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Aurani
That's my entire point - you're focusing on what your own opinion is. :p
Hika
Stfu narcissist. Contribute to thread loser.
Aurani
Man you're so bitchy lately.
Railey2

B1rd wrote:

Homosexuality was regarded as a mental illness until public opinion changed and they spontaneously decided it wasn't.
note that the perception of a mental illness back then and today aren't even close to being the same thing.

The mental disease category back then was closer to the character flaw category from my model (in fact, it way more extreme). Only because they called it a disease doesn't mean that they saw it like we see it.

if you suffered from a mental illness back then you couldn't expect any sympathy and the ''treatment'' would often consist of being locked up in a dank cellar. So much for that.

These practices are still widespread in the 3rd world today. Africa, the middle east, wide parts of india and neighboring countries etc.
Railey2

Aurani wrote:

Yeah, let's return to spamming memes and joking about serious illnesses instead of actually discussing anything. Trans is in the no man's land of illnesses, since it has yet to be officially confirmed as one, so I don't see a problem of discussing it here.
Dual role transvestism is actually an official diagnosis, it falls in the category of Mental, Behavioral and Neurodevelopmental disorders

http://www.icd10data.com/ICD10CM/Codes/ ... F64-/F64.1
Aurani
Can't really fall to that argument since ICD is under intense pressure for that classification and is currently under revision, so my statement that it's in no man's land holds.
picky picky_old
i want to put emphasis on what this thread's purpose was to begin with:

Sentencings wrote:

I wanted to make a thread where people talk here about their mental/behavioral disorders.

Well, I actually do have High-Functioning Autism and Dermatillomania, and heck, I can't even stop talking to myself, either can I even stop scratching my skin.
Railey2
the icd is always under revision, that's its nature as the official classification manual.

But i don't think that this is an important point to argue. To me it's not no man's land exactly because there is an official statement. Doesn't really matter if its controversial or not.

We can both agree that it belongs in this thread, that's the important part :v


picky picky wrote:

:D i want to put emphasis on what this thread's purpose was to begin with:

Sentencings wrote:

I wanted to make a thread where people talk here about their mental/behavioral disorders.

Well, I actually do have High-Functioning Autism and Dermatillomania, and heck, I can't even stop talking to myself, either can I even stop scratching my skin.
oh crap, uuh uuuuuuh

g-guys i'm totally .. trans.
You can't prove the opposite!
Aurani
I don't mean ICD itself, I mean that very classification is under revision.
The reason I hold onto my initial statement is because we could sit here and argue about the validity of an official statement when compared to actual practices "on the field" for years and still be no closer to resolving the situation.

Either way, it belongs here and here it will stay. :p
Blitzfrog
I just wanna say:

Before you diagnose yourself with depression
Check if everyone around you is an asshole


I'm not joking
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Sentencings

Blitzfrog wrote:

I just wanna say:

Before you diagnose yourself with depression
Check if everyone around you is an asshole


I'm not joking
I... actually kind of agree with that...

Plus, since this thread has been going a little off topic, lets not talk about gender discourse in here, that topic will come for another time...
Foxtrot
Only Railey could apologize for derailing the thread, only to derail it even further. Only Railey.
Railey2

Foxtrot wrote:

Only Railey could apologize for derailing the thread, only to derail it even further. Only Railey.
stop derail plz
Aurani
I..... actually like OP, even though he's a murrican and most likely either an immigrant or black. :V
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Sentencings

Aurani wrote:

I..... actually like OP, even though he's a murrican and most likely either an immigrant or black. :V
*grins* Thanks! I'm female and Brazilian-American by the way... (Yet I can't speak Portuguese for some reason...)
Rurree
no wonder you like drake

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Sentencings

Madvillain wrote:

THAT IS LITERALLY ME
Hika
Me af.

