talk to people? Like, you don't like approaching them and initiating the convo or you just shy out even if they try to do it first? Like you said in the prior post, there's not a whole bunch of people who would love to help, but you must treasure those who want to and do your best to not turn them away - it'll definitely help in the long run.
You must excuse my random post - just woke up and feel strangely empathic.
You must excuse my random post - just woke up and feel strangely empathic.
I don't ever, EVER make the initiative. I rarely talk to people because of that, but when someone comes to talk to me, I usually shy off after exchanging few words, often in super unfitting moments e.g. they ask a simple question and I just leave it unanswered because I don't feel comfortable with conversating with people.
Yeah, I definitely know how you feel with the "never EVER make the initiative" part, largely because I'm the same. The latter one is a bit more problematic though, as I don't know if the "don't feel comfortable" part means that you rather dislike talking to them or if you just aren't comfortable in general, but would like for them to see that you still want them there.
I don't know, guess it's just that no matter how good friends they are to me, sometimes (most of the time) I just feel uncomfortable with talking to them. Of course I appreciate them being around.
This is why I had my internet breakdown lately, too ;__;
This is why I had my internet breakdown lately, too ;__;
Hm, can you pinpoint the reason why you feel like that though? Like, do they sometimes do something that makes you feel that way, or is it just a random feeling and you want to be alone for a while? Either way, they still have to understand that you sometimes just don't want to talk and their only option is to leave it at that until you decide to answer by yourself, when you feel comfortable again, no matter how much it takes.
Sorry for being like this, I'm usually rather cold and indifferent towards strangers, but sometimes my caring inner side comes to light and the only way to get rid of it again is to stab it until it goes away. :p
Sorry for being like this, I'm usually rather cold and indifferent towards strangers, but sometimes my caring inner side comes to light and the only way to get rid of it again is to stab it until it goes away. :p
I usually start hating everyone when I see shallow people, two-faced people, fake people, straight up bullshit people etc. and I force myself to think that everyone's the same. That way I'll trick myself into believing that just not talking to people is the best thing to do.
Usually it's because of IRL issues, this last time was because of (several) dozen(s) of internet peeps.
Usually it's because of IRL issues, this last time was because of (several) dozen(s) of internet peeps.
I've quite literally come to hate interacting with people I don't know well exactly because of that problem. Most of them are either utterly unintelligent, shallow or just plain annoying, which is why I try to be as indifferent as I can towards most, until they actually get to know me better (and so far only two have done that), so I definitely know what you feel like.
You most definitely need someone to talk to about your IRL issues (and the best person that could help would be an IRL one, but those are rather rare), as you can't go through problems alone - they end up eating you from the inside, no matter how small. For the internet peeps, just give your best to ignore them or accept the fact that they're just a bunch of pixels - nothing worth your nerves. That's how I usually deal with that problem, and it kind of helped.
You most definitely need someone to talk to about your IRL issues (and the best person that could help would be an IRL one, but those are rather rare), as you can't go through problems alone - they end up eating you from the inside, no matter how small. For the internet peeps, just give your best to ignore them or accept the fact that they're just a bunch of pixels - nothing worth your nerves. That's how I usually deal with that problem, and it kind of helped.
idk, just felt like crying.
Well, I did happen to lose EIGHT RANKED GAMES ON LEAGUE OF LEGENDS IN A ROW.....that made me cry....and to top it all off I got demoted to bronze III...lol
I had a friend that I met at the start of the year and we were really close to each other.
Love that guy, he's basically up there with my bestie, but there's also some chemistry between us.
He cracks me up and he was telling me how much he missed talking to me and I realized the same goes for me.
All in all, glad I was able to patch things up with him.
I hope I never lose that friend again, he's really important to me~ ^-^
Love that guy, he's basically up there with my bestie, but there's also some chemistry between us.
He cracks me up and he was telling me how much he missed talking to me and I realized the same goes for me.
All in all, glad I was able to patch things up with him.
I hope I never lose that friend again, he's really important to me~ ^-^
I'm done. I always have a feelings that everyone will ended up hating me, even the one that I consider as 'special'.
No more liking or loving.
No more liking or loving.
People on the internet bringing up things I don't want to think about...while I'm on vacation.
I'm in Vegas... I'm supposed to be having a fun time with my family. Why am I still crying myself to sleep over something that was never meant to be...
