when you alternate you will be able to feel your inner man muscles growbut be warned, once you stop alternating she will die a cruel, painful death
and they will blossom into a beautiful kawaii loli
only then can you become a true osu! god
if you're going to start, please be prepared to face the repercussions of your actions
on a more srs note: Don't take advice from low ranking players who try to make is sound like they know everything. If something feels more comfortable to do, it's the better way for you to play. There is no best way to play for everyone.