You are comparing an apple with an orange. The situation in japan is one of sudden change, not something they have grown accustomed to. Also, I personally feel in debt to Japan as a country, as i have spent much time over there. I don't think you have the right to tell us who to donate to.
The government may be "prepared", but the people who suddenly lost their families, friends, homes and belongings aren't. That is where red cross direct the bulk of their money -- both to help them recover spiritually and physically.
This thread need not be used for such discussion, so i am choosing to lock it.