Mr Color wrote:
Tuxdude143 wrote:
I think a lot of people wish they were in a relasionship.
When you haven't ever been in one, it's a bit of a fantasy, but actually giving the idea some thought lets you see that it really isn't all peaches and gravy. Sure, I imagine that it must be nice to love and feel loved, but you gotta deal with all kinds of crap that you don't have to deal with when you're single. Also, many people are afraid of rejection, so that's a bit of a double-edged sword right there.
Actually wondering if you really want it is quite interesting.
I personally have never been in one (as I said on like, page two or three), and even then, I don't really think I'd even want one, at least not at the moment. I myself am one of those types of people who truly fear rejection, and it effects pretty much almost everything: relationships, friends, posting on new forums, even buying certain items at stores sometimes :< Also, thanks to my family, I feel like I'm just a useless piece of garbage who doesn't really DESERVE love or anything like that, which is kinda why I sometimes get shocked by random acts of kindness.
Though, even then, there are still people who I would go out of my way to try to be in a relationship with, ignoring my fear of rejection and everything, but unfortunately they're either too far away or already in a relationship. While it makes me sad, I still feel happy for them and wish them luck and hope they stay happy with who they're with.
aaaaand now I actually feel sad ;-;