I'm in Vegas... I'm supposed to be having a fun time with my family. Why am I still crying myself to sleep over something that was never meant to be...
Kouya-
I cried today because I either twisted or sprained my ankle...im not a man ok don't judge.
Some of the parts in "Dawn of the Planet of the Apes" were so "feels, bruh"-moments.
I don't know why, but I looked up my house on Google Street View and rolled back the date to 2007 and nostalgia just started flowing...
Just woke up from a nightmare about her... of her completely ignoring me or anything i had to say. Her trying to pretend I didn't exist, even when I was standing right in front of her, trying to get her attention. Watching her being completely fine with talking to other friends, but not to me.
The thing is, this is exactly how she acted towards me throughout the last few weeks of school. Yeah, I know I confessed to her and she didn't like me back, but I never intended for it to end like this. We were close friends, and she sorta just... cut me off. No explanation or anything.
I still remember getting anonymous "questions" on ask.fm from one of her close friends after the school year ended (it was obvious who it was, based off of what the anon knew) berating me for thinking i even had a chance with her, stating that she didn't even like me as a friend and speculated on why she felt that way (I ended up deleting the dozens of answers because the topic only brought negativity to my page). Confronting her about the questions in frustration (not something I should've done) only led to her blocking me on Facebook without any response.
I still have no idea what happened to our friendship and why she suddenly just threw it away, or even how or why she felt the way she did in the end... But as much as it hurts, there's really nothing I can do at this point but move on. It's already been too long since then, so I don't know why I'm still dwelling in the past.
The thing is, this is exactly how she acted towards me throughout the last few weeks of school. Yeah, I know I confessed to her and she didn't like me back, but I never intended for it to end like this. We were close friends, and she sorta just... cut me off. No explanation or anything.
I still remember getting anonymous "questions" on ask.fm from one of her close friends after the school year ended (it was obvious who it was, based off of what the anon knew) berating me for thinking i even had a chance with her, stating that she didn't even like me as a friend and speculated on why she felt that way (I ended up deleting the dozens of answers because the topic only brought negativity to my page). Confronting her about the questions in frustration (not something I should've done) only led to her blocking me on Facebook without any response.
I still have no idea what happened to our friendship and why she suddenly just threw it away, or even how or why she felt the way she did in the end... But as much as it hurts, there's really nothing I can do at this point but move on. It's already been too long since then, so I don't know why I'm still dwelling in the past.
I had the most awesome and beautiful dream today, it was so realistic..then I wake up and I realized that it will never happen in rl because the person I dreamed about isnt in my life anymore and well..that made me depressed as f#ck today
I'm 75% sure that the person I love is already in love or dating with someone (not me). This thing is always makes me down lately, I don't even understand myself why I'm still hoping for her. I should've gave up now.
But it's pretty ironic that she is makes me happy sometimes, but makes me sad and lonely, I don't understand once more. My love is always goes to waste.
But it's pretty ironic that she is makes me happy sometimes, but makes me sad and lonely, I don't understand once more. My love is always goes to waste.
http://www.fate-sn.com/
The happy, inner kind. If not for one of my friends linking the site earlier, I wouldn't even have remembered from all my piling work stress.
Ideally, the HF movie would be at 2-part. Makes me happy either way.
The happy, inner kind. If not for one of my friends linking the site earlier, I wouldn't even have remembered from all my piling work stress.
Ideally, the HF movie would be at 2-part. Makes me happy either way.
Clannad After Story, Episode 19.
Spoilers: WHEN USHIO DIED.
Spoilers: WHEN USHIO DIED.
My girlfriend was yesterday at her friends and now she changed her FB relationship status to another, feeling now:
Almost 39 degrees (celsius) fever. Excuse me while I stay away from the computer for some days.
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that's actually quite sad... I mean, how could somebody be so cold?Norppis wrote:
My girlfriend was yesterday at her friends and now she changed her FB relationship status to another, feeling now:
Kouya-
I thought I was broken before, now I don't even know what I am anymore. Not even a single drop of happiness is left in me.
Makes me wonder why I keep living and what for, because I have no clue.
Makes me wonder why I keep living and what for, because I have no clue.
not being able to eat fish today, I'm in a current love relationship with fish.
Wrote to an old friend and I expected him to be mad as hell because i deleted him some months ago, but he said that he missed me so much and that made me cry like a little baby