To be fair, we have no way to know that you got that from a professionalShota wrote:
Thank you b1rd, for helping me out here. Haha I can't believe people don't trust a professional workers advice.
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I can list the name of who I see, there is no way I can make that up. You can find her if you look up her name. Plus what would I get for making up stuff like this? I have other things that I could be doing. : /Blitzfrog wrote:
To be fair, we have no way to know that you got that from a professional
2nd thread derail, what the fuck.
lifeisonlydark
The thing is you're not taking a fucking bath with ice in it, you're literally putting your life at risk because some fucking cockhead think he's an "professional worker", and gives dogshit advice to some poor fucker with autism and feels good about it afterwards.
And T3ars, if you got sad just from a message that was posted on this topic you might aswell kill yourself, because you are one of the most pathetic human beings i've encountered.
And T3ars, if you got sad just from a message that was posted on this topic you might aswell kill yourself, because you are one of the most pathetic human beings i've encountered.
That's like saying you can't laugh at jokes made onlinelifeisonlydark wrote:
And T3ars, if you got sad just from a message that was posted on this topic you might aswell kill yourself, because you are one of the most pathetic human beings i've encountered.
You're allowed to feel whatever emotion you want after reading whatever you read. Showing emotion doesn't mean you're weak
You and I are both off this threads topic. So lets shut up and get out
Where are the thread mods? This guy is clearly just egging on fights because he has nothing better to do. All of his points can easily be countered as wrong.lifeisonlydark wrote:
The thing is you're not taking a fucking bath with ice in it, you're literally putting your life at risk because some fucking cockhead think he's an "professional worker", and gives dogshit advice to some poor fucker with autism and feels good about it afterwards.
And T3ars, if you got sad just from a message that was posted on this topic you might aswell kill yourself, because you are one of the most pathetic human beings i've encountered.
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Please I think that the osu community is great and there were a lot of trolls at first in this topic, most of them changed and started helping me.. It actually makes me sad when I'm in a troubled time expressing my feelings and talking about my personal life and someone bashes me like that.. I know its online and I shouldn't take what he writes seriously but come one..
I think I got some really nice advice and even the discussion B1rd & Railey2 brought here was interesting.. Shota gave some advice that might work and I really appreciate it.. Please don't make me sink any further than I already have..
Thanks
I think I got some really nice advice and even the discussion B1rd & Railey2 brought here was interesting.. Shota gave some advice that might work and I really appreciate it.. Please don't make me sink any further than I already have..
Thanks
Add me on discord, I'll IM you on there. Since it seems whenever I post people crap themselves. Solace#3517T3ars wrote:
Please I think that the osu community is great and there were a lot of trolls at first in this topic, most of them changed and started helping me.. It actually makes me sad when I'm in a troubled time expressing my feelings and talking about my personal life and someone bashes me like that.. I know its online and I shouldn't take what he writes seriously but come one..
I think I got some really nice advice and even the discussion B1rd & Railey2 brought here was interesting.. Shota gave some advice that might work and I really appreciate it.. Please don't make me sink any further than I already have..
Thanks
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@Shota Adding you didn't work, sure you posted the right username? Mine is T3ars#2257 I think..
i don't know how dangerous it is, exactly. The article speaks of people falling in water, so i don't even know if it applies to putting your head into a bucket.B1rd wrote:
Well from what I am aware, shock as a medical term usually is something from the result of loss of blood.Railey2 wrote:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cold_shock_response
this is actually the right one, thanks for pointing that out, hah
thats what i get for not paying enough attention. There you go.
The point still stands though, since Blitzfrog was clearly thinking of a different shock when he made his comment.
Cold shock response is interesting, I've experienced it quite a few times from taking a full cold shower, or jumping in really cold water, it makes you hyperventilate. Though like the article says, it's not usually fatal in itself, it's usually due to an underlying heart condition or drowning. People in places like Finland do Ice-water as a sport, so it's obviously not that dangerous. I actually believe that it's good for your health, and it's feels sorta good to take a cold shower and experience the big physiological response from your body from the cold shock. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ice_bath
i looked a bit into the word shock, and turns out that its used for a variety of medical conditions, but i don't think its used in the context of blood loss.
But there's lots of other stuff, like the septic shock, insulin shock, and the spinal shock.
And then there's the shock that T3ars got after reading lifeisonlydark's mean posts :v
Bad day?lifeisonlydark wrote:
The thing is you're not taking a fucking bath with ice in it, you're literally putting your life at risk because some fucking cockhead think he's an "professional worker", and gives dogshit advice to some poor fucker with autism and feels good about it afterwards.
And T3ars, if you got sad just from a message that was posted on this topic you might aswell kill yourself, because you are one of the most pathetic human beings i've encountered.
Oh hold on, found the shirt for me to wear just for you!
