cr0w wrote:
What’s your favorite strategy for avoiding tough situations?
ok i cooould write a lot for this, but tldr,
Nuuskamuikkunen wrote:
Overthinking it of course
^ this would suffice, i think
cr0w wrote:
Who’s the most influential person in your life and why?
i have no idea. excluding myself, arguably the most consequence will be likeliest to come from the people that raise you at your earliest-rememberable years or accompany you for the longest amount of time, OR are the people that embrace and understand and guide you most through both the most mundane times as well as the most defining or significantly complicated crucial periods of your life
my parents have raised me in ways that have enabled/nurtured/contextualized a very complicated set of different characteristics, both moderately benign/functional and severely maladaptive/compensatory. they are complicated people who do complicated and often times very damaging things just as much as they may preserve/sustain you
specific friends have been enriching sources of my introspection after understanding my relationships with them and have been causes for very deeply-set impressions of how i interact with people and which people i can feasibly interact with, among many many other subjects to think about
there are artists and musicians and game developers who create works that deeply characterize and nurture pr grant catharsis to specific parts of humanity i want to see more of-- their fandoms often being a shaping factor in who i am and how i view people as well
i don't think i can narrow down a person in this question. it may need to be more specific, or different questions need to be asked in order better characterize the many ways people have significantly influenced me
