Maybe when y'all learn to behave yourselves I would able to talk here about what I want. More than half of you consider insulting another person, directly or indirectly, funny. It isn't at all. So, have fun. I'm done here.
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edit: (also try not to take stuff to heart, is just a forum ;-;, stay safe brudda)
this may come off as douchy but i mean people come and go every once in a while how would you leaving impact the forum exactly
need I remind you that you've made at least a handful of posts detailing your fear of black men, how you see them as sexually superior and are worried about what you see as an increasing number of white women dating/having sex with themWinnyace wrote:
I would able to talk here about what I want
I wish I had taken a screenshot of one of the posts you made recently that seems to have been deleted after I (and presumably others) reported it for being actually racist
it's probably safe to assume that this is, in part, something you want to talk about, and if this is the case, you not posting is probably a good idea
Linux bad
Whatxch00F wrote:
need I remind you that you've made at least a handful of posts detailing your fear of black men, how you see them as sexually superior and are worried about what you see as an increasing number of white women dating/having sex with themWinnyace wrote:
I would able to talk here about what I want
I wish I had taken a screenshot of one of the posts you made recently that seems to have been deleted after I (and presumably others) reported it for being actually racist
it's probably safe to assume that this is, in part, something you want to talk about, and if this is the case, you not posting is probably a good idea
community/forums/posts/9553165ShinRun wrote:
Whatxch00F wrote:
need I remind you that you've made at least a handful of posts detailing your fear of black men, how you see them as sexually superior and are worried about what you see as an increasing number of white women dating/having sex with themWinnyace wrote:
I would able to talk here about what I want
I wish I had taken a screenshot of one of the posts you made recently that seems to have been deleted after I (and presumably others) reported it for being actually racist
it's probably safe to assume that this is, in part, something you want to talk about, and if this is the case, you not posting is probably a good idea
this isn't the only post he's made like this either, the one I mentioned that was actually racist was some dumb joke about black people stealing white women or something along those lines
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Can you try to rephrase it because I don't remember saying anything racist. To avoid you getting muted and whatnot, I would like if you would DM it to me in private. I've already added you.xch00F wrote:
need I remind you that you've made at least a handful of posts detailing your fear of black men, how you see them as sexually superior and are worried about what you see as an increasing number of white women dating/having sex with themWinnyace wrote:
I would able to talk here about what I want
I wish I had taken a screenshot of one of the posts you made recently that seems to have been deleted after I (and presumably others) reported it for being actually racist
it's probably safe to assume that this is, in part, something you want to talk about, and if this is the case, you not posting is probably a good idea
are you worried about me being muted for my sake or are you worried about this topic being talked about like this for your sakeWinnyace wrote:
Can you try to rephrase it because I don't remember saying anything racist. To avoid you getting muted and whatnot, I would like if you would DM it to me in private. I've already added you.xch00F wrote:
need I remind you that you've made at least a handful of posts detailing your fear of black men, how you see them as sexually superior and are worried about what you see as an increasing number of white women dating/having sex with themWinnyace wrote:
I would able to talk here about what I want
I wish I had taken a screenshot of one of the posts you made recently that seems to have been deleted after I (and presumably others) reported it for being actually racist
it's probably safe to assume that this is, in part, something you want to talk about, and if this is the case, you not posting is probably a good idea
community/forums/topics/1934843?n=19
community/forums/topics/1928712?n=24
dunno what else to say bro these posts are weird as fuck and the one that I reported was definitely deleted
I have dms disabled and will not be opening them, sorry
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Well, both, to be honest with you.xch00F wrote:
are you worried about me being muted for my sake or are you worried about this topic being talked about like this for your sakeWinnyace wrote:
Can you try to rephrase it because I don't remember saying anything racist. To avoid you getting muted and whatnot, I would like if you would DM it to me in private. I've already added you.xch00F wrote:
need I remind you that you've made at least a handful of posts detailing your fear of black men, how you see them as sexually superior and are worried about what you see as an increasing number of white women dating/having sex with themWinnyace wrote:
I would able to talk here about what I want
I wish I had taken a screenshot of one of the posts you made recently that seems to have been deleted after I (and presumably others) reported it for being actually racist
it's probably safe to assume that this is, in part, something you want to talk about, and if this is the case, you not posting is probably a good idea
community/forums/topics/1934843?n=19
community/forums/topics/1928712?n=24
dunno what else to say bro these posts are weird as fuck and the one that I reported was definitely deleted
I have dms disabled and will not be opening them, sorry
The posts you've posted can paint as a racist. That's fair enough. First one is likely a joke, because it has no punctuation all the way through and I do this as a way to signal that I'm not serious, but I can see how that can be considered racist.