No seriously, I think you're causing more of a scene than I did. I bet you're this upset only because someone broke up with you or you just had a really really really really bad day. Or maybe what you're saying is or has happened to you personally within the past few days?
So I ask again, bad day?
Go on, insult me. Not like you have anything better to do anyways.
T3ars, just ignore him, he's just being a depressed fuck that pretends he's everyone's boss.
As far as I'm aware, I've experienced Cold Shock Response about 3 times in my life, twice in the past year. It's not dangerous, and I find the feeling of the cold air or water, or just ice in general, relaxing. I play, act, and work better in colder conditions. Not something I would want to work in a field where it's 100% cold all the friggin time. I just happen to be one of those people who are completely different and can't stand the heat.Railey2 wrote:
i don't know how dangerous it is, exactly. The article speaks of people falling in water, so i don't even know if it applies to putting your head into a bucket.B1rd wrote:
Well from what I am aware, shock as a medical term usually is something from the result of loss of blood.
Cold shock response is interesting, I've experienced it quite a few times from taking a full cold shower, or jumping in really cold water, it makes you hyperventilate. Though like the article says, it's not usually fatal in itself, it's usually due to an underlying heart condition or drowning. People in places like Finland do Ice-water as a sport, so it's obviously not that dangerous. I actually believe that it's good for your health, and it's feels sorta good to take a cold shower and experience the big physiological response from your body from the cold shock. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ice_bath
i looked a bit into the word shock, and turns out that its used for a variety of medical conditions, but i don't think its used in the context of blood loss.
But there's lots of other stuff, like the septic shock, insulin shock, and the spinal shock.
And then there's the shock that T3ars got after reading lifeisonlydark's mean posts :v
My experiences with Cold Shock Response had no blood loss at all. Sure, it might seem dangerous, but after a while and with fair conditioning, you can adjust to something fairly quickly. It's kinda like surviving in a wasteland, where you have no internet, no contacts, and only chance of survival is scarce food and water. You learn to adapt to it quickly because you have to survive right?
I'unno, AMA on Cold Shock Response I guess.
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2017-03-01 Update
Thought I'd give a quick update since I'm trying to move forwards in life and since I got this much good advice in this topic it would be sad to just leave it without letting everyone know the progress..
I asked the girl I've been chatting with out and she agreed to meet for a coffee.. I don't expect much.. I just see this as a chance for me to practice talking to women irl and hopefully make a friend..
So yeah.. going out tomorrow.. I've put a patch right underneeth my eye where my stitched wound is since it's still like 4 days before I'm supposed to go back to take them out and it looks really ugly..
Also have work related education coming up next week and exams coming up after that.. Im studying 12 hours a day right now and my brain feels fried.. Will be nice to take my mind of things by taking a coffe with someone..
She has been really nice while texting, I'm trying to be pretty confident in myself but I am pretty sure she already knows that I'm pretty shy and awkward with girls..
Any tips for how to keep the conversation flowing? Things I can ask? What to wear? Anything..
Thought I'd give a quick update since I'm trying to move forwards in life and since I got this much good advice in this topic it would be sad to just leave it without letting everyone know the progress..
I asked the girl I've been chatting with out and she agreed to meet for a coffee.. I don't expect much.. I just see this as a chance for me to practice talking to women irl and hopefully make a friend..
So yeah.. going out tomorrow.. I've put a patch right underneeth my eye where my stitched wound is since it's still like 4 days before I'm supposed to go back to take them out and it looks really ugly..
Also have work related education coming up next week and exams coming up after that.. Im studying 12 hours a day right now and my brain feels fried.. Will be nice to take my mind of things by taking a coffe with someone..
She has been really nice while texting, I'm trying to be pretty confident in myself but I am pretty sure she already knows that I'm pretty shy and awkward with girls..
Any tips for how to keep the conversation flowing? Things I can ask? What to wear? Anything..
lifeisonlydark
Hahahahahh t3ars you'll fail miserably! I promise that afterwards you'll make a update telling everyone you're sad because you fucked it up like you've done every time so far. Just stop trying you autistT3ars wrote:
2017-03-01 Update
Thought I'd give a quick update since I'm trying to move forwards in life and since I got this much good advice in this topic it would be sad to just leave it without letting everyone know the progress..
I asked the girl I've been chatting with out and she agreed to meet for a coffee.. I don't expect much.. I just see this as a chance for me to practice talking to women irl and hopefully make a friend..
So yeah.. going out tomorrow.. I've put a patch right underneeth my eye where my stitched wound is since it's still like 4 days before I'm supposed to go back to take them out and it looks really ugly..
Also have work related education coming up next week and exams coming up after that.. Im studying 12 hours a day right now and my brain feels fried.. Will be nice to take my mind of things by taking a coffe with someone..