Also I'm gonna try antidepressants again. Hopefully they get it right this time.
I'm generally against them because they always make me feel deprived of everything. Literally feels like a zombie. No emotions and everything feels so forced.
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Sentencings

Hika wrote:

Me af.

Also I'm gonna try antidepressants again. Hopefully they get it right this time.
I'm generally against them because they always make me feel deprived of everything. Literally feels like a zombie. No emotions and everything feels so forced.
Could it be the same brand or another brand you're using? Cause sometimes I think it can activate right or wrong depending on the brand.
Foxtrot
Brand name doesn't really matter when it comes to medications. For example, if you're having bad side effects with Prozac it just means that you're not reacting well to the chemical itself, which is Fluoxetine.
Hika
I'm assuming the dosage was incorrect. I also received ambien and abilify when I was taking Prozac too..
Golterboose
I know this is a but personal but I was wondering if this was mental health related.

Every now and then I have dreams about my mother yelling at me and saying that I can't do shit right and how I will never amount to anything in life and I am just one giant fuck up.

When I have those specific dreams, I just wake up crying for like 30 minutes. Would this be mental health related or trauma?
Hika
Has she actually done anything like that to you irl?
Golterboose
Yeah I would say I have been emotionally abused by her quite often.

Also incase this would have anything to do with it I have
Aspergers (Diagnosed)
ADHD (Diagnosed)
Social Anxiety (Diagnosed)
I also believe I may have depression
Hika
I'm not a licensed medical therapist or anything but imo, it could be trauma and could develop into another disorder if you're not put in a better environment...
then again your mother is just really abusive and you should get out of that situation honestly
Golterboose
I am quite young and currently unable to have a stable life independently I am kinda trapped in a toxic situation

Another thing that makes the "trauma" worse is that I am secretly Bisexual but my mother is highly religious to the extent that she would honestly disown me if she found out I was Bi, stuff like that pop into my dreams as well which do upset me as well but more frustrate me to the extent where for long periods of time my personality is so black and white, if I dwell on stuff like that and cause of anxiety my brain loves to dwell on that, I become really upset and angry at everything.
Izzywing
Another thing that makes the "trauma" worse is that I am secretly Bisexual but my mother is highly religious to the extent that she would honestly disown me if she found out I was Bi, stuff like that pop into my dreams as well which do upset me as well but more frustrate me to the extent where for long periods of time my personality is so black and white, if I dwell on stuff like that and cause of anxiety my brain loves to dwell on that, I become really upset and angry at everything
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This is soosososososo SOOO relatable dude. I feel you 100% on that one. I'm actually Asexual, which might seem like a different situation, but my family's culture places a huge importance on marriage and having kids and it's just not for me, man. My parents don't know and if they find out the consequences would be awful. It's the kind of thing that just sticks in the back of my mind, creating a lot of anxiety and stress.
Golterboose
Yeah I know the stress
Adorn
my depression/bipolar is kicking in and i feel like shit but it could maybe be because of b-day + perhaps pms lol idk having disorders really can be confusing sometimes bec its hard for me to determine whether or not im being a hormonal teenager, a pmsing teenager, or a manic depressive, bipolar teenager.

all i know is that this is kicking my ass and a big part of why i havent been around here lately
Golterboose
Being a teenager is the most ubstable years of your life in most cases due to hormones kicking your ass and shit

Having mental health issues on top of that really does not help whatsoever.

Double trouble hahaha
Aomi

Flannel wrote:

idk having disorders really can be confusing sometimes bec its hard for me to determine whether or not im being a hormonal teenager, a pmsing teenager, or a manic depressive, bipolar teenager.
very relatable
Aurani
What I failed to say earlier is that this forum really shouldn't be a place for such threads simply due to the amount of children who are confused about their sexuality/feelings/personality, as they're still trying to figure out their place in this world and misunderstanding quite a lot of things.
I'm not trying to discredit anyone's status, but I'm willing to bet that 95 out of 100 people don't have any kind of disorder.
Golterboose
But due to the imbalance of hormones in a teenagers brain it can cause temporary or permanent mental health issues, even though what you are saying does have some truth to it, if we treat every young person that they are fine then it will cause more stress in their lives as if they do truely have those mental health issues, it could ruin their mental state more.

