I can take it like a man if I get silencedColdTooth wrote:
same tbh (homo)
*waiting to be silenced for 73 minutes*
I have discord anyways
(If it makes you feel any better I'm pretty gay) I'm just saying no homo jokes LOL
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I have discord anyways
(If it makes you feel any better I'm pretty gay) I'm just saying no homo jokes LOL
alright dude hmu any time im always free for a little erp bro (no homo)ColdTooth wrote:
sure i love being *REDACTED* (no homo)
no homo (no homo)
damn dude, that's homophobic. as a gay dude i feel insulted (no homo tho)ColdTooth wrote:
no homo (no homo)
ColdTooth, My bud flutter just hit me up in the dm's saying he wanted to be your boyfriend(no homo). He's a bit on the shy side so he asked me to do it for him. Just relaying a message to you. : )
Great derail, guys.
You talk to them like you talk to people.T3ars wrote:
My name is T3ars, also known as Ooze or The Silver Surfer.
Im new to the osu community... I want to learn how to talk to women.. Lets talk about it in this thread..
Ask yourself what sort of conversation you'd find interesting. Would you enjoy being in a conversation with someone who only talks about himself and doesn't really respond or listen?
Great. Don't be that person when talking to others and your chances of having them enjoy talking to you go up by a lot.
People are very similar in what they would like a conversational partner to be like (attentive, supportive, curious - but not prying, responsive, etc.)
Just be that person and you're set with most people, regardless of gender.
Remember that women are just people. They work like any other people would work as well. There's nothing special or hard to understand about it, just use your common sense. Maybe if it helps with your anxiety, just imagine talking to a guy when you're talking to a woman.
yo can you 2-3 stop with the no homo jokes, this isn't a place for them.
this thread's actually pretty great but of course someone had to derail it with their shitty sense of humor -_-
this thread's actually pretty great but of course someone had to derail it with their shitty sense of humor -_-
HEY SHOTA
SHUT THE FUCK UP
SHUT THE FUCK UP
This thread man, everyone assumed it was shitposting, then we all worked it out it wasn't and everyone came together to form OT's little project, seeing if we could help T3ars out, and I think everyone who contributed did an amazing job and the thread became the epitome of OT. The pinnacle. Everything OT COULD be if we always tried to be normal, decent human beings. Then everyone derailed the thread and it went back to normal OT.
unlucky.
unlucky.
Topic Starter
@Dawnsday It feels a lot better when someone says that it actually went good.. I've felt kinda down the last time because this problem have been with me for soo long and I've felt hopeless.. I live in Småland, are you familiar with it? Okay I will take the chance and try to speak with someone random tomorrow.. Good idea, thanks!
@Blitzfrog Thanks a lot for theese articles, they were a really great read!
@ColdTooth, @Shota, @- Flutter - I would really appreciate if we could stick to the topic, thanks!
@Railey2 I totally see what you're saying, I will try to keep in mind to when I can sustain a conversation to actually care about it. Great advice!
@Aomi Thanks for thinking this thread is great, prehaps later it could help someone more than just me..
I want to thank everyone that is supporting me, for quite some time now I have felt down, helpless.. Almost like there is no hope for me.. It has felt like a cloud of dark thoughts following me around everywhere I go but I'm starting to see that there is a light.. I am going to really do my best tomorrow while out to face my fears.. Thank you everyone who is positively contributing to helping me..
@Blitzfrog Thanks a lot for theese articles, they were a really great read!
@ColdTooth, @Shota, @- Flutter - I would really appreciate if we could stick to the topic, thanks!
@Railey2 I totally see what you're saying, I will try to keep in mind to when I can sustain a conversation to actually care about it. Great advice!
@Aomi Thanks for thinking this thread is great, prehaps later it could help someone more than just me..
I want to thank everyone that is supporting me, for quite some time now I have felt down, helpless.. Almost like there is no hope for me.. It has felt like a cloud of dark thoughts following me around everywhere I go but I'm starting to see that there is a light.. I am going to really do my best tomorrow while out to face my fears.. Thank you everyone who is positively contributing to helping me..