She has been really nice while texting, I'm trying to be pretty confident in myself but I am pretty sure she already knows that I'm pretty shy and awkward with girls..
Any tips for how to keep the conversation flowing? Things I can ask? What to wear? Anything..
For starters it's always nice to get to know one another. Dress formally, but not too formal, and not too casual either. Showing lots of respect to her and having responsibility is a good key to getting a girl to like you. I'm not the best with girls in the first place as I am gay so none of my tips will be 100% guaranteed to work.T3ars wrote:
2017-03-01 UpdateShe has been really nice while texting, I'm trying to be pretty confident in myself but I am pretty sure she already knows that I'm pretty shy and awkward with girls..
Any tips for how to keep the conversation flowing? Things I can ask? What to wear? Anything..
Be confident in yourself, try to know what the girl likes, and fancy her up into being open about who you are. Don't expose yourself too much, as some girls will use that to their advantage.
lifeisonlydark
Your advice is fucking dogshit. Also, being obsessed with My little pony when you're an adult makes me sick, a fucking pedophile is what you are.ColdTooth wrote:
For starters it's always nice to get to know one another. Dress formally, but not too formal, and not too casual either. Showing lots of respect to her and having responsibility is a good key to getting a girl to like you. I'm not the best with girls in the first place as I am gay so none of my tips will be 100% guaranteed to work.T3ars wrote:
2017-03-01 UpdateShe has been really nice while texting, I'm trying to be pretty confident in myself but I am pretty sure she already knows that I'm pretty shy and awkward with girls..
Any tips for how to keep the conversation flowing? Things I can ask? What to wear? Anything..
Be confident in yourself, try to know what the girl likes, and fancy her up into being open about who you are. Don't expose yourself too much, as some girls will use that to their advantage.
did your daddy beat you again lifeisonlydark?
I love it when some random comes into OT like this
Aww, it's so cute when you try to insult me! Also I'm not an adult. Enjoy your ban.lifeisonlydark wrote:
Your advice is fucking dogshit. Also, being obsessed with My little pony when you're an adult makes me sick, a fucking pedophile is what you are.
he's still trying L o L
someone must really have no life or nothing better to do
someone must really have no life or nothing better to do
lifeisonlydark, you're just making yourself look like an idiot. However, I read your introduction thread and you mentioned about taking pills. I've dealt with side effects before, and they genuinely suck. Hopefully your shit behavior comes from the pills, though, and not from your overall personality. My suggestion is to stop writing before you do further damage to yourself and to others.
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I don't even want to go anymore..
Feels like it will be a waste of time and I'm better off doing school work..
And I basically already know what will happend.. I'm going to be really shy.. stutter.. not being able to look at her.. It will be awkward..
Updating this thread after a failiure again won't feel that good either..
Feels like it will be a waste of time and I'm better off doing school work..
And I basically already know what will happend.. I'm going to be really shy.. stutter.. not being able to look at her.. It will be awkward..
Updating this thread after a failiure again won't feel that good either..
sure, school is priority, but you can't give up just yet.
and you don't know what will happen. if you don't continue facing your fears, you'll never learn how to deal with them.
running away won't do you any good, that's for sure.
some girls like shy guys, they may find your stuttering cute, even. who knows?
not everyone has the same preferences and that's completely fine.
even if you do not succeed, just stand back up and try again.
i know it'll be hard, and there will be many obstacles in your way,
but you'll feel a lot more accomplished once you've passed them all, and your efforts won't be in vain, i assure you.
so just keep trying, and you'll definitely be able to do what you've wished for for so long.
so, don't give up!
fighting!! (و•̀ω•́)و
and you don't know what will happen. if you don't continue facing your fears, you'll never learn how to deal with them.
running away won't do you any good, that's for sure.
some girls like shy guys, they may find your stuttering cute, even. who knows?
not everyone has the same preferences and that's completely fine.
even if you do not succeed, just stand back up and try again.
i know it'll be hard, and there will be many obstacles in your way,
but you'll feel a lot more accomplished once you've passed them all, and your efforts won't be in vain, i assure you.
so just keep trying, and you'll definitely be able to do what you've wished for for so long.
so, don't give up!
fighting!! (و•̀ω•́)و
are you in need of a gf or something?? you're worrying way too much loll
It's not that, he's trying to learn how to handle himself around girls. That's all, so being around one alone is a good start at feeling more comfortable around the opposite sex. Some people really do have a phobia of the opposite sex, or even of their own sex.ciara wrote:
are you in need of a gf or something?? you're worrying way too much loll
It's kind of sad really, but I can understand it people can be scary.
Gonna save it in my flame war starter fileLaryRose09 wrote:
Are you god?lifeisonlydark wrote:
The thing is you're not taking a fucking bath with ice in it, you're literally putting your life at risk because some fucking cockhead think he's an "professional worker", and gives dogshit advice to some poor fucker with autism and feels good about it afterwards.