The second one is me stating an insecurity I have. It is a racist insecurity? Well, yes. Is it dumb? I hope so. I am not sure if I've expressed it before, but pornography is sort of my only way to get out my sexual energy. I don't have a girlfriend, I have never had one, and I'm struggling at the moment to believe that I will get one, considering how it seems people view me here and elsewhere. It's dumb but it is something I do feel from time to time.
I've asked you to please rephrase it, so I can explain it and learn from it. I understand being unwilling to open DMs. That's fine, but I don't know what else I can tell you regarding that reported comment. I didn't get silenced for it from what I can see in on my profile and I don't remember any GMT coming in DMs to tell me that I've misbehaved. I guess it was up only for a short time before I realized that I'm a hothead and I should try to calm down instead of engaging when I'm like this. By any chance, is this the comment in question?
tbh the comment you posted is worth silenceWinnyace wrote:
Well, both, to be honest with you.xch00F wrote:
are you worried about me being muted for my sake or are you worried about this topic being talked about like this for your sakeWinnyace wrote:
Can you try to rephrase it because I don't remember saying anything racist. To avoid you getting muted and whatnot, I would like if you would DM it to me in private. I've already added you.xch00F wrote:
need I remind you that you've made at least a handful of posts detailing your fear of black men, how you see them as sexually superior and are worried about what you see as an increasing number of white women dating/having sex with themWinnyace wrote:
I would able to talk here about what I want
I wish I had taken a screenshot of one of the posts you made recently that seems to have been deleted after I (and presumably others) reported it for being actually racist
it's probably safe to assume that this is, in part, something you want to talk about, and if this is the case, you not posting is probably a good idea
community/forums/topics/1934843?n=19
community/forums/topics/1928712?n=24
dunno what else to say bro these posts are weird as fuck and the one that I reported was definitely deleted
I have dms disabled and will not be opening them, sorry
The posts you've posted can paint as a racist. That's fair enough. First one is likely a joke, because it has no punctuation all the way through and I do this as a way to signal that I'm not serious, but I can see how that can be considered racist.
The second one is me stating an insecurity I have. It is a racist insecurity? Well, yes. Is it dumb? I hope so. I am not sure if I've expressed it before, but pornography is sort of my only way to get out my sexual energy. I don't have a girlfriend, I have never had one, and I'm struggling at the moment to believe that I will get one, considering how it seems people view me here and elsewhere. It's dumb but it is something I do feel from time to time.
I've asked you to please rephrase it, so I can explain it and learn from it. I understand being unwilling to open DMs. That's fine, but I don't know what else I can tell you regarding that reported comment. I didn't get silenced for it from what I can see in on my profile and I don't remember any GMT coming in DMs to tell me that I've misbehaved. I guess it was up only for a short time before I realized that I'm a hothead and I should try to calm down instead of engaging when I'm like this. By any chance, is this the comment in question?
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Again, what is this comment? I genuinely don't remember saying something like that and I would like to see it for myself so I can learn from it.Corne2Plum3 wrote:
tbh the comment you posted is worth silence
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Like, I'm not denying what you are saying, but please show me what I said or explain it or something, so I can learn from it.
This https://i.ibb.co/nRgZ9LZ/image.pngWinnyace wrote:
Again, what is this comment? I genuinely don't remember saying something like that and I would like to see it for myself so I can learn from it.Corne2Plum3 wrote:
tbh the comment you posted is worth silence
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Alright. Thank you. Yes, that's me being a hothead when I first saw what Poly said to my thread. I apologize for it.Corne2Plum3 wrote:
This https://i.ibb.co/nRgZ9LZ/image.pngWinnyace wrote:
Again, what is this comment? I genuinely don't remember saying something like that and I would like to see it for myself so I can learn from it.Corne2Plum3 wrote:
tbh the comment you posted is worth silence
I've sent Blushing the screenshot and told him this:
Link that I've sent to Blushing.
I deleted that comment myself because I realized that's not something I should say. I was angry, but that's not an excuse for it. I'm sorry for saying that. I don't mean it for real.
no, tho that is definitely a spicy commentWinnyace wrote:
By any chance, is this the comment in question?
