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Khelly vs Railey

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Yuudachi-kun

Railey2 wrote:

Khelly wrote:

Railey you can have a chatlog if you want to see it
maybe you should keep that, seems kinda too private for me to look into it. It's up to you though, just sayin.
http://pastebin.com/G3hqzaMu

I'll take your psycho analysis when it's about something I like
Aomi

Khelly wrote:

Fuck you I want Nick back
nick rhymes with dick
now i know why you like him so much
Yuudachi-kun
Kisses change title to "Khelly is sad about Yuudachi"
Aomi
khelly has emotions other than lust
im impressed
Yuudachi-kun
None of you have seen me if I like you because I hardly like any of you
Aomi
youre amusing
KatouMegumi
hey khelly, hey railey.
get married, you both
Yuudachi-kun
I miss Yuudachi Kai
KatouMegumi

Khelly wrote:

I miss Yuudachi Kai
apparently i have yuudachi kai
Aomi

Khelly wrote:

I miss Yuudachi Kai
thats cute
Yuudachi-kun

Fizzn wrote:

Khelly wrote:

I miss Yuudachi Kai
apparently i have yuudachi kai
Give it to me I'll kill you
Yuudachi-kun
Like holy shit on that avatar of Yuudachi he has now I used to be the Shigure on the right. i looked at the source image again recently and it turns out THEYRE HOLDING HANDS


This made me cry, obviously
KatouMegumi

Khelly wrote:

Give it to me I'll kill you
Go ahead, hack my dmm account, if you'll ever find if
Yuudachi-kun
This is why I changed to Amatsukaze thus Railey giving me the "nice new av" post
KatouMegumi

Khelly wrote:

This is why I changed to Amatsukaze thus Railey giving me the "nice new av" post
you stole my ex-waifu
Yuudachi-kun
Maybe I'll be Shigure soon again when I can pick it without reminding me of Nick


Aaaaa
Aomi
crybaby khelly
Railey2
Your confrontation-style is a bit accusatory, so he's getting defensive because of that instead of having an open conversation with you. You can see that because he never once talked about how he makes you feel, but only looked at himself to justify his actions. Defensive behavior, most likely prompted by your style of confrontation.

In general, he seems to completely disregard that other people may have different expectations or needs than himself, which is also why he doesn't understand why not talking for two days is a problem for you. Cause it's not a problem for him. As long as he doesn't get that into his head, relationships will be very hard with him.

Additionally, he seems to have a lot of other shit going on at the time and wants to be left alone because talking takes up his energy, which he seems to need for other things at the time (like dealing with whatever life throws at him). This is cutting away at his already limited ability to emphasize even further.

On the flip-side, you might legitimately be too "clingy", and on the fence too fast when you don't get an unusually high amount of attention. I don't know how often you talked and for how long, but not talking for a day usually isn't a big deal. Sometimes, people need breaks and that is ok too.

Also, do you know whats going on with him? You didn't ask how he felt either.

Overall, that's a very unfortunate combination. Him with a very low need for sociability, you with a (as it seems) significantly higher need. Judging from this pastebin, both of you don't seem to really be considerate of the other person, which makes resolving issues like that and finding a compromise near impossible.
Yuudachi-kun
I attempted to try when he said he was away for the day at, apparently, his mum's birthday. Insatantly when I heard that everything went away and I felt good again. I proceeded to ask him if he enjoyed it and what did he do because I could talk about him. At least I think that's being more considerate I don't fucking know.


He never responded and 5 or so hours later I was fed up
AutoMedic
jesus christ wow khelly's experience kinda reminds me of something about a year ago damn
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