And T3ars, if you got sad just from a message that was posted on this topic you might aswell kill yourself, because you are one of the most pathetic human beings i've encountered.
gone
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@Aomi Omg thanks, your messages always motivates me!
@ciara What Shota said.. I'm in need of self improvement not a gf..
@Shota Thanks buddy, you understand my goals and how I think..
@LaryRose09 Thats a nice meme! Thanks
@Meah Lets hope we only meet kind people today..
I'm currently awake.. Going to take the earliest bus in my fucking life to go into the city so I can meet her.. Its 7.50 right no while writing.. I'm cold.. But I am actually doing this..
Thanks for all nice messages.. I'm listening to music to try relax.. One the other hand if it sucks hard we're still going for coffee and I love coffee.. So we have that going.. I'm just going to try have fun.. Like with a friend..
Wish me luck friends!
@ciara What Shota said.. I'm in need of self improvement not a gf..
@Shota Thanks buddy, you understand my goals and how I think..
@LaryRose09 Thats a nice meme! Thanks
@Meah Lets hope we only meet kind people today..
I'm currently awake.. Going to take the earliest bus in my fucking life to go into the city so I can meet her.. Its 7.50 right no while writing.. I'm cold.. But I am actually doing this..
Thanks for all nice messages.. I'm listening to music to try relax.. One the other hand if it sucks hard we're still going for coffee and I love coffee.. So we have that going.. I'm just going to try have fun.. Like with a friend..
Wish me luck friends!
Well I'm a guy, but I've seen you around recently and you seem like a cool dude.
We should play some CSGO later.
We should play some CSGO later.
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I will update the thread with the story of how it went later.. When i processed it..
Untill then I think this song sums it up well..
Untill then I think this song sums it up well..
Damn dude, sounds like things aren't going your way. Stay strong though, things might not be great for you at the moment but it won't last forever! Sooner or later, it'll go your way! ^^
I personally have social anxiety myself and find it really difficult to speak to people irl or even do something as simple as engage in eye contact. However, I've been improving lately and I hope you do too!
Just remember, the dawn right before the sun rises is the darkest. Things might not be in your favour, but that'll change soon. Dont give up c:.
Good luck in the future!
ง’ω’)ڡ ♡
it's 1am and ive barely had any rest today so none of this probably makes any grammatical sense so uhh sorry
ugh I apologise for that person coming along and posting that mean stuff, but as you can see, we're not all like that and they're gone now
I personally have social anxiety myself and find it really difficult to speak to people irl or even do something as simple as engage in eye contact. However, I've been improving lately and I hope you do too!
Just remember, the dawn right before the sun rises is the darkest. Things might not be in your favour, but that'll change soon. Dont give up c:.
Good luck in the future!
ง’ω’)ڡ ♡
it's 1am and ive barely had any rest today so none of this probably makes any grammatical sense so uhh sorry
ugh I apologise for that person coming along and posting that mean stuff, but as you can see, we're not all like that and they're gone now
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@Tae Thanks buddy, I cannot describe how much uplifting messages like this helps me in theese dark times..
It's currently 5AM and I'm dead tired.. Had to finish a homework before bed.. I will update tomorrow with a well detailed story since it is a pretty big step in my progress to getting better to actually go on a date..
For now I want to say to anyone else that faces social anxiety and / or same problems like me that I am here for you just like you guys on the forum has been here for me.. Lets all come together and stay strong together..
But I still have to remind myself that I took a fall today.. Once more..
Sleep well..
It's currently 5AM and I'm dead tired.. Had to finish a homework before bed.. I will update tomorrow with a well detailed story since it is a pretty big step in my progress to getting better to actually go on a date..
For now I want to say to anyone else that faces social anxiety and / or same problems like me that I am here for you just like you guys on the forum has been here for me.. Lets all come together and stay strong together..
But I still have to remind myself that I took a fall today.. Once more..
Sleep well..
I noticed your account is 10 days old... and you made this thread 1 day after creation
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@Kisses I had to vent so I created a thread on this forum.. And when I saw the positive support I continued posting.. The osu community is great and I like the people here a lot.. And i thank everyone once again for helping me..
Do you have a reason why you specifically chose the osu forums?T3ars wrote:
@Kisses I had to vent so I created a thread on this forum.. And when I saw the positive support I continued posting.. The osu community is great and I like the people here a lot.. And i thank everyone once again for helping me..
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@johnmedina999 I saw osu on a stream and decided to try it out.. I liked the game and went to the forums to see what kind of people are here and I felt comfortable.. I do not see it as an unusual thing to post a thread like this anonymously.. I've done it before when I have been very down and needed to vent about real life experiences.. The difference here is that people actually came genuine and working advice.. I do not know if it is considered a reason for choosing the osu forum..