I generally do not report posts that I find to be personally offensive because even tho this is an incredibly shitty comment you'd find on /b/ it's coming from a place of anger and frustration and I don't begrudge people for those emotions
I did report the racist comment though, because it was racist
and I probably don't need to say this but I'm going to anyway, if corne (or any gmt seeing this thread) has access to the deleted post that I'm talking about, do not post it in the thread lmao. it's different than if I were to have posted it and is basically an admission of abuse of power
And well, basically someone to go f*ck themselves is obviously just straight up insulting for nothing. Language is inappropriate of course but really, you can reply better (although I don't have the context for this one but this sentence should never be used anyways)
And for hoping someone to die, it's just a big no-no. Wishing the death of someone is really inappropriate in any circumstance, and even if it's for joking, it's just not funny to maigh about the death of someone, and we won't tolerate such behavior anywhere on this forum (and basically we delete+ silence on that)
So at any circumstances you can reply less aggressive, keep being civil and avoid behaviour like this
And for hoping someone to die, it's just a big no-no. Wishing the death of someone is really inappropriate in any circumstance, and even if it's for joking, it's just not funny to maigh about the death of someone, and we won't tolerate such behavior anywhere on this forum (and basically we delete+ silence on that)
So at any circumstances you can reply less aggressive, keep being civil and avoid behaviour like this
pls don't go
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I will try.Corne2Plum3 wrote:
And well, basically someone to go f*ck themselves is obviously just straight up insulting for nothing. Language is inappropriate of course but really, you can reply better (although I don't have the context for this one but this sentence should never be used anyways)
And for hoping someone to die, it's just a big no-no. Wishing the death of someone is really inappropriate in any circumstance, and even if it's for joking, it's just not funny to maigh about the death of someone, and we won't tolerate such behavior anywhere on this forum (and basically we delete+ silence on that)
So at any circumstances you can reply less aggressive, keep being civil and avoid behaviour like this
I mean, I'm asking for it so I can see for myself. Maybe it didn't come from a place of anger. I fear it might have came from something else. Seeing it will help me out, but that's a fair stance to take as well.xch00F wrote:
no, tho that is definitely a spicy commentWinnyace wrote:
By any chance, is this the comment in question?
I generally do not report posts that I find to be personally offensive because even tho this is an incredibly shitty comment you'd find on /b/ it's coming from a place of anger and frustration and I don't begrudge people for those emotions
I did report the racist comment though, because it was racist
and I probably don't need to say this but I'm going to anyway, if corne (or any gmt seeing this thread) has access to the deleted post that I'm talking about, do not post it in the thread lmao. it's different than if I were to have posted it and is basically an admission of abuse of power
I'm trying, but it is kind of hard at the moment.igorsprite wrote:
pls don't go
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That is what I'm leaning towards. A day, at least, will, hopefully, help me a bit.ShinRun wrote:
Just take a break from OT
Winnyace wrote:
That is what I'm leaning towards. A day, at least, will, hopefully, help me a bit.ShinRun wrote:
Just take a break from OT
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Thank you sir that's very insightful indeed. Can I now please pat Vulpix?ColdTooth wrote:
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Goodbye and enjoy your break! We'll miss you around here. I've always thought you were pretty cool. Just a reminder: don't take everything too seriously. Take care! :D
Winnyace wrote:
Thank you sir that's very insightful indeed. Can I now please pat Vulpix?
Really, try not to take it to heart. (Duh, right? Easy for me to say.)
But I'm curious, what exactly do you perceive to be an insult? Because if it's just things like Tad saying "Linux bad" to rile you up then I'm a little worried for you.
But I'm curious, what exactly do you perceive to be an insult? Because if it's just things like Tad saying "Linux bad" to rile you up then I'm a little worried for you.
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Last reply I will give before I head out. Will come back on Monday.GSG95 wrote:
Really, try not to take it to heart. (Duh, right? Easy for me to say.)
But I'm curious, what exactly do you perceive to be an insult? Because if it's just things like Tad saying "Linux bad" to rile you up then I'm a little worried for you.
