hey so this is gonna be quite a serious post because im really getting tired of this friend
so i have a friend, she's nice, likes pokemon, ponies, indie games, rp, reading fanfics.
it's all good. but i feel like every moment i hang out with her is a waste of time.
we can hang out for 1 hour and i'll be happy. instead, whenever we meet, it exceeds three hours. and i dont get anything out of it except girly talk which usually involves talking about crushes which is lame.
i go to my club meetings by myself because that's what i'm passionate about; she has to take me to every one of her fucking club meetups because it's "meh" without a friend and "awkward and yea".
whenever i skip dinner because i'm studying, she comes over an drags me to the dining hall because she can't eat dinner sitting by herself.
i have two midterms this week, along with three assignments and a volunteering meeting, not to mention i work as well- but she wants me to go watch the pokemon movie today or she'll be "weh" (i am quoting her words.)
im really fucking busy, and my grades are p much dead. i hate hanging out with her and i have told her, about 40 times by now that i'm busy. i think i've declined about 20 requests by now. she's a friend i've had since i've come to uni, but really i'm getting sick and tired of this.
what should i do?
so i have a friend, she's nice, likes pokemon, ponies, indie games, rp, reading fanfics.
it's all good. but i feel like every moment i hang out with her is a waste of time.
we can hang out for 1 hour and i'll be happy. instead, whenever we meet, it exceeds three hours. and i dont get anything out of it except girly talk which usually involves talking about crushes which is lame.
i go to my club meetings by myself because that's what i'm passionate about; she has to take me to every one of her fucking club meetups because it's "meh" without a friend and "awkward and yea".
whenever i skip dinner because i'm studying, she comes over an drags me to the dining hall because she can't eat dinner sitting by herself.
i have two midterms this week, along with three assignments and a volunteering meeting, not to mention i work as well- but she wants me to go watch the pokemon movie today or she'll be "weh" (i am quoting her words.)
im really fucking busy, and my grades are p much dead. i hate hanging out with her and i have told her, about 40 times by now that i'm busy. i think i've declined about 20 requests by now. she's a friend i've had since i've come to uni, but really i'm getting sick and tired of this.
what should i do?