TL;DR - 3D people are just as important as 2D people
Go outdoors and meet people, etc

Almaz wrote:

TL;DR - 3D people are just as important as 2D people
Go outdoors and meet people, etc

Ewww

Just go up to random people and creep them out when they want nothing to donwith you good idea

Railey2 wrote:

Do yourself a favor and give people IRL a chance. Try to get to know them like you try to get to know people online. Online or offline, people are just people.
Or don't do that, that's fine by me too. But at least stop making poor excuses for yourself, you can do better than that.

just saying, i really do value your opinion and it's something more to think about, more things to try later. even if you or someone else tells me i'm a terrible example of a person for stuff like this, telling me that still helps me a lot. i know i'm far from being perfect and i want to take in as much as i can so that i can improve myself later on.

i did 4 years of university and i've been out in the real world for about a year and a half, meeting a ton of people through school and work. and the first thing i've found is that not a single person in that time has really met what i look for in a person. i'm not saying that anyone i've met online has either because everyone has some kind of problems (whether they share them or not), but they're generally more approachable and we already have one big thing in common because we met each other in a place like this.

after thinking about it for a bit, i would say the difference between meeting people in real life vs online is that when i meet people in real life, i meet them because i have to, and i see the things i don't like first. when i meet people online, i meet them by choice because i see the things we have in common first. later on i might find that i like a person in real life but they wouldn't get that far because i disliked them at first and won't take a second chance to get closer to them. online, typically i find things i don't like in people afterwards, but i keep giving them chances because we clicked initially. i don't know if this is a good comparison or not.

Khelly wrote:

Almaz wrote:

TL;DR - 3D people are just as important as 2D people
Go outdoors and meet people, etc

Ewww

I was only summarizing what Railey said ;-;

Faust wrote:

I think Khelly is a good name for a female, for what it's worth.

the only khelly i know is a disgusting fat girl

FuZ wrote:

Faust wrote:

I think Khelly is a good name for a female, for what it's worth.

the only khelly i know is a disgusting fat girl

Hi

Almaz wrote:

Khelly wrote:

quote="Almaz"]TL;DR - 3D people are just as important as 2D people
Go outdoors and meet people, etc

Ewww[/quote

I was only summarizing what Railey said ;-;

Now explain how to do it in a way that doesn't make people run away from you because they have no business with you if they don't know you

Khelly wrote:

FuZ wrote:

the only khelly i know is a disgusting fat girl

Hi

irl + youre matthew

My name isn't matthew

first off

Railey2 wrote:

Do yourself a favor and give people IRL a chance. Try to get to know them like you try to get to know people online. Online or offline, people are just people.
Or don't do that, that's fine by me too. But at least stop making poor excuses for yourself, you can do better than that.

holy bonkers actual good advice in off-topic i did not expect this

next

Catgirl wrote:

and the first thing i've found is that not a single person in that time has really met what i look for in a person. i'm not saying that anyone i've met online has either because everyone has some kind of problems (whether they share them or not), but they're generally more approachable and we already have one big thing in common because we met each other in a place like this.

now i've been at uni too and i don't know your story but most people I hung out with at uni were friendly people even if we didn't share the same interests. you're not in high school anymore, so you should be in an environment where the majority of the people you work with aren't acting like dicks. There's very little chance you haven't met anyone who shares common interests with you, maybe a lot of people did and never told you, or maybe you simply haven't gotten to know them well enough.

Catgirl wrote:

i would say the difference between meeting people in real life vs online is that when i meet people in real life, i meet them because i have to, and i see the things i don't like first. when i meet people online, i meet them by choice because i see the things we have in common first.

well this just sounds like you don't want to meet people really, unless there's some kind of layer of anonymity (like a username) which I can respect, but i'm pretty sure you not clicking with people irl is mostly on you. it really shouldn't matter if the people you meet don't share your interests, chances are they're also very interesting people with incredible stories to tell, so if you don't click immediately by some common hobby, interest yourself in theirs instead. It's not like people online are magically more drawn to each other or whatever the fuck. If anything I'm a lot more aggressive and opinionated online than irl where i mostly don't give half a shit about anything.

bottom line; if you want friends in your daily life, you gotta work for it. potentially anyone can be your friend if you are willing to lend them some interest and put efforts in making a friendship develop.

or you could just become some sour fuck like me who at 22 years old goes around yelling at people on the internet, but unless you're fine with the prospect of spending most if not the rest of your life alone I wouldn't recommend it.

