My Happy Marriage
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This anime is about a girl who lives in a prestigious family in 19th century japan who is absued by the rest of her family due to her not having super cool supernatural powers that is forced into a arranged marriage with another family who does treat her right.
When I talked about her I mentioned about how that movie was in many way a analysis and showcase about the way we speak and percieve romance in the current era vs what romance really is, about how we have this perception that love will always win at the end and that any hurdles can be overcome. This anime is the exact opposite, it's romance purely as a resource, as a way to distribute responsability and work in a household
There is no love in a arranged marriage, in the anme they were already engaged before they met each other for the first time, however, they are depicted as the perfect couple. And while it does make sense in the anime why the girl is happy, I very much don't really agree with the points it's trying to make or the general philosohpy behind it.
The perception of romance in 19th century japan and the perception of romance today are entirerily different. In that era arranged marriages and stuff were commonplace, but that doesn't mean it's really right. In this case the female protagonist had been severily abused in her household, so when she moves out due to her marriage she becomes happy and "falls in love" with the hot male protagonist.
But the male protagonist isn't exactly the best husband, he just treats her with slight respect. We as the viewer percieve them as a really good guy because it's presented that way, but we only percieve him as a good guy because we have been anchored to compare it to her previous living situation, but if you look at it more coldly, during the anime there is never anything shown that could suggest that the two protagonist could even be remotely compatible with each other, there isn't any romance by our modern definition
in reality what is happening is that you're taking a traumatized and depressed girl, getting her out of that bad situation and then especting sex in return and for her to take the role of a wife in 19th century japan which again wasn't the best place to be in since women rights weren't really as of yet
while yes, it does make sense that she is happy and whatever, I don't think any of the actions that the two characters made where illogical or plot holes, but I don't like how the romance is depicted, the anime never really tries to get you to think about the nature of the relationship or whatever, they're just expecting you for to see that, go "how cute!" and accept it without really thinking too much about it
also, spoilers, but major delabreaker for me. This anime falls into the trope of "you know not being special or super cool is fine as we can expect everyone in society to be like that" only for that character to suddently gain the super cool special powers which kinda undermines the point of "being normal is fine" because you say that but then you're NOT willing to actually write a character like that or for the character to be happy while they're normal and I just despise that
also the family of the protagonist feels a little bit too antagonistic?, like yes I get that they're supposed to be abusive and stuff but I think it reaches a point where it's so abusive and antagonistic you don't even believe something like that could happen IRL which kinda just leads to you not taking it that seriously, it removes a lot of the emotional weight it could have had
Also, this anime really isn't a romance at all, the relationship is kinda set in stone from the start and as we've said there isn't anything shown that we could consider romance today, it's more about the relationship and the marriage being attacked from different angles and sources and that whole plot with the super cool special powers
I didn't enjoy this anime very much and I think it has pretty terrible messeging, D rank.
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uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
This anime is about a girl who lives in a prestigious family in 19th century japan who is absued by the rest of her family due to her not having super cool supernatural powers that is forced into a arranged marriage with another family who does treat her right.
When I talked about her I mentioned about how that movie was in many way a analysis and showcase about the way we speak and percieve romance in the current era vs what romance really is, about how we have this perception that love will always win at the end and that any hurdles can be overcome. This anime is the exact opposite, it's romance purely as a resource, as a way to distribute responsability and work in a household
There is no love in a arranged marriage, in the anme they were already engaged before they met each other for the first time, however, they are depicted as the perfect couple. And while it does make sense in the anime why the girl is happy, I very much don't really agree with the points it's trying to make or the general philosohpy behind it.
The perception of romance in 19th century japan and the perception of romance today are entirerily different. In that era arranged marriages and stuff were commonplace, but that doesn't mean it's really right. In this case the female protagonist had been severily abused in her household, so when she moves out due to her marriage she becomes happy and "falls in love" with the hot male protagonist.
But the male protagonist isn't exactly the best husband, he just treats her with slight respect. We as the viewer percieve them as a really good guy because it's presented that way, but we only percieve him as a good guy because we have been anchored to compare it to her previous living situation, but if you look at it more coldly, during the anime there is never anything shown that could suggest that the two protagonist could even be remotely compatible with each other, there isn't any romance by our modern definition
in reality what is happening is that you're taking a traumatized and depressed girl, getting her out of that bad situation and then especting sex in return and for her to take the role of a wife in 19th century japan which again wasn't the best place to be in since women rights weren't really as of yet
while yes, it does make sense that she is happy and whatever, I don't think any of the actions that the two characters made where illogical or plot holes, but I don't like how the romance is depicted, the anime never really tries to get you to think about the nature of the relationship or whatever, they're just expecting you for to see that, go "how cute!" and accept it without really thinking too much about it
also, spoilers, but major delabreaker for me. This anime falls into the trope of "you know not being special or super cool is fine as we can expect everyone in society to be like that" only for that character to suddently gain the super cool special powers which kinda undermines the point of "being normal is fine" because you say that but then you're NOT willing to actually write a character like that or for the character to be happy while they're normal and I just despise that
also the family of the protagonist feels a little bit too antagonistic?, like yes I get that they're supposed to be abusive and stuff but I think it reaches a point where it's so abusive and antagonistic you don't even believe something like that could happen IRL which kinda just leads to you not taking it that seriously, it removes a lot of the emotional weight it could have had
Also, this anime really isn't a romance at all, the relationship is kinda set in stone from the start and as we've said there isn't anything shown that we could consider romance today, it's more about the relationship and the marriage being attacked from different angles and sources and that whole plot with the super cool special powers
I didn't enjoy this anime very much and I think it has pretty terrible messeging, D rank.