What you are saying is true and unfortunately people do lie but if you want to keep a forum like this then I believe you shouldn't judge someone based on information that you hear. Try to believe them cause some things that are said are cries for help and they need reassurance that it gets better and everything.
Jellyblob
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Adorn

Aurani wrote:

What I failed to say earlier is that this forum really shouldn't be a place for such threads simply due to the amount of children who are confused about their sexuality/feelings/personality, as they're still trying to figure out their place in this world and misunderstanding quite a lot of things.
I'm not trying to discredit anyone's status, but I'm willing to bet that 95 out of 100 people don't have any kind of disorder.
as i said on pg 4:
"lot of forums i've been to that have threads like this close the threads if it goes into too much depth on the topic and instead post a stickied thread with hotline links all across the world
could be a good idea in the future since most of these threads often derail pretty hard."
Golterboose
We need to prevent that occurring so if everyone can try to be open minded and accepting of one another then I see this thread not only lasting but a great outlet for those who may be struggling as we will be surrounded by positivity.

Do not assume someone is lying, treat it as if it is legit, cause you never know how someone may struggle in showing or explaining their situation.
Jellyblob
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johnmedina999

Jellyblob56 wrote:

I just want to know what motivates you guys to get out of bed in the morning.
My alarm. I have to get up every morning to turn my alarm off.
I'm being serious, this is my motivation to get up. Because I know if I let that alarm ring, I won't get up and won't go to school, and that's the worst thing I could do to my mom short of slapping her in the face. I get up in the morning to go to school so I won't disappoint my parents. I feel as if they have given me so much, the least could do to repay them right now is go to school.
If I go to college, I will be the first person in my family to go to higher-level education. Simply the thought of how they would feel if their little boy went to college and the thought of their huge disappointment if I didn't go is enough to wake me up every morning. Now, planning for college is a bit different, as I tend to procrastinate on everything I do, and my parents nag me about it all the time, but that's a different story.

On relationships: I've given up on relationships last year when I realized I was not relationship material by a long shot. I went through a depression phase which I don't want to describe here, but now the only relationships I'll take are the ones that come naturally; in other words, I don't seek them out anymore, I've learned that any time I try to talk to someone I end up pissing them off instead. But that's just me.

I just shared my story, and I hope you'll improve yours to where you want it to be.
Railey2

Aurani wrote:

What I failed to say earlier is that this forum really shouldn't be a place for such threads simply due to the amount of children who are confused about their sexuality/feelings/personality, as they're still trying to figure out their place in this world and misunderstanding quite a lot of things.
I'm not trying to discredit anyone's status, but I'm willing to bet that 95 out of 100 people don't have any kind of disorder.
Remember that we're dealing with a very specific set of people here: The gaming community as a whole already has a problem with mental illness since many games entice people into escapist lifestyles. Osu in particular. You would be surprised how many people here do nothing but play osu, browse the forums and watch anime all day. You can bet that these people have something going on irl, and it's not gonna be pretty. I have a hunch that most people who posted here actually have severe mental health problems.
Aurani
Oh no, that's my bad for not opening up more and explaining my own point of view in more detail. I know full well that a majority of people here have or had to fight depression at some point, including me (those were the good times :V), but I did not refer to depression here. I was talking about other illnesses like the bipolar disorder recently mentioned here.

Unless a professional diagnosed one of those, and like you said, the majority are quite asocial and withdrawn from everyday life to seek help without their parents/close ones doing so for them, it's highly unlikely they have that kind of problem.

Whatever the case, I'll gladly help and support people here and am open for talking if they need it, especially if it's about depression.
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