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Jordan wrote:

99% of them are total crap and no one feels real love for the other. From my experience online relationships give only the illusion of love.
How are you so sure about that? Did you survey everyone who's on LDRs?

I'm sorry if I'm too positive with this (all of my past relationships failed mind you) but just because one thing doesn't work out for you doesn't mean it won't as well for everyone else. You obviously have no idea how relationships works then.

Imo online relationships are for emotionally strong people only, don't even think of trying if you can't handle extreme stuff like this. Sure you can talk crap about people in LDRs but in the end of the day if it works out, it works out. I don't know why most of you are being so negative about it when its just the same as being in a relationship in real life, except the distance.
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Seph wrote:

online relationships are for emotionally strong people only, don't even think of trying if you can't handle extreme stuff like this. Sure you can talk crap about people in LDRs but in the end of the day if it works out, it works out. I don't know why most of you are being so negative about it when its just the same as being in a relationship in real life, except the distance.
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Jordan wrote:

99% of them are total crap and no one feels real love for the other. From my experience online relationships give only the illusion of love.
this man knows what he is talkin #Respect
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my current relationship is an online one, we talk to eachother a lot and like someone else said it is NOT for emotionally weak people. It takes a lot of work but in the end it really is worth it to be honest, but hey its not for everyone.
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Better off being in a real relationship, an online one is very limited. But love comes unexpectedly so not like it can be stopped.
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i don't get the butthurt for all relationships

As Lolicore said, love comes unexpectedly. and if there is love, the person will be happy until love ends. Maybe he/she will suffer but hey, since when suffering is bad? Just learn from your mistakes and go on.
As i said before, this is not that much different for irl relationships.

Just don't call all of online relationships as fake relationships (which also happens in irl ones) just because it was a bad experience for you
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Well apparently you can't remove the "it went bad for me so it will as well for everybody else" mentality from them :p
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HASHTAGBITTERALERT

but yeah try and try until you succeed, right?
if you didn't get it the first try why're you stopping there? that just shows how weak of a person you are
when it didn't go right before then do better at the next, who knows you might get what you've always wanted if you keep on moving
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dNextGen wrote:

Jordan wrote:

99% of them are total crap and no one feels real love for the other. From my experience online relationships give only the illusion of love.
this man knows what he is talkin #Respect
#realtalk
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UnderminE wrote:

boat wrote:

osu! is more like a dating service socializing general.
Yeah, there are not that much people left who actually play osu! without actually talking to anyone.
This awesome guy Had not talked to a single soul since he started playing a year back or so and he's around rank 4k, last week I sent him a PM since he lived "nearby" and now WE'RE BFFS!
Why didn't he? He has no interests in anime/otaku culture or even songs similar to it. Only playing western maps lul.

I also know a few more just here in Sweden who have zero contact with others. Of course they aren't in majority, but still. :)

My point? There are people who play without talking to others.



My opinion on the whole matter: Try it out if you get the chance. It won't kill you and if you don't have anything better to do (which I know you don't, loser! :D ), why not give it a try? Chances are you'll have fun and pass your dead time faster. You might get hurt in the end but even so, I think it's worth it. You'll get over it with time no matter what the situation (unless severely extreme yandere shit is going on in your messed up little brain).

Pros: Fun
Pass dead time
Experience
A strong relationship no matter how you look at it

Cons: Might end up sad for a while


Go for it! 8-)
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Jordan wrote:

99% of them are total crap and no one feels real love for the other. From my experience online relationships give only the illusion of love.
Since you're so certain of what love actually is, care to explain it for us in detail? What is love? What kind of love is real?

I'm neither for nor against ldrs, but this is silly.
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boat wrote:

Jordan wrote:

99% of them are total crap and no one feels real love for the other. From my experience online relationships give only the illusion of love.
What is love?
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boat wrote:

Jordan wrote:

99% of them are total crap and no one feels real love for the other. From my experience online relationships give only the illusion of love.
Since you're so certain of what love actually is, care to explain it for us in detail? What is love? What kind of love is real?

I'm neither for nor against ldrs, but this is silly.
love is when there are a lot of hearts surrounding you and your aura is pink or something
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boat wrote:

Jordan wrote:

99% of them are total crap and no one feels real love for the other. From my experience online relationships give only the illusion of love.
Since you're so certain of what love actually is, care to explain it for us in detail? What is love? What kind of love is real?

I'm neither for nor against ldrs, but this is silly.
I can't explain what love is with words but there is so much difference, from my experience, (my experience, so THAT might be different for you) between falling in love IRL (even with it being unrequited) and having an online relationship. + In most distance relationships, specially if one lives in a different country than the other they know they most likely won't ever meet and, imo, that totally ruins the meaning of a "love relationship". imo.
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Jordan wrote:

imo
That's better.
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