It is these little things, yes. Not just from one person, but multiple and sustained too. Like, today I woke up to Poly being a dickhead about me triple posting in my own thread and when I asked the GMTs, he was like "grow independence from them", like wtf. Then a thread that got locked where we were asked to give our hot takes and I got insulted there, among other people and it all ended up piling on top of my own personal BS outside of this forum and I simply couldn't take it. I know for some people, this is nothing, but it did make me feel stressed out, annoyed and frustrated.
disconnecting from the internet entirely for a bit is probably a good idea
when I wanna ignore posts online I'll sink a bunch of time into a video game or a book that's been on my bucket list for a while. if you bought a bunch of stuff during the recent steam sale now's as good a time as any to play something. or even if you didn't I'm sure you have vidya that you've "been meaning to get around to," perfect time to get around to them
here watch I'll do that now too
when I wanna ignore posts online I'll sink a bunch of time into a video game or a book that's been on my bucket list for a while. if you bought a bunch of stuff during the recent steam sale now's as good a time as any to play something. or even if you didn't I'm sure you have vidya that you've "been meaning to get around to," perfect time to get around to them
here watch I'll do that now too
see ya
i will say this though, i notice that you go postal far more than others. still, enjoy your time off
i will say this though, i notice that you go postal far more than others. still, enjoy your time off
Thinking that insulting someone is "funny" is really the dumbest most pathetic mindset you could have. Shame on these people.Winnyace wrote:
Maybe when y'all learn to behave yourselves I would able to talk here about what I want. More than half of you consider insulting another person, directly or indirectly, funny. It isn't at all. So, have fun. I'm done here.
Nevertheless, I hope you will be back stronger.
I’m sorry but probably the only thing you can do about this is just to become desensitized to all this. Now I might sound like massive dick for basically saying “oh just get used to it” but to be completely honest I just don’t see people changing their ways. Most people here are accustomed to that type of “humor” whether for good or bad and I doubt most of them will be changing that because one person called it disgusting.
I hope you have a good recovery at monday!
i think the advice of
it's not only about how to desensitize yourself either, given that at least a few people around off-topic, myself included, are arguably pretty sensitive as well. there are distinctions that can be made about what sensitivity necessarily means for each person, as our impressions and triggers and experiences and responses are all quite varied
it's something like where my form of sensitivity would be fear-oriented and limited more to either
or
before retreating for a moment...
...and where someone else's form of sensitivity may be described better by
which later is met by
until sometimes finding a resolution through
ultimately, while the immediate reflex can be conditioned with time, the response and interpretation itself is probably a more accessible target to experiment with. i like to focus more on explaining to myself some charitable reasons why someone would say something, if at all possible with the material they've given. as much as i faintly dislike some people and find myself a little wary around them, much of what exists between us would likely be a meaningful matter of differing contexts and priorities for our perspectives. it doesn't really prevent me from being critical about the probable effect of what someone says, but it at least can give me a way to make it make sense
...although i'm not sure that's necessarily what my process looks like. i think i'm rationalizing my guesses of what i'm doing, but i normally am not that thoroughly aware of what i'm doing at every present moment...
but hopefully that might be helpful enough to build some kind of foundation ^^
"desensitize yourself, most of time any implied insults were not intended, and explicit insults are not serious/sincere/meaningful" here might be a bit shallow, with respect to noticing that winny already has received similar advice beforeit's not only about how to desensitize yourself either, given that at least a few people around off-topic, myself included, are arguably pretty sensitive as well. there are distinctions that can be made about what sensitivity necessarily means for each person, as our impressions and triggers and experiences and responses are all quite varied
it's something like where my form of sensitivity would be fear-oriented and limited more to either
[a protective defense of someone i believe is being unfairly/disproportionately attacked] or
[an itchy obsession with needing to be correct/precise about things that may not matter] before retreating for a moment...
...and where someone else's form of sensitivity may be described better by
[a flaming reflex of raw anger/aggression] which later is met by
[bitter sulking and a depressive/remorseful retreat] until sometimes finding a resolution through
[genuine curiosity to repair damage done and prevent it in the future]ultimately, while the immediate reflex can be conditioned with time, the response and interpretation itself is probably a more accessible target to experiment with. i like to focus more on explaining to myself some charitable reasons why someone would say something, if at all possible with the material they've given. as much as i faintly dislike some people and find myself a little wary around them, much of what exists between us would likely be a meaningful matter of differing contexts and priorities for our perspectives. it doesn't really prevent me from being critical about the probable effect of what someone says, but it at least can give me a way to make it make sense
...although i'm not sure that's necessarily what my process looks like. i think i'm rationalizing my guesses of what i'm doing, but i normally am not that thoroughly aware of what i'm doing at every present moment...
but hopefully that might be helpful enough to build some kind of foundation ^^