Khelly wrote:

My name isn't matthew

ok andrew

lol don't u mean Tyler, Fuz

also you're shittu if you don't even give ppl irl a chance
like literally you're missing out on good opportunities tbh

Ya'll need to chill out and look at some breasts.

Or get some real ones ?

Jeez, I wish.

I do think about it, but alas I wanna focus on my career.
If some cute girl enters my life one way or another, sure.

Faust wrote:

Ya'll need to chill out and look at some breasts.

way ahead of you buddy

dam got seriously outplayed here

Mr Color wrote:

Faust wrote:

Ya'll need to chill out and look at some breasts.

way ahead of you buddy

Me too, I was already looking down

Hika wrote:

also you're shittu if you don't even give ppl irl a chance
like literally you're missing out on good opportunities tbh

You're also missing out on all the ways hey can hurt and fuck you over too

if that's likely to stop you, maybe you should consider staying on your own

It is some good reasons

Hypothetically, I guess if you were strongly mentally then perhaps talking to people irl wouldn't be so bad

and you probably wouldn't spend as much time on the internet, too.

What made you crawl out of your hole here again

I assume you got killed in a france attack

Hika wrote:

Hypothetically, I guess if you were strongly mentally then perhaps talking to people irl wouldn't be so bad

Mr Color wrote:

and you probably wouldn't spend as much time on the internet, too.

You guys are kind of giving him shit for things we've all done though

I still wanna name chane to vcr

Mr Color wrote:

long post

thanks mr color~

i guess i'm just always conflicted and never really know what i want. everything in my life has gone poorly so i guess i just avoid people thinking they would make it even worse. at the same time i'm so used to being by myself that i'm too unmotivated to make any kind of change. sometimes i like being alone, sometimes i hate it, so i just kinda stay in limbo in the middle too afraid to do anything with my life.

Khelly wrote:

I still wanna name chane to vcr

No

Ok vhs-chan

are you implying something about inserting the VHS in the VCR?

l-lewd...

Catgirl wrote:

are you implying something about inserting the VHS in the VCR?

l-lewd...

HOLY SHIT YOU ACTUALLY FIGURED IT OUT

omg Catgril is a genius

Khelly wrote:

Catgirl wrote:

are you implying something about inserting the VHS in the VCR?

l-lewd...

HOLY SHIT YOU ACTUALLY FIGURED IT OUT

yeah ofc he's 22

90s basic knowledge right there

Khelly wrote:

Catgirl wrote:

are you implying something about inserting the VHS in the VCR?
l-lewd...

HOLY SHIT YOU ACTUALLY FIGURED IT OUT

yeah my mom's the strange type of person who still uses a VCR to record TV shows because she lives in the past and won't learn any new technology... it's 2016 get with the program (or just don't watch TV)

I want dulcet to insert her big vhs into my vcr hole

or any of you fuckers

Khelly wrote:

I want dulcet to insert her big vhs into my vcr hole
[spoiler]or any of you fuckers[/spoiler]

and you can record whatever you want when it's in your vcr hole

mmmmm 6 hours of playback~

edit: wait do spoiler tags not work on new forums site? i didn't even see there was a spoiler and now it's just showing a broken tag for me

Living the dream right there

Hey catfirl you want some fuck

u post shit ur gettin shit m8

Khelly wrote:

Living the dream right there
Hey catfirl you want some fuck

yeah sure just wait until i get home, i got some shows i want to watch tonight but we can record them and watch later :^)