You're the rude one for thinking that you could just derail it. Go somewhere else if you want to shitpost, this is clearly not the thread for it. Retard.Shota wrote:
: ( How rude.Foxtrot wrote:
HEY SHOTA
SHUT THE FUCK UP
Foxtrot wrote:
You're the rude one for thinking that you could just derail it. Go somewhere else if you want to shitpost, this is clearly not the thread for it. Retard.
Plz at least learn the time to post trash and the time to not post trash. This is clearly not the thread for it if you would've just spent like 1 minute looking at the posts from T3ars
That being said, I found this nice place for you dude
http://www.social-anxiety-solutions.com
It's got one of those green locks from Google meaning it is quite trust worthy.
Check it out
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@Blitzfrog Thanks buddy, your resources are great. As for the green lock.. If you mean SSL it seems that it doesn't have that.. Once again thank you!
I mean thisT3ars wrote:
@Blitzfrog Thanks buddy, your resources are great. As for the green lock.. If you mean SSL it seems that it doesn't have that.. Once again thank you!
Loool, alright was joking anyways lol no homo and im taken lolShota wrote:
ColdTooth, My bud flutter just hit me up in the dm's saying he wanted to be your boyfriend(no homo). He's a bit on the shy side so he asked me to do it for him. Just relaying a message to you. : )
There's a reason why we're in off topic.T3ars wrote:
@ColdTooth, @Shota, @- Flutter - I would really appreciate if we could stick to the topic, thanks!
@Coldtooth being alone is a very scary thing; I know by experience. And not all of us like to whore ourselves out to some random guy on the street who needs his dick sucked. It would be appreciated by many if you go shitpost somewhere else.
Learn to adapt you dunceColdTooth wrote:
There's a reason why we're in off topic.T3ars wrote:
@ColdTooth, @Shota, @- Flutter - I would really appreciate if we could stick to the topic, thanks!
Off Topic does not mean there cannot be serious discussions.
Its just generally there are no serious discussions.
If you have nothing to post for OP, don't post, he is clearly not looking for memes and trash posts in this thread.
lol why is everyone so serious this is a weeb forum for a weeb game
who needs girls or boys when you can have yourself i am not autosexual but everyone sucks
Does not mean everyone is a weeb.- Flutter - wrote:
lol why is everyone so serious this is a weeb forum for a weeb game
sugercoater
This might be new to someone who is never serious, but it's not like anyone would lose anything by being serious. People can use their brains for other things than trolling and shitposting, and sometimes that's not half bad.- Flutter - wrote:
lol why is everyone so serious this is a weeb forum for a weeb game
About social anxiety: The best way to deal with it (as long as it's not the extreme clinical condition sort of social anxiety with panic attacks etc.) is by getting a job. Most people with social anxiety tend to be NEETs who just stay at home all day. If you're that, you might want to consider changes to your lifestyle. Even if you're not a NEET, just going out more can help a lot.
Topic Starter
@Railey2 I meet people on a daily basis, I go to school and it is not unusual for me to go out to parties.. I doubt I need to change my lifestyle but I will take it into consideration.
Okay everyone, today I guess is a big day as well.. The plan is that I am going out with my friends to a club later this evening and I am going to practice talking to girls there.. I have prepared myself now with really nice clothes, I am well-groomed and looking overall really good. I am still quite nervous because I'm going into this with kind of an hidden agenda like Madvillain mentioned was something I really should avoid but I guess it is okay in this situation because it is in the purpose of self improvement.
I will try write down the experience just as I did with the last one here on the forum so we can follow my progress..
Once again thank you all.. It means a lot.
Okay everyone, today I guess is a big day as well.. The plan is that I am going out with my friends to a club later this evening and I am going to practice talking to girls there.. I have prepared myself now with really nice clothes, I am well-groomed and looking overall really good. I am still quite nervous because I'm going into this with kind of an hidden agenda like Madvillain mentioned was something I really should avoid but I guess it is okay in this situation because it is in the purpose of self improvement.
