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Wojjan


No, you're not going crazy. You just have a fetish. Many people have this condition, where they associate arousal when they see a particular object or act. A fetish can come in different forms, and it can be over a body part, an object, a feeling or an action. As long as it's properly controlled, it's considered normal.

A fetish isn't harmful, but if gets out of hand, it can be trouble. It'll drive you and your sex life. Soon, it will also drive away the people close to you. You don't have to deal with a fetish all your life. If you think it's about time to get rid of it, then here are a few effective ways to do it.

When Does A Fetish Becomes Dangerous?
Having a fetish nowadays is considered typical, so many think there's no reason to get rid of it. Some even think it adds spice to their sex life. (For more information visit MonsterGuide and learn how to spice up a relationship) Even so, there are certain cases when the fetish inhibits the person so much that keeping it becomes a serious and embarrassing condition, more than it gives sexual gratification. It's important to know whether your fetish dilemma is grave or just normal before you start trying to shake it off.

Here are a few signs of a dangerous fetish that you have to get rid of.
  1. It's all you ever think about. It makes you lose your concentration, and you start performing poorly at work or school because of it.
  2. It comes up at random moments. Even when you're not thinking about anything arousing, it comes to your mind. For example, you see a pair of ladies shoes, which then leads you to thinking about your foot fetish.
  3. It's ruining your relationship. You're starting to drive your romantic partner crazy because of it, leading to arguments, misunderstandings and awkwardness during sex. For example, you've got a fetish for women who wears boots, so whenever you and your girlfriend or wife goes to bed, you urge her to wear a pair, even if she hates it.
  4. It's affecting you financially. You find front women posing on magazine covers (even those in teen magazines) arousing, so every time you see one, you'll immediately buy it.
  5. It's fucking gross.
f you experience one or two of these symptoms, then you've got to find a way to get rid of your fetish. Here are some ways how.

Tame your Mind
Nothing fuels a fetish worse than always keeping it in mind. You retain and stay attracted to a fetish because you constantly think about it. Even if it's not there in front of you, as long as it lingers in your brain, you'll be continuously drawn to it.The first step to shake off your fetish is to keep it from going to your head. Control your thoughts and don't think about it anymore. The more you dwell on it, even if you don't acually see it, the more difficult it'll be to shoo away. Tame your mind to stay away from those fetish thoughts. When you master proper mind control, you'll be able to say goodbye to that fetish dilemma.

Confide in Someone
No matter how confident or brave a person is, dealing with a fetish is never an easy experience. Even admitting out loud that you have a fetish (especially if it's a perverted kind) can be embarrassing. You have to admit that you can't get rid of this habit all by yourself. You need to find someone you can trust to draw your strength from.

Confide your fetish dilemma to someone close to you. It can be your sibling, your parents or your best friend. The person should be someone you trust, and someone who can keep a secret. Talk about your strange dilemma with him. If that person really cares for you, he or she will listen and will not judge you. You can also ask for some sound advice from him or her.

If you're in a relationship, your partner must be one of the few people who knows about your strange arousal. Discuss the dilemma between the two of you. One way or the other, it probably affects him or her, physically, mentally and sexually. Talk about what makes you feel comfortable and what doesn't and hash out ways on how you can overcome this problem together. Knowing you've got his or her support will inspire you to get rid of and stay away from the fetish.
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arien666
Kitsunemimi
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Topic Starter
Wojjan

Wojjan wrote:

It's fucking gross.
Kitsunemimi

Wojjan wrote:

Wojjan wrote:

It's fucking gross.
lol
Zekira
arien666

Zekira wrote:

Is that BG of 'Hataraku20000'? < JK
Faust
Best thread I've seen today.
Powerdrone
I only just got the joke. :|
Arusha Shuna

arken1015 wrote:

Is that BG of 'Hataraku20000'? < JK
wh?
arien666

Arusha Shuna wrote:

arken1015 wrote:

Is that BG of 'Hataraku20000'? < JK
wh?
Hataraku2000 with x1.25 speed :3
[But just kidding, Hataraku20000 doesn't exist now]

Hataraku2000
Natteke
Hi
Zekira
http://osu.ppy.sh/s/14151 . If you can pass Oni on this, I can officially call you a god on whatever mode you cleared this in (CtB doesn't count since I found out this is still crapeasy on CtB)
TKiller
You can't download graveyarded maps, sorry!
Zekira
...wait what the crap?
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