I will try write down the experience just as I did with the last one here on the forum so we can follow my progress..
Once again thank you all.. It means a lot.
aww, i really hope it goes well!
and even if it doesn't; you'll learn from your mistakes.
there's always room for improvement!!
don't let it get to you too much. (:
and even if it doesn't; you'll learn from your mistakes.
there's always room for improvement!!
don't let it get to you too much. (:
^ Every step you take is good regardless if its a small one. So don't rush take it at your pace.Aomi wrote:
aww, i really hope it goes well!
and even if it doesn't; you'll learn from your mistakes.
there's always room for improvement!!
don't let it get to you too much. (:
I agree!Flannel wrote:
nice meme
Ok, I'm going to chime in here again. I know you are seeking out help, but I still stick with what I said before. This isn't the place to get it, it would be best if you seek out professional help. Taking professional help does not mean you are weak or insane, just others need some sort of push. People can guide you here yes, without a doubt they can. But, the best route would be to seek out a counselor that is in your budget and near you.
If that doesn't work, then I would advise finding a support group on another social media. Such as discord, skype, facebook. A place where it is much easier to keep in contact and share personal information on a deeper level.
As for all the others having a fucking cow over the jokes we posted. You take shit too personal and need to relax, the world isn't as bad you think it is. We were merely having fun. So grab whatever is stuck up there and pull it out.
If that doesn't work, then I would advise finding a support group on another social media. Such as discord, skype, facebook. A place where it is much easier to keep in contact and share personal information on a deeper level.
As for all the others having a fucking cow over the jokes we posted. You take shit too personal and need to relax, the world isn't as bad you think it is. We were merely having fun. So grab whatever is stuck up there and pull it out.
I'll say what I told someone else.
You're either a really, really good troll or serious.
If it's the latter, you probably weren't aware that Off-Topic is 100% memers. This place is literally feared. If you wanted any form of serious relationship advice, like Shota said above, this is not the place to get it.
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Also, take it from a girl herself, you need to upgrade your memes. That hackerman meme is really outdated.
also lmao @ the person saying not to shitpost here. This is off-topic.
You're either a really, really good troll or serious.
If it's the latter, you probably weren't aware that Off-Topic is 100% memers. This place is literally feared. If you wanted any form of serious relationship advice, like Shota said above, this is not the place to get it.
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Also, take it from a girl herself, you need to upgrade your memes. That hackerman meme is really outdated.
also lmao @ the person saying not to shitpost here. This is off-topic.
Maybe that's what you want this place to be like, but there's plenty of serious advice in this thread. No need to pretend otherwise. This isn't some secret club of high quality memers.Flannel wrote:
Off-Topic is 100% memers. This place is literally feared. If you wanted any form of serious relationship advice, like Shota said above, this is not the place to get it.
also lmao @ the person saying not to shitpost here. This is off-topic.
I never said there wasn't good advice in here, but there are plenty of other places to get even better advice. That was the point. I know that not everyone here is constantly silly, but that is what this place is known for.DaddyCoolVipper wrote:
Maybe that's what you want this place to be like, but there's plenty of serious advice in this thread. No need to pretend otherwise. This isn't some secret club of high quality memers.
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@OP, if you're not some godly troll, good luck though. I know what anxiety can do to a person and it's not something that's easy to overcome. Try to catch yourself in the moment of a "freeze" and be aware of it. Once you are, remind yourself to calm down and that the person in front of you is just that. A person.
Looking at how desperate he is, he has probably seeked help elsewhere before. If he is comfortable to seek for help here, we should reach out and help him. He even said we helped him gain strength. It's not always that a professional treatment is the best, sometimes people just need other's comfort, whether they know him or not, and it doesn't help that people are meme-ing in this thread, had we all memed at him, I doubt he would have found any comfort. He did say before that he would go and find a therapist if it really is that bad. Looking at how he is posting these, he really is trying. And when someone tries so hard, I can't take him like a joke. So if he really is trolling, it would make me quite sad. But there is also a chance he is serious, and even if in the end I looked like a Retard for believing in him, at least I won't be in the other scenario, having regreted not helping someone who was reaching out for help.Flannel wrote:
Off-Topic is 100% memers. This place is literally feared. If you wanted any form of serious relationship advice, like Shota said above, this is not the place to get it.
also lmao @ the person saying not to shitpost here. This is off-topic.
i fell asleep halfway through this post, not gonna lieBlitzfrog wrote:
Looking at how desperate he is, he has probably seeked help elsewhere before. If he is comfortable to seek for help here, we should reach out and help him. He even said we helped him gain strength. It's not always that a professional treatment is the best, sometimes people just need other's comfort, whether they know him or not, and it doesn't help that people are meme-ing in this thread, had we all memed at him, I doubt he would have found any comfort. He did say before that he would go and find a therapist if it really is that bad. Looking at how he is posting these, he really is trying. And when someone tries so hard, I can't take him like a joke. So if he really is trolling, it would make me quite sad. But there is also a chance he is serious, and even if in the end I looked like a Retard for believing in him, at least I won't be in the other scenario, having regreted not helping someone who was reaching out for help.Flannel wrote:
Off-Topic is 100% memers. This place is literally feared. If you wanted any form of serious relationship advice, like Shota said above, this is not the place to get it.
also lmao @ the person saying not to shitpost here. This is off-topic.
ok im kidding, sorta. already said my piece of seriousness so
Depending on where you are from seeking Professional or Specialist help can be a hit or miss sadly.Shota wrote:
Ok, I'm going to chime in here again. I know you are seeking out help, but I still stick with what I said before. This isn't the place to get it, it would be best if you seek out professional help.
You two (Shota and Flannel) have barely been here and you talk as if you guys have been visiting for years lol. If OT is such a "spooky" place, then why wasn't his thread derailed right away, unlike the actual shit threads? Hard question, I know. Just leave this thread alone if this goes against whatever idea you guys have about OT because it's obviously bothering both of you.
Source: someone who has been visiting this fucking forum almost 6 years
Anyway, we should let OP give us an update.
Source: someone who has been visiting this fucking forum almost 6 years
Anyway, we should let OP give us an update.
You need to chill out. I don't think you actually read some of my replies. I gave genuine advice. Tone it down a notch, would ya? It still is pretty funny to ask shitposters not to shitpost. Nice meme, dude. Also you've been here 5 years.Foxtrot wrote:
You two (Shota and Flannel) have barely been here and you talk as if you guys have been visiting for years lol. If OT is such a "spooky" place, then why wasn't his thread derailed right away, unlike the actual shit threads? Hard question, I know. Just leave this thread alone if this goes against whatever idea you guys have about OT because it's obviously bothering both of you.
Source: someone who has been visiting this fucking forum almost 6 years
Anyway, we should let OP give us an update.
No hard feelings n' all but I see you constantly coming at me. Just chill out a lil'.
Funny how you called me rude yet all you have done was act high and mighty. As well be rude towards me, yet I haven't insulted you once. All I did was joke around on a OT thread. Funny how things work huh? Plus I'm giving real advice, a forum on a website is not good enough. A server/ chatting group on an instant messaging service would be much better and it would feel by far more personal. Plus you wouldn't have to deal with random crap posters. So get off your high horse, being here for 5 years doesn't mean anything. Nor does anyone care, nor did anyone ask you in the first place.Foxtrot wrote:
You two (Shota and Flannel) have barely been here and you talk as if you guys have been visiting for years lol. If OT is such a "spooky" place, then why wasn't his thread derailed right away, unlike the actual shit threads? Hard question, I know. Just leave this thread alone if this goes against whatever idea you guys have about OT because it's obviously bothering both of you.
Source: someone who has been visiting this fucking forum almost 6 years
Anyway, we should let OP give us an update.
If you want to toss numbers I was on osu for 6 years.